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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself looking at who that person has met just to see their "past" ?
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No. I prefer to take people at face value, people change over time, provided I feel they're being honest and open with me, I tend not to bother looking at veris, unless their profile is quite sparse, in which case I might. |
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"I like reading veris. Sometimes it gives me a sense of that person. I make my mind up through messaging them though, not who they have met x"
Oh yes, I definitely look at veris to get a sense of someone, but not like in terms of who's fucked who and when etc. More, what can I tell about the person. |
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No, I don't typically have an interest in anyone but the profile that I'm looking at. It's time consuming enough just keeping on top of checking people out and messaging, without confusing it with greater overload.
Someone's past is their personal business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Just go on their messages. After a few, I’ll read their profile. I don’t check pics until much later. Veris not at all as you can choose which ones to choose and it reminds me too much of Amazon reviews- easy to manipulate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you read what some of the blokes put, it puts you off a bit.
"Her BJ skills are second to none, she took all my load down her throat"
That kind of thing. Just a bit put off by ones like that, dunno why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them. "
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you read what some of the blokes put, it puts you off a bit.
"Her BJ skills are second to none, she took all my load down her throat"
That kind of thing. Just a bit put off by ones like that, dunno why. "
Don’t blame you. Would put me off too. Don’t see the need for explicit veris like that personally, I wouldn’t even show it although I can’t see any of the people I’ve met doing a veri like that anyway. (Maybe coz my BJ skills are crap  ) |
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"When you read what some of the blokes put, it puts you off a bit.
"Her BJ skills are second to none, she took all my load down her throat"
That kind of thing. Just a bit put off by ones like that, dunno why. "
I can't control what others say about me. Only what I say about others. Mine aren't of the TMI graphic detail school. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens - a woman told me that she wouldn’t meet me because I’d met someone she obviously had a problem with. Pretty shallow if you ask me."
No it’s not really. I’ve not met someone purely because they’ve met someone I can’t stand and who had loads of bareback pics. I don’t believe in judging other people for what they do but if it’s affecting me personally I’ll damn well judge away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then? "
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither. |
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"It happens - a woman told me that she wouldn’t meet me because I’d met someone she obviously had a problem with. Pretty shallow if you ask me.
No it’s not really. I’ve not met someone purely because they’ve met someone I can’t stand and who had loads of bareback pics. I don’t believe in judging other people for what they do but if it’s affecting me personally I’ll damn well judge away! "
I wouldn't choose to meet based on my feelings on a third party, but I certainly would and do based on safe sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither."
See I don’t agree with that. I would still message if I were you. I’ve met someone with a pretty chiselled body but I prefer more of a dad bod. It’s not all about cock size and fit bods x |
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"i look at pictures and personal bio
some verifications are too detailed for me, I prefer not to know"
Same here, what goes off in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom  
I've read some quite humorous ones though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither.
See I don’t agree with that. I would still message if I were you. I’ve met someone with a pretty chiselled body but I prefer more of a dad bod. It’s not all about cock size and fit bods x"
This is based on a bad experience just after joining FAB 3 years or so ago.
Met such a woman (No longer on here I might add) who only met that type of guy, chiselled bod and massive cock.
She proceeded to laugh at my cock and took the piss out it in front of me, not a nice experience, I certainly don't want to repeat it hence my reluctance to message such ladies. |
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither.
See I don’t agree with that. I would still message if I were you. I’ve met someone with a pretty chiselled body but I prefer more of a dad bod. It’s not all about cock size and fit bods x"
Yeah my veris are all over the place there. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It happens - a woman told me that she wouldn’t meet me because I’d met someone she obviously had a problem with. Pretty shallow if you ask me."
I'm that shallow one unfortunately it doesn't matter how much I try not to be. But as someone else has said they are manipulated, some we show some we dont some never happened at all.
If I'm going to share myself with you then to me its important more so when meeting another formunite as I dont wish to land into one big hole of hassle for whatever reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither.
See I don’t agree with that. I would still message if I were you. I’ve met someone with a pretty chiselled body but I prefer more of a dad bod. It’s not all about cock size and fit bods x
This is based on a bad experience just after joining FAB 3 years or so ago.
Met such a woman (No longer on here I might add) who only met that type of guy, chiselled bod and massive cock.
She proceeded to laugh at my cock and took the piss out it in front of me, not a nice experience, I certainly don't want to repeat it hence my reluctance to message such ladies."
Oh wow! That’s shit. Some people are just plain horrid xx |
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither.
See I don’t agree with that. I would still message if I were you. I’ve met someone with a pretty chiselled body but I prefer more of a dad bod. It’s not all about cock size and fit bods x
This is based on a bad experience just after joining FAB 3 years or so ago.
Met such a woman (No longer on here I might add) who only met that type of guy, chiselled bod and massive cock.
She proceeded to laugh at my cock and took the piss out it in front of me, not a nice experience, I certainly don't want to repeat it hence my reluctance to message such ladies."
She sounds like a nasty piece of work x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens - a woman told me that she wouldn’t meet me because I’d met someone she obviously had a problem with. Pretty shallow if you ask me.
I'm that shallow one unfortunately it doesn't matter how much I try not to be. But as someone else has said they are manipulated, some we show some we dont some never happened at all.
If I'm going to share myself with you then to me its important more so when meeting another formunite as I dont wish to land into one big hole of hassle for whatever reason.
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That too! Been there. Never again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always look at veris, not to judge, but to see if they have been verified by someone we know, or strongly believe, to be genuine.
Just due diligence in ing out potential fakes.
Doesn't guarantee anything of course, but you can only do what you can do |
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither."
You souldn't let that put you off. My two best experiences have been with guys totally opposite in that way, one had the biggest and one had the smallest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I read their veris to see what sort of guys they meet. If they only meet guys with certain attributes i dont have then i wont message them.
So if they tend to meet men with bloody amazing thighs you give them a miss then?
Ha, never going to better than mine
If a woman.has a string of veris all from guys with chiselled bods or they all have huge cocks then I won't bother as I have neither."
Mate, you'd be surprised. Just because a person only seems to be meeting a certain type of person. Or seeking a certain type of person.. it doesn't mean you wouldn't pop up on their radar.
I get the odd message from someone who falls out of the preferences I have, but don't openly state. Something about them wins me over in a different way.
I'm sure I've weasled myself between someone's legs using charm and charisma to overcome my height or other things I lack.
Thee who dares.. Just keep it cheeky. |
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ergo half the males on here are blocked....bless em 
