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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First couple of minutes I think everyone gets nervous but when I get the ball rolling I lose the nervousness and get really confident and easily get on with the person I'm seeing  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes but much like the wise old woman Rubi, my nerves are a sign of positive adrenaline. Almost a giddiness to see the other person. I quite enjoy them. They usually disappear after a few minutes but I do laugh a lot and stay... not giddy. But... excited. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had my first fab meet on Saturday and I didn't feel myself.
She seemed very confident and relaxed about it.. But I felt like a little shy school girl  Lol.
It went well though and we since chatted and she told me I was nervous.
She could sense it.
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I always get nervous and prefer to meet outside a venue so I know they are there rather than walk in alone
Never had a bad meet, a couple of them I won’t meet again but they were nice enough so not a waste of time or nerves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For sure. Most times I get so nervous I want to back out because I think I must be off my head for believing someone genuinely wants to meet me, and if they do then they must have something wrong with them.
Then I wonder if they're a murderer or something as I'm on my way and I imagine all the bad things that could happen.
After a few minutes I'm sound.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For sure. Most times I get so nervous I want to back out because I think I must be off my head for believing someone genuinely wants to meet me, and if they do then they must have something wrong with them.
Then I wonder if they're a murderer or something as I'm on my way and I imagine all the bad things that could happen.
After a few minutes I'm sound.
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Sounds like me
I think to myself, why do someone want to meet me, out of all the men on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, never. I suppose it's because I accept the outcome could be miss rather than hit. That happens. That's life. It's no biggie. It's hard to explain, but I kinda know beforehand that everything will be cool. I've got a certain way of taking control of a situation and making people feel comfortable. A lot of people tell me as soon as they meet me they feel they've known me forever. And I've got confidence in that. So no, I don't get nervous.
I used to though. Terribly. But I got over it over the years. |
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Nervous, oh yes!
On a couple of occasions, I've been an absolute gibbering wreck.
I still get silly giggly butterflies even when I've met someone dozens of times.
If I didn't feel that way, I wouldn't want to see them again
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