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over a year ago
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A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too? "
i would have to claim ignorance...unless she was hot ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a trap.
Start a counter rumour about how your friend enjoys regular orgies with Turkish dwarfs to teach her a lesson "
That's tempting but I don't think there are any Turkish dwarfs round here. |
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over a year ago
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"Sounds like that someone was fishing to see if you swing.
Ask what it means and see how much they know.
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I was thinking that way myself I smiled at the time and didn't say a lot but she has mentioned it twice now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like that someone was fishing to see if you swing.
Ask what it means and see how much they know.
I was thinking that way myself I smiled at the time and didn't say a lot but she has mentioned it twice now. "
sounds even more like it then...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ask if they are swingers as it takes one to know one.
You could always say that you had heard that they (the person accusing) are swingers and have heard 'all the rumours' about what they get up to.
Lets see how they like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id tell them the way it was ....let them say what they like . although does depend on your line of work . "
I would say wow that sounds like fun where can i sign up. |
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over a year ago
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"id tell them the way it was ....let them say what they like . although does depend on your line of work . "
Well it wouldn't kill prospects work wise but I am not really sure if I want to become office gossip materiel. Its tempting to say just for the shock factor though. |
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over a year ago
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"I would say if thats true then good for them and I hope they're having a great time doing it  "
That was similar to what I said first time it was said but I am beginning to think there is some fishing going on. |
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"A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too? "
i dont like gossips or ppl who rush to judge, so i would politely point that out. |
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"A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too? "
If it really is a friend, why not ask how she has come to think this and why has she not talked about it to them to make sure before she tells anyone else? This person needs to learn a little consideration and respect for others private lives.  |
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"I would say if thats true then good for them and I hope they're having a great time doing it
That was similar to what I said first time it was said but I am beginning to think there is some fishing going on. "
If they kept on mentioning it I would then say why the obssession about someone elses business? |
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"A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too? "
You would have to tell me if there are any openings at your work. |
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I would just look puzzled and say
"it's sex, why is it so shocking?" 
She sounds a bit thick to be honest, if she imagines she's being 'subtle' in her investigations  |
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If she keeps mentioning it maybe you should ask why she thinks they are. Does she have evidence? Has she seen/heard something? Feign shock too to get her onside and gauge her reaction. She may open up and say she likes the idea or she may be genuinely shocked by it. I wouldn't let on about your own swinging activities just yet though as it doesn't sound like it would be beneficial to you to have this person telling other people what you do, which is exactly what she'll do. |
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"If she keeps mentioning it maybe you should ask why she thinks they are. Does she have evidence? Has she seen/heard something? Feign shock too to get her onside and gauge her reaction. She may open up and say she likes the idea or she may be genuinely shocked by it. I wouldn't let on about your own swinging activities just yet though as it doesn't sound like it would be beneficial to you to have this person telling other people what you do, which is exactly what she'll do."
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"A friend at work came to me started talking about some friends of hers saying she thought they were swingers and how shocking it was. What would you do? Claim ignorance, grin and nod or confess to being involved too? "
bin her as a friend tbh..
if she is talking to you about them then she is probably doing the same 'about you'..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely nothing,none of her business,its your life so keep on enjoying your fun.Cant be doing with people who are up their own asses.Sad and sheltered springs to mind about your friend tbh.  |
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