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Now that's just a bit weird...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?   "
Unfortunately there are alot of strange people on here who don't take the hint at all that you are not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that? "
I’m an optimist so this person is trying really hard to catch your eye? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that? "
maybe they were smitten with your stingray pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that."
You are so gullible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that? "
People are strange, it happens. |
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible "
Clearly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly "
So u r talking to me now ? |
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"The problem with using you fab name as your kik name....
Solutions?
Mebbe she only uses kik for Fab?
Even so, what makes someone think it's ok or right to do that?
Its stalkerish.
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But one can minimise the risk can they not? This is a website comprised of thousands upon thousands of people, some will have mental health issues or characteristics that lead to the type of behaviour the OP is experiencing. To remove yourself from the possibility of this happening is simple is it not?
Far more simple that trying to change the behaviour of those that even mental health professionals are struggling to manage, don't you think. We do have a responsibility to protect ourselves as much as we have a right to campaign for respect and "proper behaviour" |
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"The problem with using you fab name as your kik name....
Solutions?
Mebbe she only uses kik for Fab?
Even so, what makes someone think it's ok or right to do that?
Its stalkerish.
But one can minimise the risk can they not? This is a website comprised of thousands upon thousands of people, some will have mental health issues or characteristics that lead to the type of behaviour the OP is experiencing. To remove yourself from the possibility of this happening is simple is it not?
Far more simple that trying to change the behaviour of those that even mental health professionals are struggling to manage, don't you think. We do have a responsibility to protect ourselves as much as we have a right to campaign for respect and "proper behaviour" "
So it's the OPs fault? |
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ? "
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No"
Working well  |
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"The problem with using you fab name as your kik name....
Solutions?
Mebbe she only uses kik for Fab?
Even so, what makes someone think it's ok or right to do that?
Its stalkerish.
But one can minimise the risk can they not? This is a website comprised of thousands upon thousands of people, some will have mental health issues or characteristics that lead to the type of behaviour the OP is experiencing. To remove yourself from the possibility of this happening is simple is it not?
Far more simple that trying to change the behaviour of those that even mental health professionals are struggling to manage, don't you think. We do have a responsibility to protect ourselves as much as we have a right to campaign for respect and "proper behaviour"
So it's the OPs fault?"
It makes sense though doesn't it. |
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well "
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart."
and mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart."
and mine |
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"The problem with using you fab name as your kik name....
Solutions?
Mebbe she only uses kik for Fab?
Even so, what makes someone think it's ok or right to do that?
Its stalkerish.
But one can minimise the risk can they not? This is a website comprised of thousands upon thousands of people, some will have mental health issues or characteristics that lead to the type of behaviour the OP is experiencing. To remove yourself from the possibility of this happening is simple is it not?
Far more simple that trying to change the behaviour of those that even mental health professionals are struggling to manage, don't you think. We do have a responsibility to protect ourselves as much as we have a right to campaign for respect and "proper behaviour"
So it's the OPs fault?"
I don't know how you derived that conclusion from my post, I have simply stated that some people on fab have "issues" and that we can reduce our exposure to those "issues" by being aware.
I am not "victim blaming" and find it disingenuous that you would imply such a thing. Moreover I am offering advice to try and assist the OP with reducing this danger in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart."
The only I wanted to smash is your back door.
Sorry love x |
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By *aekae OP Woman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart."
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet. "
Thank you x
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
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Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices. |
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By *aekae OP Woman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it. "
Without wanting to say how he managed it and opening the door to a whole lot more weirdos....... 
I'm over the shock now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices."
It is only my 'preference' ! No offence meant by it ! |
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By *aekae OP Woman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices."
I'm still young enough to run round the supermarket bins......
It's like a kinky kiss chase. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices.
I'm still young enough to run round the supermarket bins......
It's like a kinky kiss chase. "
Don't run too fast though cause last time you did you fell into a big cock and broke one of your holes |
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices.
It is only my 'preference' ! No offence meant by it ! "
You're a man men aren't allowed 'preferences. Thems the rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that? "
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao  |
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices.
I'm still young enough to run round the supermarket bins......
It's like a kinky kiss chase.
Don't run too fast though cause last time you did you fell into a big cock and broke one of your holes "
Oh you've already met each other haven't you,I saw the Waitrose article in the newspaper not good F&B not good! |
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao "
You didn't send her a weirdo message though, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao
You didn't send her a weirdo message though, right? "
I'm sure with this thread she'll receive enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao "
omg you're a stalker now to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the point of kik was that you couldn't be tracked down unless you give your username? Or have I got that wrong, I don't use it.
I'm just thinking the same,how has he managed that.
You are so gullible
Clearly
So u r talking to me now ?
No
Working well
I just can't forgive you,you've broken my heart.
Just forget her, I still love you my sweet.
Thank you x
Whatever she won't be saying that when she's perimenopausal as well! Damn your prejudices.
I'm still young enough to run round the supermarket bins......
It's like a kinky kiss chase.
Don't run too fast though cause last time you did you fell into a big cock and broke one of your holes
Oh you've already met each other haven't you,I saw the Waitrose article in the newspaper not good F&B not good!"
 send me the link |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
Unfortunately there are alot of strange people on here who don't take the hint at all that you are not interested "
This OP.
Only yesterday I had a single guy message me on a new account but I told him no thanks, he then messaged me on his old account rather rudely. Fear of rejection for some people on here is not great. Double block on him also.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao omg you're a stalker now to "
Cue another thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not in a good way.
Someone who's PM I ignored just tracked me down on kik and messaged me.
Double block time.
Why would you do that?
I just found you in about 3 seconds lmfao omg you're a stalker now to
Cue another thread "
yes eg women stalking women is it more acceptable than say a guy or couple lol  |
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"The problem with using you fab name as your kik name....
Solutions?
Mebbe she only uses kik for Fab?
Even so, what makes someone think it's ok or right to do that?
Its stalkerish.
But one can minimise the risk can they not? This is a website comprised of thousands upon thousands of people, some will have mental health issues or characteristics that lead to the type of behaviour the OP is experiencing. To remove yourself from the possibility of this happening is simple is it not?
Far more simple that trying to change the behaviour of those that even mental health professionals are struggling to manage, don't you think. We do have a responsibility to protect ourselves as much as we have a right to campaign for respect and "proper behaviour" "
This is one reason I do not understand why people display their face pic
Normal people , good people wont stalk however this is the internet , expect to be stalked and hunted , the more you give the easier it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Online you just have to put up as many firewalls as you can. Fab is linked to a user name and email I only use for this. KiK name is different and any other social media is different still. Photos on here are unique to Fab only. If I was going to use phone or WhatsApp for swinging then I would get a separate phone and number.
You can't stop the way people will behave so take the precautions required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the early days of being on Fab we were messaging with a couple. Swapped face pics etc and not being as clued up as we are now, some personal info.
Decided not to take things any further, a week later I received a friend request and PM on Face ache
Lesson learned quickly!
Miss V |
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