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why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that |
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"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"
may be they very very choosy lol
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"Maybe they dont use the site regularly
Maybe they are limited when they can meet
Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet
All kinds of reasons"
Maybe they are building up the courage
Maybe they just want to cam
Maybe they have met
Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account
Who knows...its none of my buisness |
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over a year ago
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I don't put verifications on as it's my business who I have met so it may look like that, having been on over a year, that I haven't met anyone.
Some people like to let the world know who they have met and some of us like more discretion
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"Maybe they dont use the site regularly
Maybe they are limited when they can meet
Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet
All kinds of reasons
Maybe they are building up the courage
Maybe they just want to cam
Maybe they have met
Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account
Who knows...its none of my buisness"
or.....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,
or....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,
or perhaps....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl  |
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"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"
There are a lot of things people do on here which I don't understand, like:
*Being asked if you are up for a 3some tonight, replying it might be possible to arrange it for another night and then being blocked.
*Being asked if you will accept a friends request, replying yes but after a chat only to find you are blocked.
*Being blocked for typing too short a reply to a short message.
*People who start a new account every day.... for an hour max.
*People who start a new account just to send you the same cut and paste you ignored 3 days before.
*People who join a swinging site yet think swinging is wrong.
*People who are tripping over themselves to start a couples account with damn near anyone who asks.
But your question isn't one of the ones I wonder about.
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Lots of people are fantasist thy get off on having a profile and having loads of pics but arn't actually swingers...it's also the same with clubs now it's become trendy and loads go just to pose all night but never swing |
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over a year ago
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We have been on here years and haven't arranged any meets on here.
We have met quite a few people from the site on our travels and have had some good times.
I suppose for us, it's about getting out there and having fun |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe they dont use the site regularly
Maybe they are limited when they can meet
Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet
All kinds of reasons"
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over a year ago
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"maybe just here looking at pics xx
You judging from experience some do i am sure just look and dream ... ok wank , lol 
Some don't look and still wank lol"
i know but some take months and then one day think about having sex , lol |
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"Maybe they dont use the site regularly
Maybe they are limited when they can meet
Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet
All kinds of reasons
Maybe they are building up the courage
Maybe they just want to cam
Maybe they have met
Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account
Who knows...its none of my buisness
or.....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,
or....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,
or perhaps....
Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl "
which is obvious when u try to call them, its not exactly the biggest problem going |
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over a year ago
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We haven't met anyone yet because
we haven't had that much luck, found a lot of timewasters who start getting to know us but then disappear.
From what others have said, we are verified but as we dont get much time together and 90% of time we are at Rachies (no privacy) bit hard to pop on cam.
Plus not done much recently due to health issues and waiting for results on 18th. |
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"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"
Your writing skills and ability to string together anything that resembles a sentence are both impeccable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had been around the block a few times, been and gone etc. Verifications no longer mean a lot. Friends list, I know who they are, no need for a list.
Nice profile, Nice pic, nice location, respectful = meets |
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over a year ago
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A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.
Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets. |
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"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.
Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets."
Very slow to respond to messages??  |
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"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.
Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets."
this is exactly how it is, if you have a good sexy open profile and come accross well and contact the right people you should still get a meet fast.
i got sorted on my first week, and always get told how im different from most the people that message them
its always funny when i get other couples show me the messages they get, ive been sat round one couples house who wanted to sort a gang bang out for his mrs, took a week and were still looking on the night when i turned up as the only single guy,
and every bloke that messaged ruined it for them within a few messages or as soon as they got the phone number - making all sorts of demands or assumptions etc. was quite funny coz they would of took anyone normal to come down but guys were insisting his mrs did all sorts of things, got dressed in all sorts of dirty clothes or they wouldnt come! wanted her hubby to just watch, making demands of stuff they going to do her, was funny how rude and arrogant some of them were
when all they wanted was a few normal single guys to come over, have a chat and a drink and then get down to some naughty fun at the end of the night. and i think his mrs went upstairs and made sure she got dressed up to the max just coz they insisted so she knocked them back and did it anyways to proove a point i think haha
was a fun night,
but yeah too many guys i think ruin it with either their messages or just have a profile which could be anyone! and people arnt looking for just anyone they want the best times they can have on here! |
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"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.
Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets.
Very slow to respond to messages?? "
Sorry, don't understand that reply. |
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over a year ago
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" Suppose some of it is down to luck. It was months before I had a meet, that's how it goes though, no problem!"
you only have your cock on display mate, i never read your profile, but i can imagine thats the reason why you took so long to get a meet - people wanna see whats attached to it (and they dont mean that lady and her lips lol!) |
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" Suppose some of it is down to luck. It was months before I had a meet, that's how it goes though, no problem!
you only have your cock on display mate, i never read your profile, but i can imagine thats the reason why you took so long to get a meet - people wanna see whats attached to it (and they dont mean that lady and her lips lol!)"
Fair comment mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps they have had meets and verifications but they have since left ? The verification disappears with them.
Ive had three of my verifications disappear with people leaving. People move on or get pissed off with this place. |
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"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"
Well, for me it's simply that this is my second profile, my first was as part of a couple and from that we did meet, I stuck around for the forums, not particularly looking for a meet, but hey I'm open to suggestions 
Also, let me add, a profile not verified doesn't always mean no meets have been had, some just like to keep things a little more discreet. |
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