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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's brilliant, I love it! Had messages and chats with people I see on the forums all the time but had no real contact with plus a lot of people I don't know at all. I think it's just what the forums need right now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's brilliant, I love it! Had messages and chats with people I see on the forums all the time but had no real contact with plus a lot of people I don't know at all. I think it's just what the forums need right now. "
I only saw the last couple but seems good fun |
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
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"It's brilliant, I love it! Had messages and chats with people I see on the forums all the time but had no real contact with plus a lot of people I don't know at all. I think it's just what the forums need right now. "
Exactly this. I've a couple of tiny chats but that's sometimes all that's needed. It's a good icebreaker where before the message would have probably been bulk deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's brilliant, I love it! Had messages and chats with people I see on the forums all the time but had no real contact with plus a lot of people I don't know at all. I think it's just what the forums need right now.
I only saw the last couple but seems good fun "
Its been a great way for people to get involved and interact with each other, it's very inclusive. On threads of a similar style it's only a very few number of people that seem to get messages but this seems to be across the board so can only be a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?   "
That's the great thing, no it doesn't appear so. Most of mine came from people iv had no or very little interaction with and iv tryed to do the same.
The few threads iv been involved in almost everyone that has said they are in is posting a message. |
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Is it becoming a new "clique "? "
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
That's the great thing, no it doesn't appear so. Most of mine came from people iv had no or very little interaction with and iv tryed to do the same.
The few threads iv been involved in almost everyone that has said they are in is posting a message. "
same mostly lurkers and stuff some wild questions too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything."
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one. "
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything."
Ask a question to someone and they'll probably ask you one back. X |
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved. "
Yeah I have asked, and it stops there. |
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved. "
I did say becoming
As was said ... there seems to be a small group of usual suspects on them and I fancy there are a fair few messages that get sent but people are selective in answering
I agree .. it's not there yet ... but there's a growing trend to it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved.
Yeah I have asked, and it stops there."
Its human nature to notice the people you recognise first so the more you get involved the more you get noticed. Keep at it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved.
I did say becoming
As was said ... there seems to be a small group of usual suspects on them and I fancy there are a fair few messages that get sent but people are selective in answering
I agree .. it's not there yet ... but there's a growing trend to it ..."
Whilst I agree to a certain extent let's not turn somthing fairly positive into a negative. |
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Yeah agree.
It is a fun thread though. Just hope it doesn't become a clique."
Sorry I removed the one your replied to ... spell corrected
Also agree ... it is fun to drift in and out of
Equally ... it's like thre rest of fab ... put the effort in and reap the rewards |
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"Is it becoming a new "clique "?
I don't think so just yet but I have noticed a trend where it's all the same people who are answering questions. I had a few sent initially but they've dried up and the same ones are answering all the time. So maybe it might become that way. I've said I'm in in the past 10 threads and not had anything.
Oh that's a shame. Just keep saying you are in until you get one.
Also make sure you are sending them too, that's a better way of getting involved.
I did say becoming
As was said ... there seems to be a small group of usual suspects on them and I fancy there are a fair few messages that get sent but people are selective in answering
I agree .. it's not there yet ... but there's a growing trend to it ...
Whilst I agree to a certain extent let's not turn somthing fairly positive into a negative. "
Don't get me wrong .. I'm not ... as I say .. drift in and out of it myself |
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
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"Dare I say though, it does seem to be the single ladies getting the most of the questions. Have some of the guys picked up on a possibility of a foot in the door in the hopes of...."
He says and just got 2 questions in the last minute...can't make it up haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I say though, it does seem to be the single ladies getting the most of the questions. Have some of the guys picked up on a possibility of a foot in the door in the hopes of...."
Oh of course and I don't get as many as I'm part of a couple and not meeting but if that is the case it's nessasery a bad thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I say though, it does seem to be the single ladies getting the most of the questions. Have some of the guys picked up on a possibility of a foot in the door in the hopes of....
He says and just got 2 questions in the last minute...can't make it up haha"
See there ya go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I say though, it does seem to be the single ladies getting the most of the questions. Have some of the guys picked up on a possibility of a foot in the door in the hopes of...."
Yes, of course! We've had a few that assumed it was Dotty replying and some unsolicited pictures.
I guess it's just part of being on fab really, of course the singles get more attention, that's how the forums are at the moment.
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Dare I say though, it does seem to be the single ladies getting the most of the questions. Have some of the guys picked up on a possibility of a foot in the door in the hopes of....
Yes, of course! We've had a few that assumed it was Dotty replying and some unsolicited pictures.
I guess it's just part of being on fab really, of course the singles get more attention, that's how the forums are at the moment.
Tea"
I never understand why some guys think it's acceptable to send unsolicited pictures. Keep the messages in line with the thread and it could spark that initial interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's quite intense trying to keep up with the messages though, while remembering to send some questions out too! "
i know mad aint it but epic comedy value
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"It's brilliant, I love it! Had messages and chats with people I see on the forums all the time but had no real contact with plus a lot of people I don't know at all. I think it's just what the forums need right now. "
I agree. I've had a great time. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm really slow at responding because I get distracted and then start talking or asking questions but I'm really enjoying it. There have been a few unpleasant pa jibes, one monumental fuck up by me but overall it's been lovely and a great way to talk to people. It's a truth serum of sorts. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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I have to admit I am enjoying it, there seems quite a variety. It’s interesting trying to guess the questions although I’m not sure if there’s a little bit of bollocks going on. It does seem people are willing to give away a fair bit of info though. Interesting |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it "
Yes, I didn't see much of it yesterday but I've noticed a few today that made me wonder
Overall it's been great though, I hope it doesn't get ruined with negativity as some threads do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it "
You can see it happening |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it
Yes, I didn't see much of it yesterday but I've noticed a few today that made me wonder
Overall it's been great though, I hope it doesn't get ruined with negativity as some threads do. "
That’s what I’m hoping for. I haven’t had any negative questions so I’m not really sure why there are negative or personal attacks on there.
Let’s keep it friendly people. It’s fun. Now I’m going back in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easy to see why; you can get an answer to absolutely anything, anonymously, with often hilarious results!
And it's great for getting to know everyone!
Well done Swingy.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it
You can see it happening "
I noticed it yesterday and today. From the other answers and the questions I’m being asked you can sort of tell there’s a difference to certain other people’s answers. On the whole though it’s been a bit of light relief and enjoyable which makes a change |
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I didn't actually start it. Don't know where the guy who did has gone!
I think there is some bs of various sorts going on but am trying to keep my part positive and am refusing to answer anything I feel is over the line |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it
You can see it happening
I noticed it yesterday and today. From the other answers and the questions I’m being asked you can sort of tell there’s a difference to certain other people’s answers. On the whole though it’s been a bit of light relief and enjoyable which makes a change "
battle attacks with humour best way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it
Yes, I didn't see much of it yesterday but I've noticed a few today that made me wonder
Overall it's been great though, I hope it doesn't get ruined with negativity as some threads do.
That’s what I’m hoping for. I haven’t had any negative questions so I’m not really sure why there are negative or personal attacks on there.
Let’s keep it friendly people. It’s fun. Now I’m going back in there "
Yes I was wondering the same.
I think the anonymity of it is open to people using it to settle scores, be negative or have digs but on the whole I see it as a positive and way for more people to interact and get involved. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it
Yes, I didn't see much of it yesterday but I've noticed a few today that made me wonder
Overall it's been great though, I hope it doesn't get ruined with negativity as some threads do.
That’s what I’m hoping for. I haven’t had any negative questions so I’m not really sure why there are negative or personal attacks on there.
Let’s keep it friendly people. It’s fun. Now I’m going back in there
Yes I was wondering the same.
I think the anonymity of it is open to people using it to settle scores, be negative or have digs but on the whole I see it as a positive and way for more people to interact and get involved. "
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"I’m not so convinced that all those questions are being asked. In one or two cases it feels a bit like it’s being used as a way to make personal attacks rather than responding to a question. Just look at the nature of some of the replies yesterday. It’s interesting.
On the whole I’m still really enjoying it "
Agree I’m just reading through some of the older ones and definitely personal digs being aimed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm so oblivious to what's going on possibly far too nieve.
I thought it was just fun but clearly people have used it as a cover to be very negative.
Jo.Xx "
i hadnt seen it either but im far too self obsessed sometimes |
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