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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm pretty new to the scene and the site so far upto now I keep getting PMS from tvs or blokes when my profile clearly states I'm looking for women only ,no offence to the guys on here but does no one read peoples profiles before they message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty new to the scene and the site so far upto now I keep getting PMS from tvs or blokes when my profile clearly states I'm looking for women only ,no offence to the guys on here but does no one read peoples profiles before they message "
Maybe if you wasn't wearing hi-viz orange you wouldn't be so noticeable? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol |
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"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"
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"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"
If more people thought like that I'd be very happy. But no. Pretty picture = send stupid messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"
I've been on here about 15 months and in that time I've probably had about 4 messages like this so it's not really an issue for me.
Are you sure you're not giving them some kind of come-on? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol
I've been on here about 15 months and in that time I've probably had about 4 messages like this so it's not really an issue for me.
Are you sure you're not giving them some kind of come-on?"
1 million percent not whenever I upload a new picture I get blokes messaging me so I remove the picture then few days later put another pic up and bang same again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No they just look at photos and message.
It’s annoying that they don’t read the profile.
But you can do this:
Go into account and go into message filters. It does stop ones you don’t want messaging you.
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I'd say 75% of the people who message us haven't read our profile for sure, a further 20% probably haven't but their first message doesn't reveal that, 4% have read it but fit our criteria but thought they'd message anyway and 1% read it, understood it and fit the bill. |
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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago
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I'm sick if skinny people contacting me even though I make it clear on my profile I only enjoy the fuller figure.
These 1st world problems really effect us - if only we were lucky enough to only have minor problems such as starvation, NATO bombing our kids for oil or ebola.
I feel so sorry for myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people either don't read at all or scan the first couple of paragraphs then hit message.
If you've set your filters, there's not much else you can do - you can't control the behaviour of others! Just delete and focus on the people you are interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are just trying their luck. There are so many “Fab Straight” guys on here that gives some people the false impression anyone is game.
Take it as a compliment. I’m sure not everyone gets that many message from people thinking they’re fit. |
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