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over a year ago
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"Hey
I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi  something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD"
Hey just to say your not alone here to chat if u need to x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey
I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD
Hey just to say your not alone here to chat if u need to x"
Hey there and thanks. Having a massively down day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey
I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD
Hey just to say your not alone here to chat if u need to x
Hey there and thanks. Having a massively down day. "
I have them days too. Check out Matt Haig I recently bought his Reasons to live book it is a brill read. I first came across him on a podcast with drchatterjee |
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"Hey
I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD
Hey just to say your not alone here to chat if u need to x
Hey there and thanks. Having a massively down day. "
Sadly it happens to more folk than will admit it :/
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X"
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey
I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD
Hey just to say your not alone here to chat if u need to x
Hey there and thanks. Having a massively down day.
I have them days too. Check out Matt Haig I recently bought his Reasons to live book it is a brill read. I first came across him on a podcast with drchatterjee"
Will take a look thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up "
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, OP
Sorry to read you’re feeling this way. 
Thanks life can be a proper shitter at times"
I know, we all have our struggles, please don’t feel you’re alone! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps. "
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey, OP
Sorry to read you’re feeling this way.
Thanks life can be a proper shitter at times
I know, we all have our struggles, please don’t feel you’re alone! Xx"
Thank you I assumed I would told to get a grip but it's nice to hear from people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters. "
Chee? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters. "
No.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?"
Wtf is chee? |
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?
Wtf is chee?"
It's her play name for cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month "
OK well allow yourself time to recover and don't be afraid to ask friends/family for help either practically, emotionally or both.
If that isn't possible or helpful then do what you have and reach out on here. We all have times when we need a little TLC and attention. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?
Wtf is chee?
It's her play name for cock"
OP. Please put this mad Irish geezer in his place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month
OK well allow yourself time to recover and don't be afraid to ask friends/family for help either practically, emotionally or both.
If that isn't possible or helpful then do what you have and reach out on here. We all have times when we need a little TLC and attention. X"
I quite like it on here, most people are great to talk to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month "
Can u get a friend to call and maybe take you for a spin? Go see a movie or just go sit in the park.
I think most of us have them days where it's not that anything in particular happens it just is. I call mine the black cloud. Even if I appear happy and smiling inside I'm just about coping. But there is good in people and just look at all the support here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month
OK well allow yourself time to recover and don't be afraid to ask friends/family for help either practically, emotionally or both.
If that isn't possible or helpful then do what you have and reach out on here. We all have times when we need a little TLC and attention. X
I quite like it on here, most people are great to talk to x"
Yes especially when someone reaches out. This maybe a swingers site but it's also a community! just a naughty/kinky one.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, OP
Sorry to read you’re feeling this way.
Thanks life can be a proper shitter at times
I know, we all have our struggles, please don’t feel you’re alone! Xx
Thank you I assumed I would told to get a grip but it's nice to hear from people "
Nah, we’re not that bad. Usually! 
People are generally good here, I’ve seen similar threads in the past, so don’t ever be afraid to speak up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?
Wtf is chee?
It's her play name for cock
OP. Please put this mad Irish geezer in his place "
He is a cheeky bugger...my play name for cock is pork sword so he knows nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey, OP
Sorry to read you’re feeling this way.
Thanks life can be a proper shitter at times
I know, we all have our struggles, please don’t feel you’re alone! Xx
Thank you I assumed I would told to get a grip but it's nice to hear from people
Nah, we’re not that bad. Usually!
People are generally good here, I’ve seen similar threads in the past, so don’t ever be afraid to speak up. "
Thank you. I actually feel better already....well I've stopped crying so it's a start lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month
OK well allow yourself time to recover and don't be afraid to ask friends/family for help either practically, emotionally or both.
If that isn't possible or helpful then do what you have and reach out on here. We all have times when we need a little TLC and attention. X
I quite like it on here, most people are great to talk to x
Yes especially when someone reaches out. This maybe a swingers site but it's also a community! just a naughty/kinky one. "
Where else could you reach out and get advice whilst looking at an array of beautiful bodies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?
Wtf is chee?
It's her play name for cock
OP. Please put this mad Irish geezer in his place
He is a cheeky bugger...my play name for cock is pork sword so he knows nothing "
Pork sword  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I swear that sucking cheese helps when you’re feeling down. Well that’s if you like cheese
I think you got your C words mixed up. It's not as long a cheese only four letters.
Chee?
Wtf is chee?
It's her play name for cock
OP. Please put this mad Irish geezer in his place
He is a cheeky bugger...my play name for cock is pork sword so he knows nothing "
OMG pork sword? Love it. Keep smiling you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, OP
Sorry to read you’re feeling this way.
Thanks life can be a proper shitter at times
I know, we all have our struggles, please don’t feel you’re alone! Xx
Thank you I assumed I would told to get a grip but it's nice to hear from people
Nah, we’re not that bad. Usually!
People are generally good here, I’ve seen similar threads in the past, so don’t ever be afraid to speak up.
Thank you. I actually feel better already....well I've stopped crying so it's a start lol"
Good!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Sorry you are struggling.
Is there something specific you want to chat about or just a general natter. Either way I'm glad you reached out. X
I wouldn't know where to start with specifics. Quite lonely at the minute which is bonkers because I hardly have any time to myself. Thanks for responding. Cant seem to pick myself up
Oh I Tottaly get that. Feeling everything and nothing all at once, not knowing really how I feel or being able to explain it.
Iv often found myself feeling lonely when I'm at my busiest, it's odd but I normally find taking some "me time" and having a good natter/night out with a good friend helps.
That's definitely what I need. I have recently had surgery and so am getting massive cabin fever. Have only left the house 3 times in a month
OK well allow yourself time to recover and don't be afraid to ask friends/family for help either practically, emotionally or both.
If that isn't possible or helpful then do what you have and reach out on here. We all have times when we need a little TLC and attention. X
I quite like it on here, most people are great to talk to x
Yes especially when someone reaches out. This maybe a swingers site but it's also a community! just a naughty/kinky one.
Where else could you reach out and get advice whilst looking at an array of beautiful bodies? "
Exactly! its amazing what talking to a fabulous pair of boobs or lovely torso (other body parts are available!) can do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back. "
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then! |
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Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back.
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then! "
Well there you go! Pork swords at the ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back.
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then!
Well there you go! Pork swords at the ready "
I just asked and he thought I was pissed and needed a kebab.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back.
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then!
Well there you go! Pork swords at the ready "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back.
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then!
Well there you go! Pork swords at the ready
I just asked and he thought I was pissed and needed a kebab.."
Oh I'd much rather have the kebab right now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx"
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies and you Irish. Next man you chat to or meet. Ask them if you can play with their pork sword and report back.
Iv just asked the OH and he just giggled then said OK then!
Well there you go! Pork swords at the ready
I just asked and he thought I was pissed and needed a kebab..
Oh I'd much rather have the kebab right now. "
Mmmm kebab with garlic mayo and chilli sauce |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
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Oh sweetheart. I’m sorry. Would get you that kebab if I could... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
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Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you have been though this. Xx |
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"Next time I'm at the butchers counter in Sainsbury's i shall ask very loudly for half a kilo of pork sword 
Ha! Ok I will too..."
You both need to report back and tell us what happened and I want to all about it at the MLS. |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx"
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry. |
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"Next time I'm at the butchers counter in Sainsbury's i shall ask very loudly for half a kilo of pork sword
Ha! Ok I will too...
You both need to report back and tell us what happened and I want to all about it at the MLS. "
Pork sword for everyone |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry. "
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry. "
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting "
Oh god I bet! you are braver than me. |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X"
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting
Oh god I bet! you are braver than me. "
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
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If you ever want to chat privately about any of this stuff, please pm me. I'm sure the same goes for a lot of the others on here as well. Funny, for a site that's supposed to be about sex and swinging, for me it has ended up being a place where i have found wonderful emotional support from some of the nicest people i could ever imagine. |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X
Thanks. It seems insane to come here for people to talk to but in the real world it's hard to tell everyone especially people close that I'm really not ok "
Have you heard of a treatment called "access bar therapy" I recently had a 30min session done and I can 100% say my anxiety level has decreased. I am a control.freak when it comes to doing things and will always make excuses etc. I got in my car on Friday morning, and headed off for 2 nights alone, no accommodation booked. Just went and I survived and it was strange sitting in a restaurant eating dinner alone.
So maybe look at having a wee treatment done. |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting "
And how are their pork swords? Haha...meaty and go well with apple sauce no doubt.
If we could pull ourselves together we would but it doesnt work like that does it. I've had a proper sobbing face in pillow (not in a good way)cry tonight and I feel a bit better x |
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I'm really struggling tonight and today...so if anyone is out there come say hi something to make me laugh would be even better!
DD"
Hi OP, sorry to hear you are down. I sometimes suffer from anxiety and depressions........ I rediscovered the great outdoors a few years back. I get out regularly as Mother Nature is good for the soul. Maybe plan something and get yourself outside in the fresh air.
Ps bears don’t sh#t in the woods, health & safety put a stop to all that.... they now have to use the port-a-loo’s located in the car park!
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X
Thanks. It seems insane to come here for people to talk to but in the real world it's hard to tell everyone especially people close that I'm really not ok
Have you heard of a treatment called "access bar therapy" I recently had a 30min session done and I can 100% say my anxiety level has decreased. I am a control.freak when it comes to doing things and will always make excuses etc. I got in my car on Friday morning, and headed off for 2 nights alone, no accommodation booked. Just went and I survived and it was strange sitting in a restaurant eating dinner alone.
So maybe look at having a wee treatment done."
I havent heard of that but will have a look! The thought of going anywhere on my own is terrifying so well done you! I've been put on medication but it almost makes me feel nothing most of the time |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting
And how are their pork swords? Haha...meaty and go well with apple sauce no doubt.
If we could pull ourselves together we would but it doesnt work like that does it. I've had a proper sobbing face in pillow (not in a good way)cry tonight and I feel a bit better x"
I had mine last night when I returned to my hotel alone. But you know what I got up this morning and thought I'm not losing another day especially when sun was shining. |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X
Thanks. It seems insane to come here for people to talk to but in the real world it's hard to tell everyone especially people close that I'm really not ok
Have you heard of a treatment called "access bar therapy" I recently had a 30min session done and I can 100% say my anxiety level has decreased. I am a control.freak when it comes to doing things and will always make excuses etc. I got in my car on Friday morning, and headed off for 2 nights alone, no accommodation booked. Just went and I survived and it was strange sitting in a restaurant eating dinner alone.
So maybe look at having a wee treatment done.
I havent heard of that but will have a look! The thought of going anywhere on my own is terrifying so well done you! I've been put on medication but it almost makes me feel nothing most of the time "
Have a Google of distress tolerance or grounding strategys. I have found these very helpful. X |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
Sometimes it's just about taking each day as it comes and find one positive thing in that day and work from there. Stick on some music turn it up loud and dance and sing yr heart out, have that cry, I have a family member you always says "pull yourself together" or " people worse off than you" and I now just don't tell her when I'm down. In reality we know all that so for today focus on one thing you love doing and do it. Even if it's eating pork swords !
And I posted it as my status u want to see the messages im getting
And how are their pork swords? Haha...meaty and go well with apple sauce no doubt.
If we could pull ourselves together we would but it doesnt work like that does it. I've had a proper sobbing face in pillow (not in a good way)cry tonight and I feel a bit better x
I had mine last night when I returned to my hotel alone. But you know what I got up this morning and thought I'm not losing another day especially when sun was shining. "
You seem like a very positive person and you are right we shouldnt be wasting days being upset. It doesn't get you anywhere does it |
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"Hi Dharma. Wishing you well. I know what it's like to struggle with the stuff going on in life. Has been an emotional roller coaster for me over the last 18 months, with far more downs than ups, since one of my parents died.
It's friends on here more than anything, that have helped me cope - just by talking and mutual support. Peace and love, Polly xx
Hi polly
I had the same thing about 18 months ago when my mum killed herself...not sure I'll ever deal with that but it makes everything worse when life gets hard if that makes sense
Oh my! Of course you feel down after that, who wouldn't.
Have you spoken to a medical practitioner? They will almost certainly be able to offer support and advice. I'm so sorry you hav
e been though this. Xx
Yeah I've done all the stuff you should but its difficult when everything is shit as well. God I am such a whinge bag. Sorry.
No don't you apologise at all! You have had a totally awful time of it. Talking it through and having a bit of a giggle inbetween is exactly what you should be doing.
We are here for you. X
Thanks. It seems insane to come here for people to talk to but in the real world it's hard to tell everyone especially people close that I'm really not ok
Have you heard of a treatment called "access bar therapy" I recently had a 30min session done and I can 100% say my anxiety level has decreased. I am a control.freak when it comes to doing things and will always make excuses etc. I got in my car on Friday morning, and headed off for 2 nights alone, no accommodation booked. Just went and I survived and it was strange sitting in a restaurant eating dinner alone.
So maybe look at having a wee treatment done.
I havent heard of that but will have a look! The thought of going anywhere on my own is terrifying so well done you! I've been put on medication but it almost makes me feel nothing most of the time
Have a Google of distress tolerance or grounding strategys. I have found these very helpful. X"
I will do, thank you
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Ok ladies and lads I'm off to bed. Op big hugs to you and putting your heart on your sleeve here and hopefully the positivty you have received will get you through today xx |
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"How's everyone's pork swords today
Mines needs some attention from a lovely cailin.
Would you know any body.
What's cailin?"
cailin is Irish for a "girl"
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"How's everyone's pork swords today
Mines needs some attention from a lovely cailin.
Would you know any body.
What's cailin?
God knows but I don’t want any  "
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