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over a year ago
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So I've just been chatting to a girlfriend and she reckons I have a warped idea of what people think of me...I think I'm realistic.
She was saying that she thinks more people find me attractive than I think or am aware of.
Whereas I think I'm an acquired taste and not that many people actually really think I'm hot. I think the only reason it may seem otherwise is because a lot of people will fuck someone they're not that into.
So to prove a point, would you approach me at a bar? Or someone else someone might approach someone.
And do you think you're an acquired taste? Or generally speaking quite attractive to most?
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If I (Luke) was single (which I'm not, and we only play separately) and I saw you in a bar or club, I can assure you that I would 100% be attracted to you and I would be trying to catch your eye in the hope I get a signal an approach would not be unwelcome.
So basically, yes. Totally. |
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Acquired taste is a nice use of language lol.
Well I'm pretty sure I have a type of body dismorphia and no self worth so you can imagine how I feel about myself. I wouldn't approach you at a bar, but then I wouldn't approach anybody that I fancied. I'm more likely to approach people who I'm not attracted to. Weird eh? |
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"If I (Luke) was single (which I'm not, and we only play separately) and I saw you in a bar or club, I can assure you that I would 100% be attracted to you and I would be trying to catch your eye in the hope I get a signal an approach would not be unwelcome.
So basically, yes. Totally. "
But then my question to you is would I get anywhere? It's only fair to be allowed to ask in return.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've just been chatting to a girlfriend and she reckons I have a warped idea of what people think of me...I think I'm realistic.
She was saying that she thinks more people find me attractive than I think or am aware of.
Whereas I think I'm an acquired taste and not that many people actually really think I'm hot. I think the only reason it may seem otherwise is because a lot of people will fuck someone they're not that into.
So to prove a point, would you approach me at a bar? Or someone else someone might approach someone.
And do you think you're an acquired taste? Or generally speaking quite attractive to most?
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your 28 th June pic makes you look very approachable if that helps  |
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"If I (Luke) was single (which I'm not, and we only play separately) and I saw you in a bar or club, I can assure you that I would 100% be attracted to you and I would be trying to catch your eye in the hope I get a signal an approach would not be unwelcome.
So basically, yes. Totally. "
Sorry for hogging the thread. I meant we only play together / never play separately.
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I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc 
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here. |
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here."
Exactly, I'm not sure asking the men of a fab forum if one is attractive would or will prove anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here.
Exactly, I'm not sure asking the men of a fab forum if one is attractive would or will prove anything "
Oi. When did the OP say ‘men’? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here.
Exactly, I'm not sure asking the men of a fab forum if one is attractive would or will prove anything
Oi. When did the OP say ‘men’?"
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here.
Exactly, I'm not sure asking the men of a fab forum if one is attractive would or will prove anything
Oi. When did the OP say ‘men’?"
Fair point well made , however statistically there are more men on the forum than ladies so I think it reasonable to receive more male replys than ladies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I (Luke) was single (which I'm not, and we only play separately) and I saw you in a bar or club, I can assure you that I would 100% be attracted to you and I would be trying to catch your eye in the hope I get a signal an approach would not be unwelcome.
So basically, yes. Totally.
But then my question to you is would I get anywhere? It's only fair to be allowed to ask in return. "
If I was single, I'd certainly have a drink with you, whether you got anywhere would depend on how we got on/chemistry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I've just been chatting to a girlfriend and she reckons I have a warped idea of what people think of me...I think I'm realistic.
She was saying that she thinks more people find me attractive than I think or am aware of.
Whereas I think I'm an acquired taste and not that many people actually really think I'm hot. I think the only reason it may seem otherwise is because a lot of people will fuck someone they're not that into.
So to prove a point, would you approach me at a bar? Or someone else someone might approach someone.
And do you think you're an acquired taste? Or generally speaking quite attractive to most?
your 28 th June pic makes you look very approachable if that helps "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m very much an acquired taste. The only times I was ever approached was when I was playing my guitar and singing and they came up to me afterwards. I was young and quite handsome but I didn’t get much attention other than that.
I am flirtatious with people I know but very unlikely for that ever to be anything more than flirty banter. My hairy chest became a bit of a thing for a few female friends, but until I came on the Forum I’d not been approached since I was in my 20s. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here."
I get more positive attention away from fab tbh.
I didn't mean fab vs real world, I meant in general, bars, swingers clubs, wherever.
I probably didn't word my OP very well tbf |
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I think you are attractive I think lots of us who don’t consider ourselves hot are in actual fact really quite fanciable to others.
And here’s the however, there’s a whole group of people milling around thinking I can’t approach him or her because they won’t fancy me when in reality they might just do that.
If I saw you in a pub I’d probably not chat you up until I’d had some brave juice because I’d think you wouldn’t be into me.
Does that make sense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m very much an acquired taste. The only times I was ever approached was when I was playing my guitar and singing and they came up to me afterwards. I was young and quite handsome but I didn’t get much attention other than that.
I am flirtatious with people I know but very unlikely for that ever to be anything more than flirty banter. My hairy chest became a bit of a thing for a few female friends, but until I came on the Forum I’d not been approached since I was in my 20s."
Do you think you gave off a bit of an "I'm shy" vibe? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Before I knew you? No but because I'm too shy.
Now I'd be telling you to get the shots in  "
I'd have approached you before...we'd have always ended up doing shots |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think you are attractive I think lots of us who don’t consider ourselves hot are in actual fact really quite fanciable to others.
And here’s the however, there’s a whole group of people milling around thinking I can’t approach him or her because they won’t fancy me when in reality they might just do that.
If I saw you in a pub I’d probably not chat you up until I’d had some brave juice because I’d think you wouldn’t be into me.
Does that make sense "
It does (and thank you).
I think I'm weird, I'm less nervous approaching someone than having someone approach me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm certainly an acquired taste. Or someone that grows on you.
I don't get anywhere near the attention in real life I get on here .
I'm not classically pretty in any way. I'm overweight, I'm pale, I'm not totally made up and being a single mum puts folk off too I think (though they can't see that ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm certainly an acquired taste. Or someone that grows on you.
I don't get anywhere near the attention in real life I get on here .
I'm not classically pretty in any way. I'm overweight, I'm pale, I'm not totally made up and being a single mum puts folk off too I think (though they can't see that ) "
You look gorgeous from what I can see!
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated? "
Attractive (of which you definitely are)ladies are extremely intimidating- even the most self assured men hate a knock back, it takes a lot of courage to approach in a bar and if you are laughed away it can be crippling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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God how do you say this without sounding big headed or arrogant because I’m neither but looks and body wise I’m attractive but feel like I’m a acquired taste in regards to what I’m looking for on here |
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated?
Attractive (of which you definitely are)ladies are extremely intimidating- even the most self assured men hate a knock back, it takes a lot of courage to approach in a bar and if you are laughed away it can be crippling "
Do people really laugh?! That's horrid!
I don't think I want to be intimidating... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m very much an acquired taste. The only times I was ever approached was when I was playing my guitar and singing and they came up to me afterwards. I was young and quite handsome but I didn’t get much attention other than that.
I am flirtatious with people I know, but very unlikely for that ever to be anything more than flirty banter. My hairy chest became a bit of a thing for a few female friends, but until I came on the Forum I’d not been approached since I was in my 20s.
Do you think you gave off a bit of an "I'm shy" vibe? "
I think at times I did. I didn’t realise how much more introverted I was than the persona I portrayed at times. Only as I discovered more about myself did I realise I was an ambivert, so not naturally outgoing but more situationally outgoing. Once I get to know people a bit I become more expressive, however in large gatherings I became quieter and observed more what was happening. In my younger years I’d regularly make a bit of a tit of myself by trying to be outgoing and end up chatting shit. So that was probably what was most offputting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m very much an acquired taste. The only times I was ever approached was when I was playing my guitar and singing and they came up to me afterwards. I was young and quite handsome but I didn’t get much attention other than that.
I am flirtatious with people I know, but very unlikely for that ever to be anything more than flirty banter. My hairy chest became a bit of a thing for a few female friends, but until I came on the Forum I’d not been approached since I was in my 20s.
Do you think you gave off a bit of an "I'm shy" vibe?
I think at times I did. I didn’t realise how much more introverted I was than the persona I portrayed at times. Only as I discovered more about myself did I realise I was an ambivert, so not naturally outgoing but more situationally outgoing. Once I get to know people a bit I become more expressive, however in large gatherings I became quieter and observed more what was happening. In my younger years I’d regularly make a bit of a tit of myself by trying to be outgoing and end up chatting shit. So that was probably what was most offputting "
That makes sense!
You're a grower! |
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I could have written this myself. Sometimes I don't see myself as attractive. Like I know I have a cute face and big boobs but much like yourself I am definitely an acquired taste. I get approached a lot, I think it's because I smile a lot and wear low cut tops. It always surprises me when people find me attractive - I almost want to ask them, really? But then that's needy and not confident.
As far as you are concerned, of course I would approach you. Not in a cool way, obviously. I'd probably nervously sort of approach. But yes, I would. 100%  |
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I'd approach you op, I'd be so taken with your hair that I'd have to.
I always thought I was a bit of an acquired taste. Having long hair can go one way or the other. But I've never thought of myself as attractive, more that the people who find me are attractive are weird. |
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"I’m very much an acquired taste. The only times I was ever approached was when I was playing my guitar and singing and they came up to me afterwards. I was young and quite handsome but I didn’t get much attention other than that.
I am flirtatious with people I know, but very unlikely for that ever to be anything more than flirty banter. My hairy chest became a bit of a thing for a few female friends, but until I came on the Forum I’d not been approached since I was in my 20s.
Do you think you gave off a bit of an "I'm shy" vibe?
I think at times I did. I didn’t realise how much more introverted I was than the persona I portrayed at times. Only as I discovered more about myself did I realise I was an ambivert, so not naturally outgoing but more situationally outgoing. Once I get to know people a bit I become more expressive, however in large gatherings I became quieter and observed more what was happening. In my younger years I’d regularly make a bit of a tit of myself by trying to be outgoing and end up chatting shit. So that was probably what was most offputting
That makes sense!
You're a grower! "
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I forgot to answer from my side. I think I'm too approachable, I have a kinda bubbly nature and I'm usually smiling so people think I'm friendly or flirty but then I fall into the "cute" category rather than sexy and I don't know how to change that. People tend to want to cuddle me rather than ravish me  |
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"I could have written this myself. Sometimes I don't see myself as attractive. Like I know I have a cute face and big boobs but much like yourself I am definitely an acquired taste. I get approached a lot, I think it's because I smile a lot and wear low cut tops. It always surprises me when people find me attractive - I almost want to ask them, really? But then that's needy and not confident.
As far as you are concerned, of course I would approach you. Not in a cool way, obviously. I'd probably nervously sort of approach. But yes, I would. 100% "
The "not in a cool way" is what would make it so fucking cool!
I find it even more attractive when someone isn't aware how alluring they are.
I don't think you're an acquired taste, I just think you're lush!  |
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"I'd approach you op, I'd be so taken with your hair that I'd have to.
I always thought I was a bit of an acquired taste. Having long hair can go one way or the other. But I've never thought of myself as attractive, more that the people who find me are attractive are weird. "
I'd be the same! I love long hair on men! I'd have to tell you how awesome it is!
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"I forgot to answer from my side. I think I'm too approachable, I have a kinda bubbly nature and I'm usually smiling so people think I'm friendly or flirty but then I fall into the "cute" category rather than sexy and I don't know how to change that. People tend to want to cuddle me rather than ravish me "
I mean, I'd rather do both! |
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated?
Attractive (of which you definitely are)ladies are extremely intimidating- even the most self assured men hate a knock back, it takes a lot of courage to approach in a bar and if you are laughed away it can be crippling
Do people really laugh?! That's horrid!
I don't think I want to be intimidating..."
Yep - a group of woman together are worse than men imo... they can be really spiteful (not all of you mind).
I think intimidating is to strong a word but I’m unsure what word to use - more apprehensive than intimidated.
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated?
Attractive (of which you definitely are)ladies are extremely intimidating- even the most self assured men hate a knock back, it takes a lot of courage to approach in a bar and if you are laughed away it can be crippling
Do people really laugh?! That's horrid!
I don't think I want to be intimidating...
Yep - a group of woman together are worse than men imo... they can be really spiteful (not all of you mind).
I think intimidating is to strong a word but I’m unsure what word to use - more apprehensive than intimidated.
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How could one make themselves more approachable? |
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I'd also mention that for me having the confidence to approach someone in a real world environment like a pub would be a challenge. I think that there is a genuine lowering of anxiety in a swingers club as it's already an unspoken thing that most people there are of a similar mind set. I find it so much easier to chat to people and get a conversation going.
As for your point ;I think you look very nice with a friendly smile and I would approach you for a chat if the location was right for me to feel relaxed and comfortable.  |
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"I forgot to answer from my side. I think I'm too approachable, I have a kinda bubbly nature and I'm usually smiling so people think I'm friendly or flirty but then I fall into the "cute" category rather than sexy and I don't know how to change that. People tend to want to cuddle me rather than ravish me "
I (Luke) certainty don't see you as cute more than sexy, and whilst cuddling you would be lovely, I wouldn't turn down a good ravishing. |
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"I forgot to answer from my side. I think I'm too approachable, I have a kinda bubbly nature and I'm usually smiling so people think I'm friendly or flirty but then I fall into the "cute" category rather than sexy and I don't know how to change that. People tend to want to cuddle me rather than ravish me
I (Luke) certainty don't see you as cute more than sexy, and whilst cuddling you would be lovely, I wouldn't turn down a good ravishing. "
I think that's the difference between fab and the real world. On here people see a glimpse of me portraying myself in a (hopefully!) sexual way and respond accordingly but day to day I don't carry myself that way, I'm not a head turner and I'm not what people would consider sexy. |
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I think the only reason i turn heads in the real world is because I'm so tall... other than that I'm quite introverted so i would rather chew my own arm off than approach someone in a bar... unless i was d*unk and even tben I'd probably make a tit of myself |
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Oh good heavens yes I would say a splendid hello .
Am I an acquired taste , golly gumdrops I have no idea , I like my own company so hopefully others do |
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In my life I've very very rarely approached people in social settings, I'm rather awkward socially and generally need a reason to talk to people beyond 'I fancy you', so personally; no.
However in the spirit in which I think your OP is intended, I do think that you are attractive and have a welcoming smile, you look sexy in your pictures so I can see why others would want to meet you.
I think that it's important to remember that how we see ourselves is not how others see us, whilst we may fixate on what we see as negatives, others see positives. Try not to overthink attraction on others part, we all see beauty in different things and there will never be a consensus of opinion.
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"I'd also mention that for me having the confidence to approach someone in a real world environment like a pub would be a challenge. I think that there is a genuine lowering of anxiety in a swingers club as it's already an unspoken thing that most people there are of a similar mind set. I find it so much easier to chat to people and get a conversation going.
As for your point ;I think you look very nice with a friendly smile and I would approach you for a chat if the location was right for me to feel relaxed and comfortable. "
Yeah, I definitely think people feel more comfortable approaching someone here.
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"I think the only reason i turn heads in the real world is because I'm so tall... other than that I'm quite introverted so i would rather chew my own arm off than approach someone in a bar... unless i was d*unk and even tben I'd probably make a tit of myself "
How do you deal with people approaching you? |
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"Oh good heavens yes I would say a splendid hello .
Am I an acquired taste , golly gumdrops I have no idea , I like my own company so hopefully others do "
I think you'd be fabulous company! |
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"In my life I've very very rarely approached people in social settings, I'm rather awkward socially and generally need a reason to talk to people beyond 'I fancy you', so personally; no.
However in the spirit in which I think your OP is intended, I do think that you are attractive and have a welcoming smile, you look sexy in your pictures so I can see why others would want to meet you.
I think that it's important to remember that how we see ourselves is not how others see us, whilst we may fixate on what we see as negatives, others see positives. Try not to overthink attraction on others part, we all see beauty in different things and there will never be a consensus of opinion.
Tea"
Absolutely, good point well made, as ever!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fella here - Not my type sorry, so I'd definitely be looking past you at the hotty with the mini skirt on.
Each to their own as they say!"
Absolutely!
To be fair, I'd probably be looking at her too |
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I'm an approacher! I don't generally have any filters whenever I'm out in a social situation, which means I need to try to keep a check on myself or I find I'm scaring people away!
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"I forgot to answer from my side. I think I'm too approachable, I have a kinda bubbly nature and I'm usually smiling so people think I'm friendly or flirty but then I fall into the "cute" category rather than sexy and I don't know how to change that. People tend to want to cuddle me rather than ravish me "
Can I ravish you first and cuddle after? |
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"I'm an approacher! I don't generally have any filters whenever I'm out in a social situation, which means I need to try to keep a check on myself or I find I'm scaring people away!
Peach x"
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I would have said acquired taste in my younger years but I must have 'grown into' my face as I do get alot of second looks as a daily observation when I'm out and about. The head turning is definitely in an admiring way before I get funny remarks |
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over a year ago
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My resting birch face and the pink neon sign above my head that flashes ‘unapproachable’ doesn’t do me any favours in the real world. On fab I generally do a lot better. |
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"I would have said acquired taste in my younger years but I must have 'grown into' my face as I do get alot of second looks as a daily observation when I'm out and about. The head turning is definitely in an admiring way before I get funny remarks "
I mean, I can't see your face, but I'm not surprised people are looking twice, you have a great figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My sexual preferences move in cycles  ...
You are definitely an acquired taste and it was my choice at a certain point in life.
The cycle has now moved on
Your very pretty and curvaceous x |
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"My resting birch face and the pink neon sign above my head that flashes ‘unapproachable’ doesn’t do me any favours in the real world. On fab I generally do a lot better."
You're very pretty! I'd be tempted to come say hello to you! |
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over a year ago
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"My sexual preferences move in cycles ...
You are definitely an acquired taste and it was my choice at a certain point in life.
The cycle has now moved on
Your very pretty and curvaceous x"
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"I would have said acquired taste in my younger years but I must have 'grown into' my face as I do get alot of second looks as a daily observation when I'm out and about. The head turning is definitely in an admiring way before I get funny remarks
I mean, I can't see your face, but I'm not surprised people are looking twice, you have a great figure! "
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"My resting birch face and the pink neon sign above my head that flashes ‘unapproachable’ doesn’t do me any favours in the real world. On fab I generally do a lot better.
You're very pretty! I'd be tempted to come say hello to you! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I get approached the same amount live and on here. Am I drop dead gorgeous? Nope. I have a shitload of confidence and for many that is attractive |
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"So I've just been chatting to a girlfriend and she reckons I have a warped idea of what people think of me...I think I'm realistic.
She was saying that she thinks more people find me attractive than I think or am aware of.
Whereas I think I'm an acquired taste and not that many people actually really think I'm hot. I think the only reason it may seem otherwise is because a lot of people will fuck someone they're not that into.
So to prove a point, would you approach me at a bar? Or someone else someone might approach someone.
And do you think you're an acquired taste? Or generally speaking quite attractive to most?
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Well attraction is subjective but very much in the right ball park for me (as anyone who knows me well would say).
But I think this is true for most women, so many I know have a distorted veiw of their attractiveness. Lucky for us men, God imagine if women started to grow in self esteem and realise how awesome they are? What a nightmare that would be. Would make it very hard to keep them down and we (us men) would have to up our game. Luckily so many women still don't know how awesome they are and that works nicely to the brotherhood's advantage. |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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Well I’ll start by saying that you have a beautiful face and a really alluring body. However, the thing that would really make me attracted to you would likely be your behaviour so in response to your question would I approach you then if you acted welcoming and have a warm nature then I’d be attracted to you and would put my self out there for sure |
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"I think that's the difference between fab and the real world. On here people see a glimpse of me portraying myself in a (hopefully!) sexual way and respond accordingly but day to day I don't carry myself that way, I'm not a head turner and I'm not what people would consider sexy. "
I don't think that's true in this case. I (Luke) can see what you look like well enough. It's not how you present yourself either on here or in real life. I can see a woman I would be highly attracted to if I saw you. That may not be true of everybody but I'm certain it's true of me. |
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Approach for a chat yes. I often approach randoms for a bit of chit chat. Met some of my favourite people that way in my village.
Wouldn’t want anything else though in a nice way not what I look for. |
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over a year ago
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated? "
I mean it in a nice way. Because you come across as confident in the forums and you're very pretty.
I would maybe say hello if we were both at the MLS. |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated?
I mean it in a nice way. Because you come across as confident in the forums and you're very pretty.
I would maybe say hello if we were both at the MLS. "
I totally agree with this, it’s definitely a case of wanting to this issue would lie in the approach. Many of us lack confidence to approach someone you see as very pretty which can mean they also don’t see the volume of interest they actually generate. |
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over a year ago
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"I think you are attractive but I definitely wouldn't approach you. I would be intimidated.
Can I ask why you'd be intimidated?
I mean it in a nice way. Because you come across as confident in the forums and you're very pretty.
I would maybe say hello if we were both at the MLS. "
Well thank you! |
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over a year ago
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"I was thinking something similar recently, why women who say they wouldn’t be noticed in a bar or in the street get hundreds of Fabbed pictures and hundreds of blokes here wanting to get naked with them.
I think it’s down to this - if you’re out in “real life” then blokes see your face, hair, body shape and clothes. From that they decide if they like you or not.
On here, the pictures show not only that (sometimes not the face) but they also show what you look like naked, the kind of sex you’re into, your confidence with sex, how you handle 8 cocks at once etc
Seeing that has much more importance than body shape which is why you (not just you but most women) get more attention here.
Exactly, I'm not sure asking the men of a fab forum if one is attractive would or will prove anything "
An attention grab |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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In a bar, no. But that's because I'm uncomfortable in bars and very shy, and would never approach anyone. But I would notice you and think "she's pretty".
In a club, definitely. I wouldn't have read your profile there, and would still be thinking or hoping there might be a chance.
You have a beautiful face. And pink hair really suits you. Nice arse too. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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... and I forgot the second part in my excitement.
I am an acquired taste. I'm not hideously ugly, but my body is a long way from beautiful. It's when people take the time to talk with me that they find something to like. |
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I'd need to see you move and interact with others before I approached you
I think that's when a true attraction kicks in
As for me, I carry a pretty poor reflection of myself in my head
That said, I am logical enough to know that I am unconventionally attractive (physically)
I also think, in person, the way I have about me wins me more fans than my looks ever would |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think you look cute as hell and definitely approachable, i often thought it would be interesting to know what everyone thought of you, bad or good lol "
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"In a bar, no. But that's because I'm uncomfortable in bars and very shy, and would never approach anyone. But I would notice you and think "she's pretty".
In a club, definitely. I wouldn't have read your profile there, and would still be thinking or hoping there might be a chance.
You have a beautiful face. And pink hair really suits you. Nice arse too."
Thanks very much!
This is all very flattering! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I’m good looking and that isn’t me being self deprecating hoping someone will disagree. Apparently though, I am. To some. To some degree. "
You are! We all are |
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"... and I forgot the second part in my excitement.
I am an acquired taste. I'm not hideously ugly, but my body is a long way from beautiful. It's when people take the time to talk with me that they find something to like."
You're body will be beautiful to some! |
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"I'd need to see you move and interact with others before I approached you
I think that's when a true attraction kicks in
As for me, I carry a pretty poor reflection of myself in my head
That said, I am logical enough to know that I am unconventionally attractive (physically)
I also think, in person, the way I have about me wins me more fans than my looks ever would"
Personally is always the kicker for me...looks only get you so far |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would definitely say hello to you, I'm definitely on the acquired side of things all of my friends have said that and then they get to know me "
Thanks! You look like you'd be very friendly; you have a warm smile |
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