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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you guilty of keeping people on the hook?
You know the ones, the "maybe" people where you chat about meeting but it never seems to lead to any actual plans. The ones you say you'll meet "one day".
Does anyone have you hooked? Has anyone tempted you but left you dangling? |
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I sometimes put people off, but it's more like, yes I want to see you again... eventually. It's not so much a game as, I'm spread thin.
I'm generally cagey about it because people get upset when I reveal my priorities. |
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I think were all guilty of this and the vast majority have been on the receiving end too. Question is why. Is it embarrassment by saying sorry not interested or are they a sub, kept on the sidlines just in case |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not on the hook as such - more people that we've both said if the timing is right and we can work something out it would be good to meet.
If a firm plan has been made to meet though then we meet, it might take a bit of time to arrange but it will happen. |
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I’m one of those pesky people who actually meets and so it’s very frustrating when I happen upon a maybe person. I don’t dangle anymore. Meet me in within a certain timeframe or move along 
As for me having someone on a hook... well they have to be caught first. I was always shite at fishing. Too impatient you see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am pretty sure all women do this. "
Btw, I don’t think it’s purely a female trait. I love chatting and flirting with guys and will add them to my hotlist if they meet my expectations. Unfortunately due to job commitments and real life, it may take a while until we meet. If I don’t keep chatting with them in the meantime however, we’d forget each other and that is just plain sad.  |
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"I am pretty sure all women do this.
In my case it's just diary management. It's not a game. "
This is the same for me, I don’t have huge amounts of free time... then real life things come up too. If I’m talking to someone it’s with the intention to meet up but it just takes time |
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For me it’s all down to free time and fitting people into that. Most my meets are in the diary 3-6 weeks before I can see them as normal life has to fit into my kid free time as well.
However, I’m honest up front about it and understand those that don’t or can’t operate like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have someone i met long time ago pop up now and then saying he wants to meet....last time he said he would get back to me when his checked his diary.....but its bull shit and wont meet now anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you guilty of keeping people on the hook?
You know the ones, the "maybe" people where you chat about meeting but it never seems to lead to any actual plans. The ones you say you'll meet "one day".
Does anyone have you hooked? Has anyone tempted you but left you dangling? "
You trying to tell me something here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you guilty of keeping people on the hook?
You know the ones, the "maybe" people where you chat about meeting but it never seems to lead to any actual plans. The ones you say you'll meet "one day".
Does anyone have you hooked? Has anyone tempted you but left you dangling?
You trying to tell me something here "
damn the 45 minute rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you guilty of keeping people on the hook?
You know the ones, the "maybe" people where you chat about meeting but it never seems to lead to any actual plans. The ones you say you'll meet "one day".
Does anyone have you hooked? Has anyone tempted you but left you dangling?
You trying to tell me something here
damn the 45 minute rule "
More like a guideline  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you guilty of keeping people on the hook?
You know the ones, the "maybe" people where you chat about meeting but it never seems to lead to any actual plans. The ones you say you'll meet "one day".
Does anyone have you hooked? Has anyone tempted you but left you dangling?
You trying to tell me something here
damn the 45 minute rule
More like a guideline "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens. Men and women tell me it happens  and people know they’re doing it
I think a certain type of person gets off on doing it "
People with dirty anuses |
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"I am pretty sure all women do this. "
In my past experience they do, usually a better option for them is on their radar so they keep you treading water till they they've established the better option is interested, then they ghost you hard! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am pretty sure all women do this.
In my past experience they do, usually a better option for them is on their radar so they keep you treading water till they they've established the better option is interested, then they ghost you hard!"
You guys know it's not just women who do it right? |
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"I am pretty sure all women do this.
In my past experience they do, usually a better option for them is on their radar so they keep you treading water till they they've established the better option is interested, then they ghost you hard!
You guys know it's not just women who do it right? "
I know, I did it a couple of times in my 20's. Pretty shit when you look back on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am pretty sure all women do this.
In my past experience they do, usually a better option for them is on their radar so they keep you treading water till they they've established the better option is interested, then they ghost you hard!
You guys know it's not just women who do it right? "
Chance'd be a fine thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. If I want to meet I would let them know, no maybes that's to much like game playing. I like people to spit out what they are thinking or feeling.
Be straight
Be direct
Be true |
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