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A question for all the swinging couples...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Off the back of another thread, I'm curious. And this question is for couples who swing.
Do you kiss anyone other than your partner?
It's a non judgemental question, I'm just intrigued at what people's response is. Because I think kissing is a massive part of sex.
What's your opinions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends who the man is...
I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed 
But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.
So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).
But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.
It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll try that again lol as it made no sense
I do when i meet with Jack,its all part or the build up for me."
I think that it's really important in the build up to the act itself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends who the man is...
I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed
But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.
So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).
But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.
It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op) "
I don't judge anyone, apart from out of 10
I'm kidding. But there is no point and everyone has their own opinion and choice. I was just curious about people's thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends who the man is...
I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed
But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.
So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).
But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.
It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op)
I don't judge anyone, apart from out of 10
I'm kidding. But there is no point and everyone has their own opinion and choice. I was just curious about people's thoughts."
Folk tend to come onto these threads and say how daft it is that people won’t kiss... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, totally. I can't imagine sex without kissing. We live lots of sensual kisses.
Why do you think it might be omitted?"
Because to some it can be seen as a personal act. And more sensual than the actual sex itself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We both kiss as long as it feels right and we want to kiss the other person and really enjoy it, but totally respect others who don’t want to share that intimate side. "
See that's what I was intrigued about. Surely it must seem strange being with someone and actually caring about them, then kissing someone else? |
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"We both kiss as long as it feels right and we want to kiss the other person and really enjoy it, but totally respect others who don’t want to share that intimate side.
See that's what I was intrigued about. Surely it must seem strange being with someone and actually caring about them, then kissing someone else?"
Most swinging couples have talked about their boundaries for a very long time and learned along the way which ones can be pushed and which are set in stone. If they're comfortable with seeing their partner kiss someone else they'll know and have no problem. If like us its something neither of us wants they'll know that too. It's because they care about each other that they know if it's something they will or won't do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could happily and would happily not kiss another bloke ever. I think kissing can feel more intimate than sex, yet I could happily kiss other women and it not have that same sensation about it. It's a gentle, sensual intimacy that's just different.
People can fall in love with that first kiss, and that frightens me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This came up before our first meet. I wasn’t sure I wanted my wife to kiss other guys it felt too intimate. However after couple of meets one guy wanted to kiss her I said go ahead and it was very erotic to watch so anyone she wants to kiss now she does. But as with all things on fab it is done to individuals preference |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
Scottish Borders |
It's a strange one for us. Mrs doesn't like to see me kissing anyone else but I love to watch her kissing when we're playing. I try hard not to but it's quite difficult, in the moment, to not kiss someone when we're playing.
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I wouldn't arrange to meet anyone if they said kissing wouldn't happen, At a club/party if they said no kissing I would decide then if I wanted to go through with it, Kissing is a big thing for me and would feel strange not doing it |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
For me personally on a sexual meet it’s an essential part of the meet.
I’ve engaged in meets that have been geared towards BDSM much more than sex and not kissed, not felt the desire or the need.
Kissing is definitely a sensual, erotic act, itself an actual part of sex
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"Off the back of another thread, I'm curious. And this question is for couples who swing.
Do you kiss anyone other than your partner?
It's a non judgemental question, I'm just intrigued at what people's response is. Because I think kissing is a massive part of sex.
What's your opinions?"
Yes we do. It’s not the be all and end all. We’re just kinda no pain no anal and safesex always! |
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