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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"usually careful doing this, specially if it’s a single guy, cause sometimes they’re just after wank fodder."
This  was working in Glasgow and had a meet arranged. It was building up for a couple of weeks, on the day in question, while getting ready, the sexting got hot, exchanging pics and such.. Then I get a message, "sorry, gonna pass on the meet thanks for the virtual finger blast' Gutted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it the head play the planning all builds the intensity and desire it crucial its the main reason i made my 5 message flow rule sex is empty without it usually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really like the planning and the anticipation. I like the flirting. A bit of sex talk is ok too but not too much. "
I agree yeah. It’s like getting a Christmas present. You don’t want to totally spoil the surprise but a few hints and maybe a quick peek definitely add to the anticipation |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Rarely. Sometimes it effortlessly flows and I quite enjoy that. Others it makes me  at the clichéd, generic, oft doled out lines and it dries me up effectively. I like the flirty chats, the anticipation. The adrenaline rush that side can bring. The sexting stuff... meh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"usually careful doing this, specially if it’s a single guy, cause sometimes they’re just after wank fodder."
I don't mention sex until I've met them in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re giving it Billy Bigballs before a meet in text, saying I’m going to rock your world and send you to heaven and back, then you’re setting yourself up to disappoint them. Far better to play down expectations, then anything else is a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts.  |
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If I'm quietly confident it's going to lead to a play then what's the harm in reading the fuck out of him with a cheeky text. I often ask if he's gonna bring some condoms....an innocent enough question but his mind isn't thinking about supplying condoms..hes thinking about fucking me! |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"If I'm quietly confident it's going to lead to a play then what's the harm in reading the fuck out of him with a cheeky text. I often ask if he's gonna bring some condoms....an innocent enough question but his mind isn't thinking about supplying condoms..hes thinking about fucking me!"
All ready forgotten about the condoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy it... but I almost never do it.
Speaking about all the things you're going to do to one another, then finally meeting and nothing exciting actually happens can be a major disappointment!
I tend to leave the sex chat until after I've met someone
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
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"Who else enjoys dirty texting running up to a meet especially new meets when they are still virtual strangers ??"
Love this, the downside is after you’ve had sex you go back to being strangers again, or is that just some of the guys I’ve met?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts. "
It's a good way to find out if they will accept "no" for an answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts.
It's a good way to find out if they will accept "no" for an answer. "
Most genuine guys will |
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts.
It's a good way to find out if they will accept "no" for an answer.
Most genuine guys will "
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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts.
It's a good way to find out if they will accept "no" for an answer.
Most genuine guys will "
We had a similar experience which has made us wary and not so open until we start to establish some trust and they except boundaries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I can, especially if we click with someone. But I don’t do it often as one guy promised the world and delivered nothing x "
That’s my mantra on life. Always under promise and try to over deliver. Sadly most people do the opposite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts. "
This is why I never do sexy chat before meeting. I feel it creates an expectation. For me, a social is just a social, no sex talk, no touching, no kissing.
Are you like your photos ?
Do I like your personality in the flesh ?
Do you like me ?
Can you keep your hands to yourself ?
How do you behave after a social eg bombing with texts etc. |
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"Who else enjoys dirty texting running up to a meet especially new meets when they are still virtual strangers ??"
Absolutely love it. We generally meet with couples and a What’s App group set up leading to a meet is fantastic fun . . .  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Who else enjoys dirty texting running up to a meet especially new meets when they are still virtual strangers ??
Love this, the downside is after you’ve had sex you go back to being strangers again, or is that just some of the guys I’ve met? "
yep its called "next". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a bit of a tease a d some rude chatter, but it becomes a bit pointless after a while. Id rather you could say it into my ear what you were about to do, rather than leave me frustrated and deflated at the end of a message. |
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"I like a bit of a tease a d some rude chatter, but it becomes a bit pointless after a while. Id rather you could say it into my ear what you were about to do, rather than leave me frustrated and deflated at the end of a message. "
I can leave you frustrated and deflated at the end of a meet instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of a tease a d some rude chatter, but it becomes a bit pointless after a while. Id rather you could say it into my ear what you were about to do, rather than leave me frustrated and deflated at the end of a message.
I can leave you frustrated and deflated at the end of a meet instead "
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
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"Sometimes the build up is better than the real thing.
Been there and done that one as well, all seems a good night is promising and then a damp squib "
Think sometimes there’s a tendency for some guys (just speaking from my own experience) can build themselves up too much / put too much pressure on themselves to perform - over promise and then find they either under deliver or can’t deliver at all. But in general I do like having a bit of sexy build up banter on messaging apps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did it a while ago on a meet with someone not on the site but he seem to think it meant it was a binding contract and was really forceful and pushy quoting my sexts.
This is why I never do sexy chat before meeting. I feel it creates an expectation. For me, a social is just a social, no sex talk, no touching, no kissing.
Are you like your photos ?
Do I like your personality in the flesh ?
Do you like me ?
Can you keep your hands to yourself ?
How do you behave after a social eg bombing with texts etc."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not with new meets no.. I'm the opposite if u don't know him enough it would completely put me off him.
With a current meet or someone I have at least socialled with then hell yes! I've been talking filth all morning with my fwb and our plans for tonight. |
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