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How Many Men Don't Send A Message?
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By *Man1263 OP Man
over a year ago
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Following on from the many threads, but with a slightly different slant (but probably been done to death before)
How many men just don't send new message's? (By that, I mean sending to people you havnt sent to before).
Just here for the forum and natter with the same people via the message system?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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In three years, I've sent the sum total of 6 "cold" messages to people I've not interacted with in some way (e.g. on the forums) and those were all probably I'm the first 6 months or so of signing up.
It's just not me to do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Owing to the plethora of complaints from the ladies about how they're continually inundated with unsolicited messages from us men i decided to take the radical approach of not sending any some time ago.
I hope you're all appreciative of this selfless act of sacrifice.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read  "
so let me get this right?
You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?
Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?
Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please
Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own! |
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"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read
so let me get this right?
You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?
Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?
Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please
Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own!"
Well it's happened to me before, but I read all of my messages and I only stop responding when I feel that I'm just annoying the other person. |
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"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read
so let me get this right?
You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?
Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?
Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please
Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own!"
I would reply to a message but see little point in being the first to send one as seems like woman on here just mass delete them I can u understand why they do it 30+ messages a minute must be a pain to deal with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't recall sending a first message to anybody, other than a quick one-liner when somebody has posted something exceptionally funny and original in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only ones I send are on the back of forum games. I ventured out into the wilds of Fab when I decided to start meeting again in January. It was cold out there, so I retreated to the warmth of the Lounge pretty quickly. |
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"Following on from the many threads, but with a slightly different slant (but probably been done to death before)
How many men just don't send new message's? (By that, I mean sending to people you havnt sent to before).
Just here for the forum and natter with the same people via the message system?
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I gave up sending intro messages a couple of years ago.
Purely as an experiment about 6 months ago I sent 5 in an afternoon.
Made sure i matched what they were looking for, made sure we were looking for the same things.
Tailored the message to the profile, and wrote a friend non demanding non sexual opening message, included a face pic and definitely no dick pic.
One reply saying no thanks.
No replies from any of the other 4.
Just served as a reminder why I shouldn't bother wasting my time.
I use the forums for the chats and laughs and group socials.
I use clubs for more intimate encounters.
Works for me.
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"Owing to the plethora of complaints from the ladies about how they're continually inundated with unsolicited messages from us men i decided to take the radical approach of not sending any some time ago.
I hope you're all appreciative of this selfless act of sacrifice. "
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