So last night I popped to the pub for a drink and chat with friends and heard an interesting argument/discussion between two women on the table next door(to be fair the whole pub heard it) !
One woman was saying that she was going to treat her husband to sex because he'd spent all of Sunday doing jobs around the house.
The other woman was annoyed with her and was saying sex should always and only be when she wanted it and not used as a thank you.
I never heard the outcome as we moved to the pub garden but what are your thoughts ?
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Both are right, we all need a bit of give and take
Sex is a brilliant reward, and I’m sure her man will do it again and again
Don’t we all have our little pleasures this is most likely suiting them both equally
And yes you should only have sex when you desire it, but can you all honestly say both partners are only having sex when you are both in the mood at the same time? One will more likely want it more than the other but you then need to use the love making skills to arouse your partner so you both do |
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What reward does she get when she maintains her own house? I know a guy who refers to looking after his own children as baby sitting  .
I think they're both right because people do use sex in different ways, if it works for them  |
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Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.
There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment
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"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.
There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment
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That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.
But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up |
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"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.
There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment
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That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.
But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up "
I know, somethings happening to my sarcastic side.... I think I may be softening.
Or maybe I'm just gutted I was too late to the thread and the shelves comment had already been made 
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"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.
There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment
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That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.
But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up
I know, somethings happening to my sarcastic side.... I think I may be softening.
Or maybe I'm just gutted I was too late to the thread and the shelves comment had already been made
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Maybe it made her horny at the thought that he did all the jobs and she doesn't have to ask anymore....whatever it is if it suits them what's the harm. I can't say we have ever used bribery for having sex though.
Who knows , after doing all those jobs he may be asleep when she got home and she would have to diddle herself instead |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"Maybe it made her horny at the thought that he did all the jobs and she doesn't have to ask anymore....whatever it is if it suits them what's the harm. I can't say we have ever used bribery for having sex though.
Who knows , after doing all those jobs he may be asleep when she got home and she would have to diddle herself instead"
Opps it wasn't bribery but a reward. I can't say I have ever thought that either, we either want sex or we don't...but still, if it floats her boat whats the harm |
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