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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
strathaven |
"Depends on how you word it. A lot of us dont play well with others, so don't be surprised, or take it personally if a few of them politely decline. "
Good advice, thank you. With your answer in mind I’m already thinking two won’t play...boo  |
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"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?
I’m concerned about offending them. "
O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind
I wouldn’t
Unless of course they thought it was more
Good luck mind |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
strathaven |
"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?
I’m concerned about offending them.
O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind
I wouldn’t
Unless of course they thought it was more
Good luck mind "
No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes  |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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Simple, ask them.
If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.
However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?
I’m concerned about offending them.
O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind
I wouldn’t
Unless of course they thought it was more
Good luck mind
No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes "
There is a bit of a bargaining chip... Offer to join them in their fantasy if they indulge you in yours. |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Simple, ask them.
If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.
However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved "
Mmm true, timing might be an issue considering two of them live overseas
I like the fantasy/ pillow talk approach  Thanks x |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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If they're from the swinging world, I wouldn't worry about offending them. Don't assume that they'll say yes, just say it's something you'd like to do and ask if they'd be interested.
If they're not from the swinging world... there might be a whole other conversation you need to have first. |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
strathaven |
"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?
I’m concerned about offending them.
O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind
I wouldn’t
Unless of course they thought it was more
Good luck mind
No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes
There is a bit of a bargaining chip... Offer to join them in their fantasy if they indulge you in yours. "
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
"Simple, ask them.
If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.
However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved
Mmm true, timing might be an issue considering two of them live overseas
I like the fantasy/ pillow talk approach Thanks x"
Personally I'd say go with it... Once they see how turned on it gets you it will turn them on to participate more |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If they're from the swinging world, I wouldn't worry about offending them. Don't assume that they'll say yes, just say it's something you'd like to do and ask if they'd be interested.
If they're not from the swinging world... there might be a whole other conversation you need to have first."
None of them from the swinging world but they know I indulge x |
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over a year ago
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"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? "
yes but don't tell the others you slept with them  |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them "
I don’t tell lies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them
I don’t tell lies "
you invite each individually and say you're inviting 4 others but don't mention you've had the others do it on a need to know basis, more chance of it happening then  |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them
I don’t tell lies you invite each individually and say you're inviting 4 others but don't mention you've had the others do it on a need to know basis, more chance of it happening then "
Sorry I disagree, I think that could turn out horribly wrong x |
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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other  "
They’re all pretty similar (funnily enough) so yeah they probably won’t get on haha.
I don’t think I would mind meeting others meets though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other
They’re all pretty similar (funnily enough) so yeah they probably won’t get on haha.
I don’t think I would mind meeting others meets though x"
and like somebody else said quite often people don't turn up for these things invite more than you need lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you get no joy with your friends. There is always the option of going to a swingers club to indulge your fantasy. Many of them do "Greedy girls" Events from what I've heard.
Even though I'm on here, even though I'm a raging bisexual, even though I indulge in threesomes.. I've zero interest in being part of a gangbang. Partly because I get a little overwhelmed sometimes. Too much new stuff happening at once, I overthink things. I try to read between the lines and I can't help it. Hence the line in my profile.. "First meets being relatively vanilla affairs".
Would I be offended at being asked to partake by a friend I've already played with? Not on your life. I'd be flattered, not offended, though I'd still politely decline.
I think your best option is pillow talk.. it's one of the nicer parts to sexual meets I think. Exploring and learning more about someone. You seem like a very honest and intelligent woman. I wouldn't worry too much about offending others. You dont seem like the type to deliberately antagonize and offend. IF they do get offended, I hope you tell them where to go.. Good luck |
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"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.
Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? "
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