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over a year ago
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"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I? 
I think I mean realisations rather than regrets. "
Oh, yeah! Loads of them!
My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?
I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.
Oh, yeah! Loads of them!
My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later."
I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?
I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.
Oh, yeah! Loads of them!
My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later.
I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained. "
Been there! Gotta put yourself first sometimes lovely  |
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"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?
I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.
Oh, yeah! Loads of them!
My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later.
I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained. "
Some people are really good at being manipulative and you dont realise until it's too late  |
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Putting curry powder in the windscreen vents of my friends new Citroen saxo in 2003 and setting the blower on full blast whilst intoxicated.
If only I’d thought to get out when he turned the key.
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I think regrets are more an alarming realisation of you doing your best and realising you are being taken as a mug. Never regret a good action or deed, lament only what those who took advantage are missing out on. You! There aren't many people who help others these days. I may be off the mark, but that is where i have been driven too this last year. You seem lovely, don't change
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My only regrets in life, revolve around my parents.
Moving so far away, not seeing them as often as I'd liked, them missing out on seeing their grandchildren everyday.
Everything else, lessons learnt & memories made |
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Yo sweetcheeks..
I'm gonna waffle so grab a blanket and a notebook or some shit
Ahem... *clears throat*
Realisations are something you can't foresee at the time (or you wouldn't be realising it afterwards surely)
Ain't a realisation a revelation of sorts, be it good it bad. It doesn't mean you were necessarily wrong (unless you were absolutely wrong in some way, morally, legally etc) it could simply be that at that time, back then, it seemed right.
We only get these realisations over time.. events, circumstances, train of thought, experiences are what causes us to make these discoveries, without the inbetweeny stuff we'd not get to the clarity.
I think what I'm trying to say, is you gotta go through it, to learn from it, whatever it is.
You can't read the front page of a book, the last page of a book and expect to know how the fuck that ending came about, you have to read the story....
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
J x"
Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.
Could be gone tomorrow
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
J x
Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.
Could be gone tomorrow
P"
Yeah, that feeling does occur more frequently the older you become. My mum who is very old now projects her regret on to us and when we answer the phone to her berates us for not being out enjoying ourselves  |
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
J x
Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.
Could be gone tomorrow
P
Yeah, that feeling does occur more frequently the older you become. My mum who is very old now projects her regret on to us and when we answer the phone to her berates us for not being out enjoying ourselves "
You'd probably be in bigger trouble if you didn't answer because you WERE out enjoying yourself
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Not regrets! Just rather not have gone through certain things. Just wished I noticed my daddies pain when I was younger! Then maybe he wouldn't of died to suicide. But we do grow from we go through.  |
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
J x
Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.
Could be gone tomorrow
P"
This is so true you never know when your ticket is up.
Me and my wife only started swinging after we got married earlier this year. We are both highly sexed, kinky little devil's who can achieve way more naughtiness together than we ever could alone.
The main argument for swinging and giving it a go was we both would hated to think we would be on our death beds years later thinking I really wish we.... If only we went to that swinging club...
It was that thinking that made our minds up. We are soul mates from day 1 but 4 months later and lots of swinging experiences under our belts we can both say it's been amazing and has made us as a couple even stronger! X
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I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!
J x
Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.
Could be gone tomorrow
P
This is so true you never know when your ticket is up.
Me and my wife only started swinging after we got married earlier this year. We are both highly sexed, kinky little devil's who can achieve way more naughtiness together than we ever could alone.
The main argument for swinging and giving it a go was we both would hated to think we would be on our death beds years later thinking I really wish we.... If only we went to that swinging club...
It was that thinking that made our minds up. We are soul mates from day 1 but 4 months later and lots of swinging experiences under our belts we can both say it's been amazing and has made us as a couple even stronger! X
J K x"
I love that! Long may your happiness continue
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have more so what I like to call "Missed opportunities". I'll regret words I should of said, actions not taken and stuff I could of done but couldn't be arsed.
If I had to be 100% honest my 1 overwhelming regret will be letting my easy, soft going nature and outlook on life being taken advantage of so many times cos its seen as a weekness. Sadly though I wouldn't want to change how I look at life, as I'd probably regret being a cunt too so I guess no win..
My opinion is, if you can't time hop and change whatever the regret is then leave it where it belongs in the past and concentrate on what you do have in the here and now, stuff you have control of how you deal with it.
Over thinking things you can't alter will Defo eat you up inside and out. Plus, positive actions throughout life will always balance up what you didn't do.
Human nature always picks out the negative (regrets) always before the good, fact so just chill, let the positive chakra flow and you won't regret a single moment.
Budah waddy has waffled on way to much it appears. I'm blaming the Gin and Juice, oooh I'll regret this in the morning.... |
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regret making certain decisions in my past but realise that without that path being travelled wouldn't be where I am today
Also regret all that beer yesterday as now head is hurty |
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"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!
I was enjoying that too. 
Jo.Xx "
Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet? |
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"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!
I was enjoying that too.
Jo.Xx
Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet? "
the warm burning sensation |
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"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!
I was enjoying that too.
Jo.Xx
Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet? "
It was a cracking cuppa.
Funnily enough the soggy slipper feeling wasn't great.
Jo.Xx |
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"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!
I was enjoying that too.
Jo.Xx
Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet?
It was a cracking cuppa.
Funnily enough the soggy slipper feeling wasn't great.
Jo.Xx "
Not surprised!! x |
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Regret not telling someone how I really felt and hate it when my stomach knots when I see them.
But I have another life now and I enjoy it but yeah that's my one regret.
All the other decisions I live with and don't regret  |
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"regret making certain decisions in my past but realise that without that path being travelled wouldn't be where I am today
Also regret all that beer yesterday as now head is hurty "
Completely agree. Last year was not a good time for me and I was not in a good place. Thankfully now I can look back and although I have regrets, I am in a better place now and have learnt so much. Because of that I’m a massive advocate of male mental health awareness and removing the taboo now. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yo sweetcheeks..
I'm gonna waffle so grab a blanket and a notebook or some shit
Ahem... *clears throat*
Realisations are something you can't foresee at the time (or you wouldn't be realising it afterwards surely)
Ain't a realisation a revelation of sorts, be it good it bad. It doesn't mean you were necessarily wrong (unless you were absolutely wrong in some way, morally, legally etc) it could simply be that at that time, back then, it seemed right.
We only get these realisations over time.. events, circumstances, train of thought, experiences are what causes us to make these discoveries, without the inbetweeny stuff we'd not get to the clarity.
I think what I'm trying to say, is you gotta go through it, to learn from it, whatever it is.
You can't read the front page of a book, the last page of a book and expect to know how the fuck that ending came about, you have to read the story....
P"
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"No I don’t have any regrets. I had what I would refer to as a ‘close call’ once upon a time but luckily common sense prevailed and all is good in the world "
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I try not to have any but inevitably there are some things I’ve done that I’m not the most proud of. They’re less regrets and more leaning curves. "
That is a really positive way of looking at it  |
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I don't wish to change my past as that would mean I possibly wouldn't be me or have what I have now and I'm happy with me right now
Having said that hined sight has made me look at things and thought maybe should of done that differently but they are life lessons.
But....
I do regret not putting sun screen on my chest yesterday little bit of sun burnt cleavage today
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Loads of regrets, I can't do nothing about most of them. So I don't think about them. Joining Fab is one of them, spent a fortune in site supporter passes and I haven't got anything to show for it, but I'm pretty addicted now. |
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Never have regrets as the choices you made at the time you thought were right, so it’s a pointless thing to do..
But, if I had known how much I love to wear lingerie etc, I most certainly would have been a trans person years ago., but then if I had, I wouldn’t have my family...
So you see you can’t regret your choices |
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"The only regret i have is selling my house and coming off the property ladder.
I did it for good reasons, but i think i rushed into it.
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Get back on board hun, renting is just throwing money away |
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over a year ago
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"The only regret i have is selling my house and coming off the property ladder.
I did it for good reasons, but i think i rushed into it.
Get back on board hun, renting is just throwing money away"
Can’t afford to . We moved in with my mum as her mobility is poor and she needs day to day help around the home, and i now only work part time and earn a lot, lot less than when i took the mortgage out (and had bambinos etc).
In hindsight i could have rented mine out, but meh. It is what it is. |
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I honestly don't think I do. I'm a firm believer in all experiences being a chance to learn something about yourself. If I fuck up I have to accept that, take responsibility and apologise if an apology is needed, but ultimately I a who I am based on everything that has come before. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't think I do. I'm a firm believer in all experiences being a chance to learn something about yourself. If I fuck up I have to accept that, take responsibility and apologise if an apology is needed, but ultimately I a who I am based on everything that has come before. "
I like this a lot. I do try and own my fuck ups and apologise. I'm human and still learning. |
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