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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Because they can

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are? "

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

To reduce message traffic.

They might have been made an offer they can’t refuse.

Because they changed their mind

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Common sense really. They're generally not meeting, but they might make an exception for someone they really want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not but i might if someone catches my eye..

Why?

Because I can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

She might have already had those meets lined up and isn't meeting anyone new for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?"

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

She already had those meets planned and that's why she couldn't meet you.

Or they verified her now but met her a while ago.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Women tend to meet when they want sex. Could be these 3 guys turned her on.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh? "

I misunderstand your point, they are not meeting just "anyone", they are meeting "someone" they wish to meet.... I think overly concerning yourself with how someone chooses to manage their own profile and time detracts from what you could be doing.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh? "

You are aware this is a swingers site? Maybe she went to a club/social/had a gang bang. It’s up to her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are? "

oh wow you,ve sussed

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It could be a polite way of saying she's not interested, although I'm not sure polite is the right word!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

She already had those meets planned and that's why she couldn't meet you.

Or they verified her now but met her a while ago. "

They didn't meet awhile ago.

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By *abrina59TV/TS over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

A women's perogative

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please. "

But it is my turn next....... right?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh? "

What's your point exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

You are aware this is a swingers site? Maybe she went to a club/social/had a gang bang. It’s up to her "

I'm aware. The guys were local men though. It didn't happen at a club.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

But it is my turn next....... right?"

Ticket number 78?

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If someones interested in meeting you, they will.

If you get tumble and the old "not meeting" line then they aren't interested.

Thems the breaks.

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By *iss LovelyWoman over a year ago

Here and There

It sounds like it was an indirect way of saying she wasn’t interested. Sounds like there were other people she’d prefer to meet, and so she has.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

But it is my turn next....... right?

Ticket number 78? "

Woohooo! I'm on the list boys... Can't wait till April 2021, fuck I can't go UNLOS

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Would you shag Susan Boyle OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please. "

I wanted to meet her for a coffee. Not just sex.. She was the one who aproached me and asked for my number.

And after I asked her to meet, she says she doesn't want to meet anyone at all.

Now I see three recent veris

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

But it is my turn next....... right?

Ticket number 78?

Woohooo! I'm on the list boys... Can't wait till April 2021, fuck I can't go UNLOS"

I'll do two or three at a time, get through them quicker then

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are? "

Because someone who grabs their imagination and they want to get to know them more.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

But it is my turn next....... right?

Ticket number 78? "

I've got 77 ... what's going on?

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

Oh I see..must have been disappointing but people do change their minds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because someone who grabs their imagination and they want to get to know them more. "

Yeah you haven't got women for a minute online

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"what's going on?

Is that in an Eastenders accent?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

That Susan Boyle keeps sneaking off with gym rats

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"what's going on?

Is that in an Eastenders accent?

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly? "

Hasn't it already been made? My point is why do some ladies initiate a conversation message then ask for my phone number, then tell me they would like to meet, but are in no situation to meet anyone at the moment and then.. The next time I see the profile there are three different veris from men

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

You are aware this is a swingers site? Maybe she went to a club/social/had a gang bang. It’s up to her

I'm aware. The guys were local men though. It didn't happen at a club. "

It's her prerogative

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would you shag Susan Boyle OP? "

Maybe a lookalike

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that. "

She's not in a position to meet you. She may have been already chatting with them and have things lined up, she may have just felt horny on those days and they were nearby. You'll never know her reasoning and it's your choice whether you wait or not, she's done nothing wrong.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"Would you shag Susan Boyle OP?

Maybe a lookalike

You are getting a lot of answers which are guesses, I would ask the lady concerned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless there was a contract signed in blood by both of you theres not really anything to be done about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait. "

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Unless there was a contract signed in blood by both of you theres not really anything to be done about it

I know, I just can't help ranting sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her. "

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet. "

That message will go down a storm I bet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet. "

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

That message will go down a storm I bet

I'm just intrigued to know what her thoughts about it are.

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By *ireupthequattroCouple over a year ago

Stratford

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants. "

I know, however I would like one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one "

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

"
maybe a gentler way of letting you down ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

That message will go down a storm I bet

I'm just intrigued to know what her thoughts about it are.

I would guess it is non of your business and would quite probably say as much

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices "

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

Or perhaps they are just trying to let a guy down gently?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around? "

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on"

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that. "
plus the amount of abusive messages I hear of women getting on here if she was to tell people she didn't want to meet to just fuck off it would open up a barrage of insults to come her way (not saying you would) but I know alot would and have done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

It really irritates me when guys think they are entitled to meet a woman just because she is on here and they like her. This is supposed to be a no strings attached swingers site since when did anyone have to explain themselves to some randomer who think they are 'next in line' ? Absolutely disgusting way to behave.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

You are aware this is a swingers site? Maybe she went to a club/social/had a gang bang. It’s up to her

I'm aware. The guys were local men though. It didn't happen at a club. "

So what business is it of yours who she neets? To be honest after reading this post and your comments I can totally understand why she didn't meet you. I wouldn't have been quite as polite as her though, I would have told you straight that hell wouod freeze over before I would meet you lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different. "

You wouldnt be a little bit miffed if you got a slightly accusatory message saying 'why did you meet them and not me. Im local, Im horny, you said you would meet me. Why didnt you meet me.' That wouldnt get your back up at all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please. "

^ THIS! ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would you shag Susan Boyle OP? "

Ha ha i love this x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say it's pretty obvious she just didn't wanna meet you and for some reason didn't wanna say.

Would you have asked her why not?

Can't imagine she'll give you an explanation, I wouldn't.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

I would say it's pretty obvious she just didn't wanna meet you and for some reason didn't wanna say.

Would you have asked her why not?

Can't imagine she'll give you an explanation, I wouldn't. "
no need for one why should anyone have to explain themselves for there own choices

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman over a year ago

Pontypridd

Why have you messaged her? Do you think it will achieve anything positive? She probably changed her mind and didn’t have the guts to tell you. Given your reaction here she may have been perceptive in anticipating some negativity.

She didn’t matter to you last week so she shouldn’t now, but you are tying yourself in knots about her. Do what you should have done originally - block her and move on. You’ll feel better for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

You are aware this is a swingers site? Maybe she went to a club/social/had a gang bang. It’s up to her

I'm aware. The guys were local men though. It didn't happen at a club.

Whatever for!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait. "

No she simply changed her mind. Sometimes as you chat to guys you initially fancied you realise that they are not for you so you change your mind. It is allowed. Having a conversation does not entitle you to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants. "

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different.

No that's thats what you think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one "

You have issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation "

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

carry on justifying your need to know OP, but you are commuting fabicide.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different.

No that's thats what you think"

Defending your personal sexual choices to a grumpy stranger. Ok then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

maybe a gentler way of letting you down ?"

I've had 2 ladies pm me in the last couple of months, just for a social, neither have got back since(I did say that the ball's in your court) but I won't keep pestering them for a meet, it's entirely up to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different.

No that's thats what you think

Defending your personal sexual choices to a grumpy stranger. Ok then

How do you mean!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

No one is disagreeing with you cos you have a penis. They're disagreeing because you're wanting an explanation from a woman on a swingers site as to why she met other people instead of you. I find it strange you don't understand why people think that's ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

I think you'll be disappointed. I'd block a guy that questioned my choices

How would you feel and what would you do, if it was the other way around?

I'm an adult and understand that if a guys wants to meet others, he will. I wouldn't be annoyed and I wouldn't question him. I'd move on

Well I guess it's no big deal to you, because you are female and women get the chance all the time.. But for me it's different.

No that's thats what you think

Defending your personal sexual choices to a grumpy stranger. Ok then

How do you mean!? "

I have never pushed anyone to meet me on this site or initiated talking about sex with anyone. You can ask all the ladies online about me.

If they have received messages from me.. You go ahead and ask them about me.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP not sure why you think you should get an explanation - there are any number of possible reasons she may have met these guys and not you and frankly it's none of your business what they are.

And to pull the rug from under your "it's alright for women they get plenty of chances" argument - if someone came to me asking why I'd met others when I'd said I wasn't meeting - I'd in all likelihood tell them to take a hike.

So what if she contacted you first and asked for your number? Maybe through chatting to you she realised you were not for her, and when you suggested meeting the "not meeting right now" line was an easy way out to avoid potential abuse - and I know you're going to say "but I wouldn't have given abuse" but she doesn't *know* that.

Either way it didn't work out - best thing you can do is forget about it and move on, it's what I do when it happens to me - yes you do wonder what the reasons are, but you'll never know so pointless stewing on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way "

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way "

maybe because your way isnt right

.. why do you need an explanation it's happened get over it ... it will happen again guaranteed.. and been pushy for an explanation will only put her off if there was a genuine reason and she did intend to get back to you at a later date .. your only screwing yourself over ..lighten up and move on

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way "

Maybe, because to most of us, who have been here a while, and doing OK.

Your way and the way you come accross, really is a bit of a red flag

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong? "

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently"

I beg to differ. But yaknow, whatever helps

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong? "

Maybe he thinks that 2 wrongs make a right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I say on my profile I'm not meeting.

I am however still going to socials, clubs and party's.

Im still meeting women so yes I'm still meeting but it's very different to what I had before so to save wasting time I say I'm not meeting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Things can be said, for you to take them literally, or they could have a euphemism behind them. Not meeting you now is what it sounds like.

Don't fixate on people. Explore many options and if someone tells you it's no, just now, you move on. Imagine that they know you are thinking this and consider that they may have had their suspicions confirmed. And others reading this likewise.

I take ages to meet people, for many reasons. New interests and general messages reduce my speed -it's a good way to help manage time, resources and expectations that way.

If you are feeling a type or level of interest in someone that they are not wanting, it is likely that they will know and it will potentially repel them.

Consider adjusting your expectations and behaviour.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently

I beg to differ. But yaknow, whatever helps

"
it would of gone differently from the start with you posting OP if your attitude towards it was different everyone gets how annoying it would be but u arnt owed an explanation (ace said it happened to him... it happens ... I'm sure it happens to women too )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not meating. But that's probably a quite different matter and I'll probably change my mind when I smell those sausages for breakfast.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently"

A woman would have most likely got the same responses. No one owes anyone on this site an explanation as to why they do the things they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently

A woman would have most likely got the same responses. No one owes anyone on this site an explanation as to why they do the things they do. "

If a woman had posted the way you had we’d think possible crazy stalker lady. How would we know they would accept it and move on if we didn’t feel comfortable when we met and decided not to take things further, if they can’t accept we aren’t meeting for a while.

Because it’s a man posting like this we would think it’s a possible crazy stalker man etc

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

You sound possessive tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

But the guy she did meet maybe fitted what she was looking for at that time.

The only way of knowing is to ask her.

There were three guys. All seperate meets. I messaged her, but I haven't heard from her yet.

she doesn't owe you an explanation. she can do what she wants with who she wants.

I know, however I would like one

You have issues"

That makes two of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

If she felt horny I could of been in her house in under 10 mins, thats hoe local she is to me. I know she's done nothing wrong.. It just seems as she's been taking the piss all the time.

I won't wait.

You don't know the situation

Maybe you should explain the situation better then?

It doesn't seem to matter what some men say in these forums, because people allways take the side of the woman and their minds are already made up.

There are many sheep in these forums when it comes to many topics.

It's funny....it's only ever the guys people don't agree with who day things like that.

I find it strange how people try to make something out of nothing in these threads. I also find it strange how people don't see things my way

Not sure what you mean about making something out of nothing...but have you ever thought that maybe if everyone is telling you you're wrong, maybe you could be wrong?

Yes and I have also thought that if a women had posted this, it would of gone very differently

A woman would have most likely got the same responses. No one owes anyone on this site an explanation as to why they do the things they do.

Because it’s a man posting like this we would think it’s a possible crazy stalker man etc"

Just look at how other posts go

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that. "

You actually only said she initiated it and asked for your number AFTER I asked what your point was.

There's no point making a forum post everytime someone does something you don't like, people change their minds and she's well within her rights to meet whoever the hell she wants whenever she wants without answering to a man she's never met.

Long story short, it's none of your business who and when she meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mickey mate, please stop. I may piss meeself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Geez so many of you going on about an explanation.

What you all don't know is we've been chatting on whatapp for ages and we still do almost every night.. I saw the veris on her fab when I looked at it tonight and I was surprised.

I think many of you here need to chill out about.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"Geez so many of you going on about an explanation.

What you all don't know is we've been chatting on whatapp for ages and we still do almost every night.. I saw the veris on her fab when I looked at it tonight and I was surprised.

I think many of you here need to chill out about. "

I believe you are the one who needs to chill out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here. "

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A bit?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

Quite simply you are on her "if I get really desperate" list

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Reading this makes me feel like such a bad guy.

I see I've been blocked too. I really can't see how I've been so bad.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit. "

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Reading this makes me feel like such a bad guy.

I see I've been blocked too. I really can't see how I've been so bad.

Because you don't listen, you just use silly excuses. If everyone tells you the same thing, you should really take it on board.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit. "

I am chilled though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Reading this makes me feel like such a bad guy.

I see I've been blocked too. I really can't see how I've been so bad.

Because you don't listen, you just use silly excuses. If everyone tells you the same thing, you should really take it on board. "

What haven't I listened to and what excuses are you talking about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, can I offer some advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, can I offer some advice?"

You can

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By *heSassyOneWoman over a year ago

SE Michigan

Op, Those verifications really could have been weeks, months ago & other person just decided to post. I wouldn’t worry about it , especially if she still chats with you,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post "

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, can I offer some advice?

You can "

You seem like you're confused as to why people are getting a certain impression of you and insisting that you are different ("chilled" etc). I don't think anyone thinks you're a bad guy. You're just coming across as though you feel entitled in some way. People are just trying to point out that she owes you nothing, just because it seems she's interested or has given you signals. She's free to change her mind and tbh that's none of your business unless she decides to tell you why.

Read over your threads/posts asend though someone else wrote them, maybe you'll see how your humour

or the way you put your point across can be misunderstood.

Generally speaking, if you're that outnumbered with your view point, there's a reason for it.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post? "

Is that what I said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op, Those verifications really could have been weeks, months ago & other person just decided to post. I wouldn’t worry about it , especially if she still chats with you, "

I'm not worried about it. Just abit surprised and baffled by it considering.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The answer to this is very simple.

The women on this site rule.

So you need to understand this and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post?

Is that what I said?"

That's what I just said

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Reading this makes me feel like such a bad guy.

I see I've been blocked too. I really can't see how I've been so bad.

Because you don't listen, you just use silly excuses. If everyone tells you the same thing, you should really take it on board.

What haven't I listened to and what excuses are you talking about? "

People telling you it's none of your business and that you aren't owed an explanation.

You use the excuse that you're male and that's why you're getting these responses.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post?

Is that what I said?

That's what I just said "

But is that what I said? Or did I say something entirely different and dissimilar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, can I offer some advice?

You can

Read over your threads/posts asend though someone else wrote them, maybe you'll see how your humour

or the way you put your point across can be misunderstood.

Generally speaking, if you're that outnumbered with your view point, there's a reason for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post?

Is that what I said?

That's what I just said

But is that what I said? Or did I say something entirely different and dissimilar?"

Didn't I just say, that is what I said? Lol

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"It seems like lots of you are trying to make an argument in these forums.

A lot of drama queens here.

Coming from the guy that made a forum post about a woman he's never met meeting other men

Honestly, you're messing up any chance of ever meeting with these whiny, entitled threads. I've defended you before but seriously, you need to chill out abit.

Oh he fucked that with the subo post

You took offence by my Susan Boyle post?

Is that what I said?

That's what I just said

But is that what I said? Or did I say something entirely different and dissimilar?

Didn't I just say, that is what I said? Lol"

Well you'd can't teach stupid in schools.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is OP, women have a mind, and the right to change it at any time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She wants them and not you...simple...no need for questions or posts about it...accept and move on like most other people would

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"She wants them and not you...simple...no need for questions or posts about it...accept and move on like most other people would "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Reading this makes me feel like such a bad guy.

I see I've been blocked too. I really can't see how I've been so bad.

Because you don't listen, you just use silly excuses. If everyone tells you the same thing, you should really take it on board.

What haven't I listened to and what excuses are you talking about?

People telling you it's none of your business and that you aren't owed an explanation.

You use the excuse that you're male and that's why you're getting these responses."

Okay fair enough.. I'm not disagreeing with that or keeping it up.

And I stay with what i said about being male. I've noticed when a woman asks the same question.. People are like (especially men) "awe he shoudnt be like that, I'd meet you x x"...

Thats how it is. Its the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are people here who just get off on feeling wanted. Women and men who advertise themselves with carefully worded messages and profile statements, in an attempt to gain positive response from the opposite sex? There are genuine folks here, but they are few and far between now. I expect my reply will draw criticism from some people. And those people are likely to be the genuine ones.

We dont all have positive experiences here unfortunately. In my honest opinion, I think that some people here have a very unhealthy attitude toward sex, likely due to porn and insecurity. I include myself in that last comment by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thing is OP, women have a mind, and the right to change it at any time."

I didn't know that SMH

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There are people here who just get off on feeling wanted. Women and men who advertise themselves with carefully worded messages and profile statements, in an attempt to gain positive response from the opposite sex? There are genuine folks here, but they are few and far between now. I expect my reply will draw criticism from some people. And those people are likely to be the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The answer to this is very simple.

The women on this site rule.

So you need to understand this and move on.

Right

Good night everyone

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

Precisely this

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By *arbellsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are? "

Just a quick observation its says on your profile you're on here for the forums but your planning on meeting this woman? Staying on here for the forums would indicate to me you aren't meeting?! I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

The male experience of fab is very different to the female one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

It's possible to use the forums and meet someone at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

Gender equality at it's best! ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

The male experience of fab is very different to the female one. "

100%

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By *arbellsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

The male experience of fab is very different to the female one. "

Yes I can imagine but he is ranting about a woman saying she isnt meeting but has 3 veris bit then gives off the impression he isnt meeting but then is planning to!

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By *arbellsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

It's possible to use the forums and meet someone at the same time

Of course it is.

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By *ueen of the SouthWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Done possibilities include..

They're picky

They're ploughing through a massive list of potentials

They have guys that they already know

They create rules to break

They're simply not meeting you

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By *ueen of the SouthWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Some possibilities include..

They're picky

They're ploughing through a massive list of potentials

They have guys that they already know

They create rules to break

They're simply not meeting you

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By *ueen of the SouthWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Because they can

Gender equality at it's best! ????"

Well that's what's its like every day for women living in a patriarchal society.

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By *ueen of the SouthWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that.

Precisely this

Bang on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can

Gender equality at it's best! ????

Well that's what's its like every day for women living in a patriarchal society. "

I'm not saying I like either situation. It just seems a bit fucked up how some females are hung up on gender discrimination but are basically using their sex for power. If you truly want to have true equality then why do so many females here sell it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think she had a lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do guys beg on here.Why do they act like creeps and say your the most stunning women on here.Why do they act like desperate idiots.

Men and women lie to get what they want so don't say it's just women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do guys beg on here.Why do they act like creeps and say your the most stunning women on here.Why do they act like desperate idiots.

Men and women lie to get what they want so don't say it's just women."

You must realise that the women here outnumber the men vastly? And most female profiles have naked photos accompanied by profiles stating that they want sex? And the "desperate" messages are generally from men who actually believe them? Blurred lines somewhat..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do guys beg on here.Why do they act like creeps and say your the most stunning women on here.Why do they act like desperate idiots.

Men and women lie to get what they want so don't say it's just women.

Well as I said.we all say and do stuff on here to get what we want.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Two perspectives.

One, as a woman on here, my every move is questioned. I'm online. I'm meeting. Them, yes? Why am I ignoring them? When is it their "turn"? Etc. It's exhausting. My time online, my priorities, my rankings of people, who I'm meeting and when, are my business and my business alone. I tend not to share much about my priorities and thinking. I'm a free agent. I don't owe anyone anything. I don't jerk people around, but I don't owe anyone transparency.

But on the flip side. There's people I'd love to meet (again). They say, oh, you too, and it doesn't happen. They get new veris, sometimes lots of them. Yes, sometimes I wonder what that's about. Sometimes it makes me sad. But I gently remind them that I'm about from time to time, and keep up friendly conversations at a pace that seems to make sense (from once every couple of months to very frequently). They don't owe me an explanation, let alone their time. I feel sad by myself. And I don't say this is a thing men do (not all men disclaimer), or think that this is unjust. And yes, I'm a woman and I get meets, but sometimes I want to see *them*. I make sure it's clear without being pushy, back the fuck off, and deal with my emotional shit by myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Two perspectives.

Eloquent and well put. Thank you for taking time to write your experience.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Two perspectives.

So well put Swing and the first paragraph says it all

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

It's just how women act, say one thing do another.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

"It's just how women act, say one thing do another. "

Say one thing do another isn't gender specific.

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By *hocoholicWoman over a year ago

The big D

A boy in an adults world. No point adding to this forum, he’s not listening, not understanding & not doing himself any favours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you have such a sense of entitlement op?

This woman doesn't need to justify herself or her actions to anyone , let alone some random on a website she's exchanged a few messages with.

I sincerely hope that you have a think about how you view things and question why you are here if you can't handle people meeting others.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

If you was in a bar OP and asked her to dance and she said she wasnt dancing and u went to the toilet came back out and saw her dancing with someone else. would you storm over and expect her to then explain why she was now dancing.... no ... peoples minds change.. it just didnt change in your favour.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"If you was in a bar OP and asked her to dance and she said she wasnt dancing and u went to the toilet came back out and saw her dancing with someone else. would you storm over and expect her to then explain why she was now dancing.... no ... peoples minds change.. it just didnt change in your favour."

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

And you're annoyed as you thought you were next in the queue?

I had someone get cross and say to me he assumed it was his 'turn' next

Be human please.

I wanted to meet her for a coffee. Not just sex.. She was the one who aproached me and asked for my number.

And after I asked her to meet, she says she doesn't want to meet anyone at all.

Now I see three recent veris

Stop stalking her and move on if she's no longer interested...jeez!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are?

Because they are not meeting anyone, they are meeting someone... simple when you think about it eh?

3 new verifications from 3 different men eh?

What's your point exactly?

I would rather she told me to fuck off or block me than be like that. "

Be like what? Unless you know the story behind it, you can’t say she’s being anything. Ultimately you’ve not even met, you don’t own her and she has the right to meet whoever and whenever she likes.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Well I have up I'm not doing any new meets. And that's because at the moment I'm not. I am meeting guys off here already and am not interested in meeting anyone new. I constantly get asked why am I on here if I'm not meeting and to be honest I'm fed up of having to explain it. Then you get the guys who want to chat knowing you are not doing new meets which is fine I chat but make it clear I'm not doing new meets. I got a veri recently from one of the guys I meet and it was on my summary that evening I had 2 guys give me a load of crap because I got a new veri. The guy who left me the veri I had met a couple of times and the last time we said we would veri each other but nope according to the 2 guys I was just being a bitch by chatting to them and getting a new veri. So I don't chat to them anymore. And I hid my veris completely now.

She doesn't owe you an explanation the new meets could be guys she had arranged to meet already. Or maybe she just doesn't really want to meet you but likes chatting to you. It happens to everyone one here male and female.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say they're not meeting anyone when they are? "
keeps messages down

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman over a year ago

Midlothian

I love the smell of entitlement in the morning. Oh wait, no I don't, nobody does.

The only good thing about these whinge-fests is getting a clear view of all those red flags to block. Holy shitballs, Batman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's a thought... Maybe its because they are actually not meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love the smell of entitlement in the morning. Oh wait, no I don't, nobody does.

The only good thing about these whinge-fests is getting a clear view of all those red flags to block. Holy shitballs, Batman."
entitlement lol hate that word it's so over used

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

It's all a piss take and you're all getting sucked in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all a piss take and you're all getting sucked in. "
It's doing wonders for my tummy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"It's all a piss take and you're all getting sucked in. It's doing wonders for my tummy "

I need to work on my core

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all a piss take and you're all getting sucked in. It's doing wonders for my tummy

I need to work on my core"
I have a great exercise for that

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"Someone who I chatted with told me she isn't meeting anyone for awhile and put me on a promise.

Okay I thought fair enough.. and since then she has three new verifications.

Maybe she just doesn't want to meet you. Sounds like shes told you a white lie, maybe cos she thinks you are not going to handle rejection well. Thats why its just best to block those not interested in. Or maybe those meets were already arranged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm thinking imagine she reads the forums, I used to before I started commenting. I wouldn't be too impressed if I read this knowing it was about me

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"Because they can

Gender equality at it's best! ????

Well that's what's its like every day for women living in a patriarchal society.

So what exactly does true equality look like on here?

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman over a year ago

Midlothian

"entitlement lol hate that word it's so over used

It's not over-used, it's used when necessary, which just happens to be a freakin' lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is exactly why I don't display veris anymore

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

How desperate are you? This thread makes for grim reading.

This lady had a lucky escape.

So sorry these guys flaunted the queuing system, she’s a bitch.

Write to her and demand she explains her private life to you immediately!!

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