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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies
I'm no good at this fab shit, I go from brushing men off too early to being far too keen which then makes me look desperado.
I can't seem to get it right and end up looking like a dickhead
Please be nice I'm on the verge of going unlos and just being an unhappy, repressed old mare.
Any advice will be gratefully received |
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"Ladies
I'm no good at this fab shit, I go from brushing men off too early to being far too keen which then makes me look desperado.
I can't seem to get it right and end up looking like a dickhead
Please be nice I'm on the verge of going unlos and just being an unhappy, repressed old mare.
Any advice will be gratefully received "
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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My advice would be don’t try too hard, relax, be yourself and if you’re compatible it will progress. Don’t put yourself under any pressure. I hope you stay OP and find a way to enjoy it even if it doesn’t lead to anything in particular  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some good advice in posts above, OP. Take a breather from Fab if you need to, and take things at your own pace, one that suits you. If some men think you take too long to arrange a meet- sod them, just be yourself and don't let people push you into doing things you don't want. On the other hand, if you do feel like you want a release, some fun as soon as, it's fine, too. Women are allowed to have sexual needs, too, and it doesn't make us desperate  .
Enjoy and try not to overthink it  |
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My speed is generally slow, so it's probably tough to appear too keen. I also leave most of the initiation and follow up to them.
Are you certain that these guys are perceiving you this way? Some men go hot and cold, whatever you do.
If you're finding you brush some off too quickly, make a point of suspending your actions for a while, unless there are sensible reasons for blocking, such as safety. You could possibly meet a couple of them for a follow on coffee one afternoon, to make a fuller evaluation.
Aim to make rational decisions, instead of just emotional ones in isolation
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