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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To guys?
Following on from the cock size thread and various threads regarding size in general, this question has been one that's been knocking around my head for a while.
So to guys, do you feel intimidated by large cocks? Do you feel insecure about your size and how it will be 'received' by your prospective partner? Do you think that size matters, not just to your partners but to other guys and to yourself?
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I’ve never been intimidated and my Mrs has had some huge ones in our time together . The bigger the better for me as it’s great seeing her enjoying herself .
And I’ve never had a problem with mine , it works and it’s a good average size . No complaints so far  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Neither insecure nor intimidated
I have what I have ... I know how to use it ... and Red seems more than happy ... there's too much obsession about size
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Maybe so, I would say though, given the amount of lies told about size and the requirements of many profiles for specific measurements, you are in a minority with your view.
I would also say that given your relationship status, that may have some bearing on this too. |
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"Neither insecure nor intimidated
I have what I have ... I know how to use it ... and Red seems more than happy ... there's too much obsession about size
M
Maybe so, I would say though, given the amount of lies told about size and the requirements of many profiles for specific measurements, you are in a minority with your view.
I would also say that given your relationship status, that may have some bearing on this too. "
Being happy and secure as a couple certainly helps I'm sure
But personally ... I've never been insecure about the fellas  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest. I think size is a massively overrated notion anyway. Unless you've a micro penis (very small percentage of men) what you should be conscious of is how appealing the rest of you attached to the appendage is perceived to be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had complaint,had my ex wife on the floor like jelly for 10 mins and when I was 22 was shagging my boss who was 40+ and she was coming round mine ever weekend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not in the slightest. I think size is a massively overrated notion anyway. Unless you've a micro penis (very small percentage of men) what you should be conscious of is how appealing the rest of you attached to the appendage is perceived to be "
I agree with you to a certain degree, it is about the whole package (ahem) but with penetrative sex, people do focus on penis size. There have been many threads that have seen people be 'less than kind' about size and I do think that more people are conscious of it than will ever say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never had complaint,had my ex wife on the floor like jelly for 10 mins and when I was 22 was shagging my boss who was 40+ and she was coming round mine ever weekend "
OK, thanks for the humble brag
Im not talking about past exploits, I'm thinking more in terms of in the run up to a first meet, do people question size? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always somebody who will be bigger, better, have more, etc etc
I haven’t got the biggest or the smallest penis and I give absolutely zero fucks about that lol
If you like what I have to offer - fantastic
If not - who cares tbh |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Never have been and never will be bothered or intimidated by or about size - it's what I was given and short of drastic and unreliable surgery there's not a thing I could do about it even if I was....
....how well it works however is another matter - but even then I have learned how to deal with that and know that in understanding hands (no euphemism intended ) that accept my limitations that that doesn't really matter either |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
It should be swings and roundabouts but it's not. My view (and not limited to) below.
Large penis's for the average sized is always desirable. Anyone downplaying this is in denial. However, the average size ought to be encouraged that better sex can be achieved than the type of guy who is VWE. The VWE typrs are clearly desirable to women and they'll be terribly confident with what they pack for the obvious reasons but sex can be painful as well as being unable to clash groin on groin. The smashing of groin on groin is one of the fundamental pieces of the act.
In addition, so many other factors at play that lead up to main event if we are academic about it, but we are mostly irrational meaning cock size does indeed matter. If you can perform however, in the company of a lady, then cock size won't matter. There'll simply be a desire for "more of the same please", another time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am more than a penis... the obsession with size can be all consuming from men and women...
The fact is that sex is fun... even before the penis arrives on court...its Wimbledon after all...
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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago
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No I don't worry the size it's normal size carnt do anything about it all men wish it was bigger but we have what we have as long as you can give pleasure and the ladie is left happy that's all that counts |
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Size doesn't bother me but the way it looks does... I have pretty cock days and ugly cock days... I feel that I should explain that, but I am unable.... If I am having an ugly cock day, I won't meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always somebody who will be bigger, better, have more, etc etc
I haven’t got the biggest or the smallest penis and I give absolutely zero fucks about that lol
If you like what I have to offer - fantastic
If not - who cares tbh "
Suppose a finger bang is out of the question then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always somebody who will be bigger, better, have more, etc etc
I haven’t got the biggest or the smallest penis and I give absolutely zero fucks about that lol
If you like what I have to offer - fantastic
If not - who cares tbh
Suppose a finger bang is out of the question then? "
Just a starting point |
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I (Luke) have never had any complaints. I consider myself to be a perfectly acceptable size. I wouldn't turn down an extra half inch to be above average but I wouldn't lose sleep over it.
I'm not really sure what the appeal of a monster cock is anyway. I have seen some that are abnormally large and to me they just look odd. I'm glad I'm not huge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am more than a penis... the obsession with size can be all consuming from men and women...
The fact is that sex is fun... even before the penis arrives on court...its Wimbledon after all...
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I don’t want anyone getting any ideas of hitting it with a racquet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got what I was given
I am neither proud nor disappointed by it
It works
It goes up when I want it to (and sometimes when I don't)
The skin comes back OK
It wees
It spunks
It's a cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really wonder if a woman would really complain about a cock size in front of the guy's face anyway.
No, not to his face they wouldn't... "
So the ' I have never had complaints' isn't really valid ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really wonder if a woman would really complain about a cock size in front of the guy's face anyway.
No, not to his face they wouldn't...
So the ' I have never had complaints' isn't really valid ?
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I think that it always comes with a *never knowingly.
As we've seen on the forums in the past, what's said at the time, isn't always 100% true. |
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Like a lot of things in life I think we tend to waste a lot of time and mental energy on things we can neither change or influence. I don't really care what other guys are doing, never mind how big their dicks are. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Most of the time I have enough on just thinking about me and remembering what I'm doing.
I know everybody sees it differently but I've never been the sort of person who thinks that the penis and it's size is central to great sex or central to sex full stop. Sex to me has always been about the full body and mind experience. Nothing less than a stellar explosion of sexual energy. It's supposed to be the height of fun and passion and riding that tidal wave of wanton desire. To reduce that down to simply a few inches of flesh dangling between the man's legs and to have the whole success or failure of the whole thing riding on it (pardon the pun), well that's a pretty sad state of affairs in my book. That could drive a man crazy.
Obviously to some women the penis and it's size might be important to sex and sexual pleasure but I don't think men should get caught up in that too much. You've got what you've got at the end of the day and there's not a lot you can do about changing it. Your penis is beautiful. Your penis is perfect. And it's uniquely yours. The sooner you can accept that the better. Rise up and embrace what you've got. Embrace your penis. Embrace my penis! Hell, let's embrace each other's penises!! Ok, maybe not that last one but you get the idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once slept with a guy who was small, the sex wasn't great and he bugged me after for ages asking why I didnt want to see him again in the end I told him he was an inch or so off the special spot. I felt horrible but he kept asking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like a lot of things in life I think we tend to waste a lot of time and mental energy on things we can neither change or influence. I don't really care what other guys are doing, never mind how big their dicks are. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Most of the time I have enough on just thinking about me and remembering what I'm doing.
I know everybody sees it differently but I've never been the sort of person who thinks that the penis and it's size is central to great sex or central to sex full stop. Sex to me has always been about the full body and mind experience. Nothing less than a stellar explosion of sexual energy. It's supposed to be the height of fun and passion and riding that tidal wave of wanton desire. To reduce that down to simply a few inches of flesh dangling between the man's legs and to have the whole success or failure of the whole thing riding on it (pardon the pun), well that's a pretty sad state of affairs in my book. That could drive a man crazy.
Obviously to some women the penis and it's size might be important to sex and sexual pleasure but I don't think men should get caught up in that too much. You've got what you've got at the end of the day and there's not a lot you can do about changing it. Your penis is beautiful. Your penis is perfect. And it's uniquely yours. The sooner you can accept that the better. Rise up and embrace what you've got. Embrace your penis. Embrace my penis! Hell, let's embrace each other's penises!! Ok, maybe not that last one but you get the idea "
Nicely phrased, an impassioned call to arms for all cocks!
I would probably pick at a few points that you made but my heads full of guys hugging cocks so I'm just going to leave it there  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter how big a cock someone has whether it's white or black... There's always something bigger out there.... Ranging from cola bottles to traffic cones or arms. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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Like most guys who've commented I'm happy and comfortable with it. Like most I wouldn't say no to being a little bigger but I don't feel any insecurity or intimidation.
I like what I have, never had any complaints and I like to think I know how to use it.
I'm comfortable and confident in my own skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really wonder if a woman would really complain about a cock size in front of the guy's face anyway.
Some would. 
I did with the previous one! "
You told a man he was too small? |
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Semi-insecure about size of mine, especially when i see some of the ones on here.
Does make me feel if I'm wasting my time, but then I'm married and other half doesn't know I'm so they just say no anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not in the slightest. I think size is a massively overrated notion anyway. Unless you've a micro penis (very small percentage of men) what you should be conscious of is how appealing the rest of you attached to the appendage is perceived to be
I agree with you to a certain degree, it is about the whole package (ahem) but with penetrative sex, people do focus on penis size. There have been many threads that have seen people be 'less than kind' about size and I do think that more people are conscious of it than will ever say. "
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