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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? |
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By *LxxxhMan
over a year ago
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"The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? "
Does it not depend on the woman? Like some are very forward and wanting to play along and others just aren’t, I’d be asking certain kinds of questions in conversation to catch a vibe before even trying anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me, to seduce someone kind of has connotations of getting them to do something that they don't want to do, almost like tricking them into bed.
If someone doesn't want me then I leave it, either they act on their own or they don't. I'm not going to play games.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
Ask me at least one question during the date. It tells me you'll give at least a fleeting thought to my orgasm. That's enough for me.
Say my name. A lot. So I can imagine you saying it as you fuck me and I know you won't forget who I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"To me, to seduce someone kind of has connotations of getting them to do something that they don't want to do, almost like tricking them into bed.
If someone doesn't want me then I leave it, either they act on their own or they don't. I'm not going to play games.
Tea"
Oh Tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? "
Can you hold these two beers and my football I'll be back in two tics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
Ask me at least one question during the date. It tells me you'll give at least a fleeting thought to my orgasm. That's enough for me.
Say my name. A lot. So I can imagine you saying it as you fuck me and I know you won't forget who I am. "
What if they not only appear intelligent but are intelligent?
And good shout on the use of names. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
Ask me at least one question during the date. It tells me you'll give at least a fleeting thought to my orgasm. That's enough for me.
Say my name. A lot. So I can imagine you saying it as you fuck me and I know you won't forget who I am. "
Dodecahedron  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
Ask me at least one question during the date. It tells me you'll give at least a fleeting thought to my orgasm. That's enough for me.
Say my name. A lot. So I can imagine you saying it as you fuck me and I know you won't forget who I am.
Dodecahedron "
Fuck me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy "
Yet you do expect us to get it hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy "
Passing knickers etc isn’t seduction. It means he’s already won and you’ve giving the game away.
If you want to seduce him, be subtle, he’ll pick up on it.
Probably... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
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What if they not only appear intelligent but are intelligent?
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We'd be skipping dessert. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh I know! I'll be myself and say I never fuck on a first date
I've never been on a date but I reckon that's the truth
Why am I talking to myself?"
I'm not sure, we were all just awkwardly watching and pretending not to notice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy
Passing knickers etc isn’t seduction. It means he’s already won and you’ve giving the game away.
If you want to seduce him, be subtle, he’ll pick up on it.
Probably..."
So ... I’ve failed copious times or chosen the wrong person  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy
Passing knickers etc isn’t seduction. It means he’s already won and you’ve giving the game away.
If you want to seduce him, be subtle, he’ll pick up on it.
Probably..."
He'd already won by saying he wouldn't shag me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I know! I'll be myself and say I never fuck on a first date
I've never been on a date but I reckon that's the truth
Why am I talking to myself?"
It's the norm here you'll get used to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
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What if they not only appear intelligent but are intelligent?
We'd be skipping dessert. "
I'll need the cheesecake to avoid the calorie deficit I'll encounter. |
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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago
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How about a bit of poetry?
You have a smile that could melt the hardest heart,
and eyes such that once in their gaze you wish never to part,
Looks that could enchant the most distracted of men,
and a figure that could arose even the most dormant of passion!!
That's got to result in seduction or vomiting, one or the other!!!  |
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"The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? "
Chloroform  |
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For both genders just be yourselves and let your natural fun, flirty side show through with talking and subtle touches
How I see it if they pick up on that great, if they don’t I’m heading home as obviously not my kind of person |
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"Use words of at least three syllables a lot. It doesn't matter if you use them incorrectly, fuck, it doesn't matter if you can't pronounce them, I'll be gushing at the attempt to appear intelligent in front of me.
Ask me at least one question during the date. It tells me you'll give at least a fleeting thought to my orgasm. That's enough for me.
Say my name. A lot. So I can imagine you saying it as you fuck me and I know you won't forget who I am. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny, when I asked how I could seduce him there were so many suggestions, from lip biting and catching his eye to flashing him or passing him my knickers.
But with guys we just leave them to it and tell them if they don't know then it's their fault.
I feel for them a bit now, they don't get it easy
Passing knickers etc isn’t seduction. It means he’s already won and you’ve giving the game away.
If you want to seduce him, be subtle, he’ll pick up on it.
Probably...
He'd already won by saying he wouldn't shag me! "
Treat em mean keep em keen.
Maybe that's why when we say no they say "I wouldn't have fucked you anyway!"
And we reply "ohhhh fuck me please kind sir"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me, to seduce someone kind of has connotations of getting them to do something that they don't want to do, almost like tricking them into bed.
If someone doesn't want me then I leave it, either they act on their own or they don't. I'm not going to play games.
Tea"
To be fair Tea that is only one meaning of the word where one person is enticing another to do something inadvisable , foolhardy or to lead them astray.
However seduce can also mean attract and allure, tempt and captivate. It doesn’t have to have negative connotations.
As for me I’m just myself, I have been successful in the past and I’ve been spectacularly unsuccessful but it comes down to chemistry. When the chemistry is there a look in each other’s eyes, or a touch, the tone of voice, the words used or just the scent is all it takes. It may be a heartfelt gesture or a particular action that is enough. On other occasions when the chemistry isn’t there, no matter how many seeds are sown they fall on stony ground.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look into my eyessss, deeeeeep into my eyessss
Is that meant to seduce someone?"
It's never worked for me till this day but I saw it on the telly some time ago and it worked for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look into my eyessss, deeeeeep into my eyessss
Is that meant to seduce someone?
It's never worked for me till this day but I saw it on the telly some time ago and it worked for her "
Was she stealing his watch? |
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Engage me in a conversation. I almost don't care what it's on. Excite my brain and the rest will likely follow. Be friendly and not too obviously wanting to get in my knickers or you'll scare me off.
I don't know how to describe the transition from that to more though  |
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This probably sounds really trite but I (Luke) have never approached anybody with the intention of getting them to open their legs for me, but it's happened enough times for my satisfaction.
I believe in creating opportunities that could lead to more. I would strike up a conversation somebody on a train or at a bar or over the Internet or whatever. It becomes clear pretty quickly if they are OK with that, and if not I leave them alone. I'm quite a jovial person so I'll say things that hopefully make her laugh.
If we get on there's always the possibility of more happening. The key thing is not to actually WANT it. I will treat them with respect. Only flirt if it is welcomed. If it doesn't lead to anything (which in most cases it won't) then we can still both have an enjoyable time, but I never talk to anybody with the specific intention of getting into their pants.
If I do this with enough people, at some point everything will fall into place - the chemistry, our circumstances, our situations etc. - and away we go.
It happens because I'm a nice guy and I can hold a conversation and I understand what respect is.
When Hannah and I met, neither of us tried to chat up the other or tried to get into each other's pants. The opportunity to talk came along and it was clear very quickly the electricity was there. It came from creating the opportunities to talk to various people, not from trying to achieve a goal with her. With this particular opportunity, we each found our soul mates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look into my eyessss, deeeeeep into my eyessss
Is that meant to seduce someone?
It's never worked for me till this day but I saw it on the telly some time ago and it worked for her
Was she stealing his watch?"
The following scene was him waking up alone with just a bath towel to hand ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me, to seduce someone kind of has connotations of getting them to do something that they don't want to do, almost like tricking them into bed.
If someone doesn't want me then I leave it, either they act on their own or they don't. I'm not going to play games.
Tea
To be fair Tea that is only one meaning of the word where one person is enticing another to do something inadvisable , foolhardy or to lead them astray.
However seduce can also mean attract and allure, tempt and captivate. It doesn’t have to have negative connotations.
As for me I’m just myself, I have been successful in the past and I’ve been spectacularly unsuccessful but it comes down to chemistry. When the chemistry is there a look in each other’s eyes, or a touch, the tone of voice, the words used or just the scent is all it takes. It may be a heartfelt gesture or a particular action that is enough. On other occasions when the chemistry isn’t there, no matter how many seeds are sown they fall on stony ground.
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I’d add the more you try the less likely it is to happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? "
I would simply not aiming for a woman to open her legs for me.
Women are the one who chose in terms of partner and sex. Women hold the keys of sexuality at any level.
A man who thinks he has been good in seducing is a fool. A men is always being chosen by a woman first.
By myself, I would just be myself and try to let her understand my personality. If she will be happy with that, she will get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier  "
One persons seduction technique is not another’s
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier follow this and she will be on you like a tramp on chips |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier
One persons seduction technique is not another’s
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true enough |
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"Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier follow this and she will be on you like a tramp on chips"
Tramp on chips ....I want to savour and be savored not wolfed down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier follow this and she will be on you like a tramp on chips
Tramp on chips ....I want to savour and be savored not wolfed down "
no mattrr how u devour its fool proof |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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EYE CONTACT!
It's the subtle things that I find seductive. Small gestures, touching here and there, loads of eye contact. I should be able to tell you're desperate to tear my clothes off by the way you look at me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok seduction lesson 1
Smell good look good
Lesson 2
Be confident dont be shy find what makes her laugh listen to her
Lesson 3
Always look eyes but be emotive with it sell
Lesson 4
Mirroring tilt your head from time to time arms on a table move closer see if she does it back dont be scared to touch her hand give it a gentle stroke watch for her fidgeting hands so playing with hair is sign a nervous means good chance she likes u
Lesson 5
If u see a buying signal just go for it kiss her cup her face as you do it will ad comfort to it
Lesson 6
Be confident do not hesitate use your presence to put her at ease
Lesson 7
Try catch her undressing u with her eyes looking for a bulge make a joke about it that u done it to her 3 times more
Theres you seduction tips boys
Practice makes perfect but once you master it life will be so much easier follow this and she will be on you like a tramp on chips
Tramp on chips ....I want to savour and be savored not wolfed down "
I don't like chips |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The other day I asked how I could seduce someone who was refusing to play hide the sausage with me.
What if the tables were turned?
Guys, if you were out on a "date" and wanted to convince the lady to open her legs for you how would you do it?
Ladies, can you give them any tips? "
I would be well dressed, well mannered and attentive. We would start slow with getting to know you chat along with some humour to make her smile. I would be open and friendly but also confident. Later on I might compliment her on her "captivating" smile and mention how I would like to make her smile more often. I would flirt using body language and chat and I might throw in an appropriate pick up line towards the end. When it's time I would then offer to walk her home and open doors, offer my coat if it's cold, offer my arm for her to take etc as we walk towards her place I would hint at how nice a coffee might be. If no invite in then I'm hoping for a kiss and the magic to happen. If invited in, it's still not a certainty but, things are looking good. If she left on her own I would text once I was home to say how nice a time I had and that I hope to see her again. She doesn't have to open her legs on the first try after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd brag about all the blokes I've overpowered, lucrative deals I've pulled off, prestige cars I've owned, and I'd be sure to mention the price of the clothes I'm wearing. That's how I seduce. It's never worked, but that's how I do it. |
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