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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into. "
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "
I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world |
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "
The emergence scene in alien is tame by comparison |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "
Nah it really isn’t
It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "
The out come is the actual birth is pretty messy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most
beautiful thing in the world
Visually it’s not nice? But ultimately the outcome is the best thing In the world
Nah it really isn’t
It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch"
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "
Not something I’d personally care to try but you girls do make a fuss. I’m sure it stings a bit but what’s with all the noise? My wife screamed and screamed - and that was just during the conception! |
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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago
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It's a very subjective term. You'll always get some people who find offensive and others who are indifferent and some who like it. Another term that creates similar reactions is "yummy mummy". I know some ladies love it, some hate it. You'll always have a divide on these and other terms for both men and women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "
Is it fuck. Hubby watched my c-section and described it as brutal and horrific. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most
beautiful thing in the world
Visually it’s not nice? But ultimately the outcome is the best thing In the world
Nah it really isn’t
It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch"
Yes, the outcome is the best thing in the world. Which is why to me, it seems weird to fetishise women because of it.
But I’m not ‘offended’ or ‘upset’ or whatever (I said yes above to drill my point home) and I’ve been called far worse, and will be called far worse. Just seems odd to fetishise women. It’s the same for men who want to meet older women purely because they’re older women....it’s just weird to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t think you upset anyone !
And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.
What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty
I have seen child birth and it’s the most
beautiful thing in the world
Is it fuck. Hubby watched my c-section and
described it as brutal and horrific."
C section is different definitely by far |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a very subjective term. You'll always get some people who find offensive and others who are indifferent and some who like it. Another term that creates similar reactions is "yummy mummy". I know some ladies love it, some hate it. You'll always have a divide on these and other terms for both men and women."
‘Yummy mummy’ is for single mums on Facebook who don’t work; ‘works at being a yummy mummy’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? ...i am a milf ...also a gilf xx n proud of it xxTxx"
And you are absolutely stunning xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel major indifference about most labels bandied about to be honest. People are usually pretty enthusiastic in their love of said category of person so carry on. Expect to be met with blank stares if you use them on me though ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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It doesn't upset me but I do find it derogatory to be referred to by an acronym which lumps me together with huge numbers of other women. I like to be considered as an individual by other people, especially if I'm likely to get naked with them. I know lots of women don't mind so I just use it as a bit of a filter. |
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All titles like that are a subtle means of objectification, many people don’t know or understand what that is but it’s real and it’s a method of keeping people (mostly women) as disposable objects of desire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? "
I just think it's a bit sad that people feel the need to use acronyms when they could engage in conversation ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess it works if you think putting guys in a box with the label dilf, or any other similar stereotype works.
People are just people, but no it doesnt really bother me much. Other things in life are far more important. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? "
I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.
Yeah, I don’t like it much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory?
I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.
Yeah, I don’t like it much."
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory?
I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.
Yeah, I don’t like it much.
You want my swimmers?
They’re primed and ready to do their duty "
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"I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on?
You are really stunning xx "
How do you know I havent got a face like a slapped arse? ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on?
You are really stunning xx
How do you know I havent got a face like a slapped arse? "
No definitely not, but even if you did your body is sexy |
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