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If I had to choose I would say when, and 6 months before I would borrow a shite load of money max everything out and spend the next 6 months having a blast 
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"Definitely when!
If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions! 
Isn’t it too late for that! Lol
(Runs for cover)
Oh God... you didn't!!!! 
I think I know when OP will die."
Yes, my life expectancy just got shorter! |
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"And why did you choose that answer?
Would it make a difference?"
I could better prepare my kids for the inevitable so it isnt as hard for them to deal with when it happens & so I could know that they will be ok |
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"If I had to choose I would say when, and 6 months before I would borrow a shite load of money max everything out and spend the next 6 months having a blast
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Don’t want to sound morbid but let’s say it was a 2 year battle for your life with an awful cuntish illness. Those plans go out the window.
Think HOW is the way to go here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely when!
If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!
Isn’t it too late for that! Lol
(Runs for cover)
Oh God... you didn't!!!!
I think I know when OP will die.
Yes, my life expectancy just got shorter! "
Shorter! it is literally hanging by a thread 
For me, I have already booked my last birthday party, would be nice to know when just to confirm I will be there, dont really care how. |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"Neither me thinks, live each day as it comes.
Why are you in such a thoughtful mood today OP?
Quick someone put up a cheery daft post to compensate....
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My daughter was asked this question by a little boy she was babysitting the other day. I thought it was a good question! |
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"Neither me thinks, live each day as it comes.
Why are you in such a thoughtful mood today OP?
Quick someone put up a cheery daft post to compensate....
My daughter was asked this question by a little boy she was babysitting the other day. I thought it was a good question! "
Yes, kids go through the death thing, not a criticism, just something I don't wish to focus on I suppose, I'm in a good place right now and don't wish to see the end too abruptly! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Hmmm...I started off thinking "when" so I could prepare for it or even wrap myself in cotton wool for the day and avoid it completely but some of the "hows" mentioned have made sense too...
...on balance though think I'll stick with "when" even if avoidance isn't possible I could at least prepare for it |
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How !
When for me is a worst prospect.
The strain and stress you would feel as you approach that day would make it hard to be yourself and happy around friends & family. I’d like to leave them with good memories rather than worried ones |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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When, so that I can make sure I get to see and do as many things and people as possible. Also get all my financial stuff in order so that whoever has to sort it out doesn’t have too much of a nightmare. I’d find homes for my pets too.
My friend has a key to my house and she’s under strict instructions to clear out certain drawers and boxes in my bedroom if anything happens to me. I’d be able to do it myself if I knew when |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here’s a cheery question for you!
If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?
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Already know how...as for the when within 18months is experts best guess.
Gonna find out the answers to all those unanswered questions such as: Harp, Pitchfork or bugger all  |
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"When, so that I can make sure I get to see and do as many things and people as possible. Also get all my financial stuff in order so that whoever has to sort it out doesn’t have too much of a nightmare. I’d find homes for my pets too.
My friend has a key to my house and she’s under strict instructions to clear out certain drawers and boxes in my bedroom if anything happens to me. I’d be able to do it myself if I knew when "
Why worry SJ...you wont be around to be worried by what people think or say lol |
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"Here’s a cheery question for you!
If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?
Already know how...as for the when within 18months is experts best guess.
Gonna find out the answers to all those unanswered questions such as: Harp, Pitchfork or bugger all "
God bless you fella ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Neither.
Lifes for living, not for worrying about when or how it might end.
Yesterday has gone. Tomorrow will always be just a dream.
Today is where we always live. |
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Definitely when
I would like to be organised before I die and would arrange my own funeral with some humour added to it.
I would prepare my children and have things in place to support them when am gone.
Then I would have a celebration of life party before I die and invite everyone I know so there are recent happy memories for people. |
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I think I'm quite sad, I have started a 'death box' for my executor.
What bank accounts, utilities etc, insurances, digital site passwords etc, anything I think they might need.
Just trying to be organised, and see that my wishes are done correctly. |
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"Neither, I want fate to surprise me. "
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Also this...God if I knew half the things that I have been through or am still to go through , I wouldn't get out of bed lol....as for planning for your kids etc, we should all do that anyhow...because the only thing that is 100% certain in this life is that we are all gunna die....we should try to make the most of the "dash" between our birth date and the one that follows! |
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I think I already know what might kill me so I'd like to know when. If it's going to be soon, then the gardening, housework and decorating can fuck off, I'm going to party instead! |
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"I think I already know what might kill me so I'd like to know when. If it's going to be soon, then the gardening, housework and decorating can fuck off, I'm going to party instead! "
With you there Dana...I do know whats going to kill me not exactly sure when but lets just say the next 18months are going to be one long party
As for the rest I like gardens but dont do gardening, I pay someone to do the housework twice a week and the only decorating I'm likely to do is put up a tree and xmas decs |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Here’s a cheery question for you!
If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?
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How.
That way i may have a chance to evoid it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How.. If you know when then the st ress levels will rise the closer it gets.. How, leaves one with no concept of time.. Could happen tomorrow, in a year.. Me personally I would see it as no different to the fact that one day I will die, as we all will  |
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