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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find that during my time upon this site, though I have had many interactions with women, I always find it much harder to find a mature/older women who is into guys my age. Most are partnered and looking for someone their age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its ashame really, I guess i've because ive entered the swinging life at a young age as what someone told me at a event a few weeks back."
Lots of women won’t want to meet someone as young as you as they have children your age. Don’t sweat it. Plenty of women will   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its sad tbh how sexual preferences differ for men and women our age. Its much easier for women with our age to aquire older men. *read your profile.*"
It’s not sad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its sad tbh how sexual preferences differ for men and women our age. Its much easier for women with our age to aquire older men. *read your profile.*
It’s not sad"
Phrased slightly wrong. But I guess your right, just gotta keep looking. I have been approcahed by some, but I think the age bracket or gap, was a bit to extreme. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The key is to lie about your age.
When you go on a meet and the woman is suspicious you say that your dad send you to fuck her as he couldn't make it due to his bad back |
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Hello OP,
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the line and a half that you currently have written on your profile won't impress anyone.
Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
There are plenty of older women interested in meeting younger men like you, but you will need to stand out of the crowd, or they will simply pass you by.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello OP,
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the line and a half that you currently have written on your profile won't impress anyone.
Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
There are plenty of older women interested in meeting younger men like you, but you will need to stand out of the crowd, or they will simply pass you by.
Good luck."
ummm Thanks.... 0.o However I don't message people without checking their profile first, I'm talking about in general. Also in regards to my bio, it was a quick thing I filled out in no less than two seconds of creating this account a few months ago. I havn't gotten round to changing it. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Hello OP,
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the line and a half that you currently have written on your profile won't impress anyone.
Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
There are plenty of older women interested in meeting younger men like you, but you will need to stand out of the crowd, or they will simply pass you by.
Good luck.
ummm Thanks.... 0.o However I don't message people without checking their profile first, I'm talking about in general. Also in regards to my bio, it was a quick thing I filled out in no less than two seconds of creating this account a few months ago. I havn't gotten round to changing it."
If you "haven't gotten round to changing it" in two months, when it is the one place you have a chance to sell yourself and entice others, are you really surprised not to have got any interest?
I mean that kindly, but if you don't put the effort in, why would people be interested.
First priority should be to update along the lines of what Travaunance suggested - it won't guarantee a thing but it will help |
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"ummm Thanks.... 0.o However I don't message people without checking their profile first, I'm talking about in general. "
Clearly we were an exception then?
"Also in regards to my bio, it was a quick thing I filled out in no less than two seconds of creating this account a few months ago. I havn't gotten round to changing it."
It doesn't take much time, and as your profile is one of the most important parts of your presence here maybe you should have tried to find some time in the last nine months to improve it? You could add a line or two saying that you are looking for an older woman, and what you offer them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s been the opposite for me on here to be honest. I find I get along better and we just click a bit more.
I think I’m a bit old in my personality and I’m not that hip like the young ones of today.
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