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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable? |
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over a year ago
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As long as you're in public and not entering private premises (shops etc), it's a fair game in my opinion.
Baffles me how being on the beach nearly naked is ok but anywhere outside it's not.
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over a year ago
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"I think it's an incredibly naff look.
The sort of thing I'd expect to see on the streets of Basildon or Luton.
Wear a pair of Reebok Classic trainers to complete the overall appearance..."
Wow
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"If you’re on the beach or in the park then I think it’s fine, especially in this weather. However I think it’s inappropriate in shops/towns/eateries."
Gets my vote  |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?"
Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op"
Indeed I had walked 200 along a street prior |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?"
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site. |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op
Indeed I had walked 200 along a street prior"
If id seen you in the park i wouldnt of thought anything of it. If id seen you in the street i would of thought you looked like a chavvy pissed up football supporter |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op
Indeed I had walked 200 along a street priorIf id seen you in the park i wouldnt of thought anything of it. If id seen you in the street i would of thought you looked like a chavvy pissed up football supporter"
So here's the point 
However I may appear the reality was different to your prejudice
You made a wildly wrong character assessment
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op
Indeed I had walked 200 along a street priorIf id seen you in the park i wouldnt of thought anything of it. If id seen you in the street i would of thought you looked like a chavvy pissed up football supporter
So here's the point
However I may appear the reality was different to your prejudice
You made a wildly wrong character assessment
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well your the one that asked if it was a good look or not. I was just answering you |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site. "
But they don't have their bollocks or minge out on the High Street. |
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I don't love it. I accept that it happens in this weather. I'm not bothered.
My main reason for suggesting not to would be more the increased sun exposure and the health risks that brings, but again not my business. |
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over a year ago
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When you've reached a destination being topless is generally ok. Walking about getting there looks a bit naff, like you forget to get dressed properly. In general I dont really care however. |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site.
But they don't have their bollocks or minge out on the High Street."
Have you seen some of the clothes women wear ? |
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over a year ago
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It’s incredibly lame and trying a bit to hard. The only places where it’s acceptable is at the beach or at a swimming pool. My instant thought when I see a bloke with his top of, other than these places is he’s a Terry Tryhard. |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site.
But they don't have their bollocks or minge out on the High Street.
Have you seen some of the clothes women wear ? "
Unfortunately yes.  |
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"On a beach or in the park, ok.
Anywhere else, no, it’s chavvy.
Albeit _irl1234xxx, it'd be perfectly acceptable for you to roam anywhere in just your skimpiest of bikini's... "
Haha my bikini is only for use on the beach or in my own back garden! |
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"On a beach or in the park, ok.
Anywhere else, no, it’s chavvy.
Albeit _irl1234xxx, it'd be perfectly acceptable for you to roam anywhere in just your skimpiest of bikini's...
Haha my bikini is only for use on the beach or in my own back garden!"
Or for a selfie in an elevator maybe?!! x |
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So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? "
Their body, their choice. I can look away if I don't like it.
Signed, yes my skirt is still past my knees today. |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? "
why not start a thread asking. This thread wasnt about any of those things
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"On a beach or in the park, ok.
Anywhere else, no, it’s chavvy.
Albeit _irl1234xxx, it'd be perfectly acceptable for you to roam anywhere in just your skimpiest of bikini's...
Haha my bikini is only for use on the beach or in my own back garden!
Or for a selfie in an elevator maybe?!! x"
Nope, I don’t wear a bikini in an elevator, that would be weird. |
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over a year ago
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Its not a good look tbh.
Smacks of "look at how amazing I am." It never ceases to amaze me how many people come on holiday. "Turkey" and think it's acceptable to walk around wearing next to nothing. Men and women.
It doesn't surprise me that my friends here think we're tossers and "easy". |
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over a year ago
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I don’t really mind outside it’s your body ect BUT I do think that some fat bloke with a massive bear belly walking around ASDA with no shirt on is deffo not a good look by any stretch of the imagination  |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site.
But they don't have their bollocks or minge out on the High Street.
Have you seen some of the clothes women wear ?
Unfortunately yes. "
Exactly and it’s an everyday occurrence, morning, noon or night, and it doesn’t matter if it’s 100 degrees or minus 5
I wear flame proof, double skinned overalls, safety helmet, goggles or glasses and gloves depending on which plant I’m on in work, if I could walk this streets with my balls out without getting arrested I would, does that make me a pissed up chav , football hooligan type as people are putting on here.
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?
According to some people on here. (Not me btw)
Those same people who have literally no clothes on, in many different promiscuous positions and are advertising themselves on a sex site.
But they don't have their bollocks or minge out on the High Street.
Have you seen some of the clothes women wear ?
Unfortunately yes.
Exactly and it’s an everyday occurrence, morning, noon or night, and it doesn’t matter if it’s 100 degrees or minus 5
I wear flame proof, double skinned overalls, safety helmet, goggles or glasses and gloves depending on which plant I’m on in work, if I could walk this streets with my balls out without getting arrested I would, does that make me a pissed up chav , football hooligan type as people are putting on here.
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I’d you walked the streets with your balls out then yeah, I’d say that’s more than chavvy (obviously). As it’s illegal though, it’s not something you need to worry about |
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over a year ago
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Appears to be blokes wanting to show off as not cooler than a tee shirt is it?
And not ever in shops ...ever. Not even a gym vest! Bloody armpits stretching over fresh veg!! Bawk |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? why not start a thread asking. This thread wasnt about any of those things"
It’s just putting the shoe on another foot, its the same type of scenario just suited for females
(God forbid we ever say anything about the female species) and because I’m not so judgemental to be worried about what other people wear, eat, say, or do with their lives.
If they don’t steal, hurt children, women or old people then why should we care?
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? why not start a thread asking. This thread wasnt about any of those things
It’s just putting the shoe on another foot, its the same type of scenario just suited for females
(God forbid we ever say anything about the female species) and because I’m not so judgemental to be worried about what other people wear, eat, say, or do with their lives.
If they don’t steal, hurt children, women or old people then why should we care?
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OP asked was a topless man a good look, he received opinions.
Maybe we don’t care but are just answering the question? |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? why not start a thread asking. This thread wasnt about any of those things
It’s just putting the shoe on another foot, its the same type of scenario just suited for females
(God forbid we ever say anything about the female species) and because I’m not so judgemental to be worried about what other people wear, eat, say, or do with their lives.
If they don’t steal, hurt children, women or old people then why should we care?
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the op asked if it was a good look or not and people have answered accordingly. Have no idea why your getting your knickers in a twist your not even the op
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Personally I rarely wear shirt because I spend my working hours encased
in safety gear and what the hell, they are just human bodies and peoples opinions... I m also barefoot most of time... All these rukes and opinions as to how people should be... BE YOURSELF?? Dont be a sheep lol |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ?
Their body, their choice. I can look away if I don't like it.
Signed, yes my skirt is still past my knees today. "
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"Do what you want, let others judge, just be yourself always
Is having an opinion on whether you like a particular look or not being judgemental?
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Referring to comments about being a chav etc.. |
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?"
I take it your footy shirt was in the wash? |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?"
Grim grim grim......
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?"
people say crocs are comfortable but does t mean they are a good look |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?people say crocs are comfortable but does t mean they are a good look "
Croc are my garden pick up dog poop shoes!!! Even then I’m embarrassed!!!   |
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over a year ago
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not walking around the streets.. or in the park.. no. In your garden, at home, the beach.. or where dress code permits. I don't want to see your nipples dude.. neither do my kids. |
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"Some right snobby wankers in this.
It's official, it looks shit. There's nothing subjective about it.
It's not official. That's just you being facetious. "
If you're just going to come on here copy and pasting big words off my profile I'm not going to talk to you. |
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"Personally I rarely wear shirt because I spend my working hours encased
in safety gear and what the hell, they are just human bodies and peoples opinions... I m also barefoot most of time... All these rukes and opinions as to how people should be... BE YOURSELF?? Dont be a sheep lol"
Barefoot at work? I worry for your toes |
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its not snobby.. it's a matter of inflicting your semi naked body on me.. whether I want it or not.
I'm not squeamish. It's a matter of respect. I grew up in hot countries, they didn't feel the need to get naked all the time infront of others. In Spain the Guardia will ask you to put a shirt on if you're not on the beachfront.. I agree with that law. |
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"its not snobby.. it's a matter of inflicting your semi naked body on me.. whether I want it or not.
I'm not squeamish. It's a matter of respect. I grew up in hot countries, they didn't feel the need to get naked all the time infront of others. In Spain the Guardia will ask you to put a shirt on if you're not on the beachfront.. I agree with that law. "
But in the Uk it's perfectly legal. The law's the law dude - if you and your kids don't like, don't look or go elsewhere |
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"its not snobby.. it's a matter of inflicting your semi naked body on me.. whether I want it or not.
I'm not squeamish. It's a matter of respect. I grew up in hot countries, they didn't feel the need to get naked all the time infront of others. In Spain the Guardia will ask you to put a shirt on if you're not on the beachfront.. I agree with that law.
But in the Uk it's perfectly legal. The law's the law dude - if you and your kids don't like, don't look or go elsewhere "
Not once in all the holidays have I been on not one Spanish policeman has asked a tourist to put their top on. Stop talking absolute bubbles |
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"Some right snobby wankers in this. "
You’ve hit the nail on the head there, go and treat yourself to a beer, if I was closer I’d deffo go the bar for you |
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"If you’re on the beach or in the park then I think it’s fine, especially in this weather. However I think it’s inappropriate in shops/towns/eateries."
Though I would love to see sweaty fit body in public, this is my preferred answer. |
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"Err... You know women are the same species as you, right? "
Really??? Thanks for clearing that up for me
I’m a representative of a pissed up chavvy wanker according to some on here so how I would I know that we are both the same species |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op
Indeed I had walked 200 along a street priorIf id seen you in the park i wouldnt of thought anything of it. If id seen you in the street i would of thought you looked like a chavvy pissed up football supporter"
I agree with you too. |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? "
I would say yes to this as well, they look awful. |
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"Personally I rarely wear shirt because I spend my working hours encased
in safety gear and what the hell, they are just human bodies and peoples opinions... I m also barefoot most of time... All these rukes and opinions as to how people should be... BE YOURSELF?? Dont be a sheep lol
Barefoot at work? I worry for your toes"
Not at work, but once work is done I wanna catch some fresh air to my body.. |
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"its not snobby.. it's a matter of inflicting your semi naked body on me.. whether I want it or not.
I'm not squeamish. It's a matter of respect. I grew up in hot countries, they didn't feel the need to get naked all the time infront of others. In Spain the Guardia will ask you to put a shirt on if you're not on the beachfront.. I agree with that law.
But in the Uk it's perfectly legal. The law's the law dude - if you and your kids don't like, don't look or go elsewhere
Not once in all the holidays have I been on not one Spanish policeman has asked a tourist to put their top on. Stop talking absolute bubbles "
Maybe you haven’t experienced that but it’s certainly not “bubbles”.
I was in Spain the year before last and I saw a police officer asking a group of three guys to put tops on. Maybe it depends on the area you visit. |
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"So what do people think when girls are walking around in bikinis tops? Shorts so tight and small that even Stevie Wonder could lip read, thongs hanging out, side boobs, see through items of clothing..... Should they cover up ? why not start a thread asking. This thread wasnt about any of those things
It’s just putting the shoe on another foot, its the same type of scenario just suited for females
(God forbid we ever say anything about the female species) and because I’m not so judgemental to be worried about what other people wear, eat, say, or do with their lives.
If they don’t steal, hurt children, women or old people then why should we care?
the op asked if it was a good look or not and people have answered accordingly. Have no idea why your getting your knickers in a twist your not even the op
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I don’t wear knickers on Saturdays, but could somebody please do enlighten me the difference between a man with a top off walking down a street, in a park or wherever and a female that has literally less clothing covering her body in the same street, in the same park, or wherever? Is she a pissed Chevy, football hooligan type wanker as some have put in here? |
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People own their own body and should largely be afforded the respect that reflects that freedom. We have a somewhat regressive society that is over rigid in its expectations. I'd like people to be healthy in their mind and body, without such upright reactions to people being semi or fully naked. Our continental friends are often more free and relaxed - we should not be permitted to consider leaving the EU until we shed much of our body stuffiness.
Whilst private organizations can make their own rules, unless there is real risk to health, I'd appreciate them letting people appear as they wish to.
Not everyone lives by the coast, so inland spots such as the Op's area, should cultivate a beach-like freedom for people.
I've seen some lovely sights this week and let people know that I approve  |
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Just as a poibt of interest, in my younger days in Bradford there was a violent football gang called the ointment gang, known for carrying stanley knives and wearing... MAROON SUITS AND COLLARED SHIRTS, etc.. Never judge a book by its cover. I hate football, obscene money etc... Also I believe when gocernment cracked down on football hooliganism they found many were smartly dressed organised accountants, stockbrokers etc bored with their straivht life.. Just saying heehee |
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Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking! |
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"its not snobby.. it's a matter of inflicting your semi naked body on me.. whether I want it or not.
I'm not squeamish. It's a matter of respect. I grew up in hot countries, they didn't feel the need to get naked all the time infront of others. In Spain the Guardia will ask you to put a shirt on if you're not on the beachfront.. I agree with that law.
But in the Uk it's perfectly legal. The law's the law dude - if you and your kids don't like, don't look or go elsewhere
Not once in all the holidays have I been on not one Spanish policeman has asked a tourist to put their top on. Stop talking absolute bubbles "
I lived there 10yrs.. so I'll go iff my experience.. night your brief bout of bubbles thanks |
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"People own their own body and should largely be afforded the respect that reflects that freedom. We have a somewhat regressive society that is over rigid in its expectations. I'd like people to be healthy in their mind and body, without such upright reactions to people being semi or fully naked. Our continental friends are often more free and relaxed - we should not be permitted to consider leaving the EU until we shed much of our body stuffiness.
Whilst private organizations can make their own rules, unless there is real risk to health, I'd appreciate them letting people appear as they wish to.
Not everyone lives by the coast, so inland spots such as the Op's area, should cultivate a beach-like freedom for people.
I've seen some lovely sights this week and let people know that I approve "
Lots of the Mediterranean countries aren't fans of tourists wandering round with shirts off like they do here.
Whether that's regressive or not depends on who you talk to and their reasoning.
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"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking! "
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking! "
Agreed! I'm not quite sure why it would bother people anyway, am I missing something? |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
It doesn't bother me but unless at the beach or maybe sunbathing in a park or something it does look very tacky, and yes I realise that's coming from someone with a topless avatar at the moment. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?"
You have the freedom to dress that way, however I wouldn't think it appropriate in shops, pubs etc |
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"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking!
Agreed! I'm not quite sure why it would bother people anyway, am I missing something? "
I perfectly understand the perspective that some would find it inappropriate, I think circumstance and repercussions should be considered
However , throwing prejudgemental insults , name calling , chav (whatever that is ) Terry tryhard , douche bag
Really?
I'm sure there are indeed some valid social respect reasons that could be articulated as a reason for not approving , but assigning a pre judged character type and not then approving of that kind of person is lame and somewhat narrow minded
I'm not a chav, supporter of any football, a Terry tryhard, or a douche bag I do however sometimes walk amongst other humans without my top
So far no major incidents have occurred, although children are fascinated by my nipple ring
I perfectly understand some have issues , I'm not yet convinced that their minority view is not actually a poor reflection upon them and their acceptance of others |
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"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking!
Agreed! I'm not quite sure why it would bother people anyway, am I missing something?
I perfectly understand the perspective that some would find it inappropriate, I think circumstance and repercussions should be considered
However , throwing prejudgemental insults , name calling , chav (whatever that is ) Terry tryhard , douche bag
Really?
I'm sure there are indeed some valid social respect reasons that could be articulated as a reason for not approving , but assigning a pre judged character type and not then approving of that kind of person is lame and somewhat narrow minded
I'm not a chav, supporter of any football, a Terry tryhard, or a douche bag I do however sometimes walk amongst other humans without my top
So far no major incidents have occurred, although children are fascinated by my nipple ring
I perfectly understand some have issues , I'm not yet convinced that their minority view is not actually a poor reflection upon them and their acceptance of others "
I'd rather my kids see a bloke with his top off in town than having to hear people swearing their heads off, which is far more common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking!
Agreed! I'm not quite sure why it would bother people anyway, am I missing something?
I perfectly understand the perspective that some would find it inappropriate, I think circumstance and repercussions should be considered
However , throwing prejudgemental insults , name calling , chav (whatever that is ) Terry tryhard , douche bag
Really?
I'm sure there are indeed some valid social respect reasons that could be articulated as a reason for not approving , but assigning a pre judged character type and not then approving of that kind of person is lame and somewhat narrow minded
I'm not a chav, supporter of any football, a Terry tryhard, or a douche bag I do however sometimes walk amongst other humans without my top
So far no major incidents have occurred, although children are fascinated by my nipple ring
I perfectly understand some have issues , I'm not yet convinced that their minority view is not actually a poor reflection upon them and their acceptance of others "
People have given their thoughts. The sight of a topless man conjures up thoughts of chavs or football hooligans. It's just what the sight reminds them of.
Much as the sight of a boat might remind you of a holiday as a kid. Or the sight of a skinhead man with a teardrop tattoo on his face might remind you of a primary school teacher. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I wouldn't do it myself so no.
Would I look yes but that's only because you have the body to carry if off. My son would probably say mummy he looks strong and at that I would smile.
Jelly bellies that's a different matter all together. Xx |
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"So to be clear
Iv just walked 400 m across a public park wearing only my shorts , barefoot
And you are suggesting
I was inappropriate and would give the look of a hooligan ?Thats not the impression the op gave. It gave the impression you where walking round the streets like it. Should of given full information in op"
Agreed in the original post mentioned not respecting shops or indoor spaces giving the impression he was out in town topless.
I personally think it should be reserved for the beach, and I always assumed people were topless on the beach so they could go in and out of the sea. |
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"I wouldn't do it myself so no.
Would I look yes but that's only because you have the body to carry if off. My son would probably say mummy he looks strong and at that I would smile.
Jelly bellies that's a different matter all together. Xx"
Genuinely, if I upset children there would be no way I would , however my personal reality mirrors the reaction of your child, , not the words so much but the look of fascination , and I love children to be fascinated rather than judgemental or frightened
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wear what the bloody hell you like, as long as you aren't baring anything you actually shouldn't be. I don't consider other people's opinions when I get dressed in the morning, neither should others consider mine. I would be quite happy to see you topless OP and if I wasn't, I would ignore and carry on with my day. Besides , it's bloody baking!
Agreed! I'm not quite sure why it would bother people anyway, am I missing something?
I perfectly understand the perspective that some would find it inappropriate, I think circumstance and repercussions should be considered
However , throwing prejudgemental insults , name calling , chav (whatever that is ) Terry tryhard , douche bag
Really?
I'm sure there are indeed some valid social respect reasons that could be articulated as a reason for not approving , but assigning a pre judged character type and not then approving of that kind of person is lame and somewhat narrow minded
I'm not a chav, supporter of any football, a Terry tryhard, or a douche bag I do however sometimes walk amongst other humans without my top
So far no major incidents have occurred, although children are fascinated by my nipple ring
I perfectly understand some have issues , I'm not yet convinced that their minority view is not actually a poor reflection upon them and their acceptance of others
I'd rather my kids see a bloke with his top off in town than having to hear people swearing their heads off, which is far more common."
I tell people to watch their language. I expected more confrontations when first started.. but people back down.. they go to start, then realise my kids are beside me and think better of it. Teens, middleaged, old, man, woman.. I don't care. Even had a yummy mummy come and thank me for shutting all the scooter kids up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are fit, good for you. Your confidence and physic will impress some and intimate others. The sad thing is how obese people are made to feel about themselves. If a fit guy pops off his top off it is because he can and will have no problem with all eyes on him. But I wouldn't subject people to my body without their consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh, I couldn't care less.
Yes, guys that wander around town with their shirts off look like posers, but I'm not offended by it.
Far more to worry about than a bit of skin on show...  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I wish more men would feel confident enough in themselves to take their top off in the hot weather, whatever their shape or size. It's a sensitive sort that can't handle looking at a bit of a beer belly I reckon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It has been suggested that in this heat men should not be topless , regardless of their figure as it's not a good look
Good look or not , I have been out topless today , granted iv usually, not always, respected shops,pubs , indoor spaces.
So is it a good look , does that matter if comfortable?"
To be fair if the men on this thread had a body like yours they would be topless too.
I think it's a good look and shows off the hard work you've put in. Agreed about putting a top on to go in shops etc.
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