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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone ever met anyone here on the forums, become friends and met up on many occasions?
Apart from meeting some friends I've chat to on forums at a social last year and a lovely lady at a club long ago, I've hardly met anyone else from the forums
Posting on certain threads made for people who want to make friends and meet up is like trying to send a good first message. They either go unnoticed or that I'm just not anyone's type. |
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I've met some people from the forums. Most, we were at the same party/ event. Otherwise it was a case of messages (enhanced by forum interaction). There are others I'd very much like to meet based on the sense I get of them over time.
I've never posted here as a way to meet people, but it's turned out that way and I'm glad, because there are some great people here. |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve meet a fair few at the mls.
Saffron is one if my besties who I spend loads of time with.
It is a shame when it goes wrong with someone from the forums.
I might have a cheeky forum meet later  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a great idea. Likeminded people to have a laugh with. Just because I’m on this site, doesn’t mean I want to fuck everyone. Some make me feel, oh I’d love to know you better on a platonic level. |
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We met one, he's since disappeared, nothing to do with us I stress!
Talk to a few more on and off the forums, it seems to be a great way of learning a little more about someone before diving in so to speak.
Good luck OP, your time will come I'm sure.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it’s a great idea. Likeminded people to have a laugh with. Just because I’m on this site, doesn’t mean I want to fuck everyone. Some make me feel, oh I’d love to know you better on a platonic level."
I agree. It's a shame that no one I don't know wants to get to know me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a few over the years and even had sex with some. Not like me at all!
Some I still have my eye on too.
The issue I have is most of the people I'd most like to meet are quite far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of my meets have been via the forums, I’m still friends off fabs with a couple of them.
When all is going well it’s a good place to meets from, when it’s not it can go all tits-up in a spectacular fashion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met quite a few forumites, mainly through the MLS, and one or two for some fun..
Also used to organise a small gathering in Chester with an ex forumite every once in a while... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've met quite a few forumites current and old - through the STP and MLS and socials and the odd one or two I've known a tad more intimately.
Much like Laceyandsam, some are quite close friends now and I feel very happy to have them in my life. I'm hoping to meet a few more soon; I find it fascinating seeing how dynamics and people translate off of the screen and in to real life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas. "
Welcome to the club, chum. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum."
It can feel quite discouraging. |
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging."
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never met anyone from the forums, it’s lonely up here where I am....although there is someone very local (from the forums!) who I want to meet 
But there’s loads I’d like to meet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"...help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging."
Ach Op. I think we all experience that feeling at times. I do. Well not scrawny or little. I'd probably be the overfed organic chicken.  Sometimes it looks like everyone on here is fucking or being flirted with or having friendly chat but me.
Avoid the threads that make you feel like that if possible and post on the more inclusive, less "pick for my team" ones. |
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I've meet a couple of people for a social, and the odd one for more but I wouldn't like to meet too many in a sexy was as I don't like the thought of being compared...
I've made some lovely friends though and I really do hope to meet them xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Aside from group socials where I've met a number of forumites, some who I'm proud to call friends, all of my meets have been via the forums and the interaction that comes with them - none of them via the type of threads you're referring to OP, more conversations that have sparked naturally off the back of other threads.
I find it works well for me as a means to get to know people beyond their profile text.
Never had any awkwardness either, partly because all concerned have been adult about it and partly because a big song and dance hasn't been made of the fact we're meeting.
All of those I've met I've remained in contact with to some degree after too, even if we've not gone on to meet again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon..."
It's much more like can't meet forumites really. |
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really."
Why not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Ach Op. I think we all experience that feeling at times. I do. Well not scrawny or little. I'd probably be the overfed organic chicken. Sometimes it looks like everyone on here is fucking or being flirted with or having friendly chat but me.
Avoid the threads that make you feel like that if possible and post on the more inclusive, less "pick for my team" ones."
I'll do my best to avoid them kind of threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?"
Stop with the questions! If i remember correctly the OP has aspergers so that might have something to do with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?"
When it comes to meeting new people, it's difficult for me to put myself forward because of my autism. |
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I find most of the expressing an interest threads quite cringey tbh. The people I want to meet/ have met, it's because of a sense of them I've developed over time on other threads.
Like, if someone says "pint" on a kiss fuck etc thread that could mean anything. But seeing witty insightful comments over time, certain attitudes, a sense of humour... that's attractive. |
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?
When it comes to meeting new people, it's difficult for me to put myself forward because of my autism."
You've had loads of meets....dsnt affect you that much.... |
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"I find most of the expressing an interest threads quite cringey tbh. The people I want to meet/ have met, it's because of a sense of them I've developed over time on other threads.
Like, if someone says "pint" on a kiss fuck etc thread that could mean anything. But seeing witty insightful comments over time, certain attitudes, a sense of humour... that's attractive. "
I agree, I don't take the kiss fuck threads seriously at all even though I do comment on them. It's reading what people have to say over time that gives you an insight. On the whole the people I have chatted too after reading and watching so to speak have turned out exactly as I thought..apart from one exception. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?
When it comes to meeting new people, it's difficult for me to put myself forward because of my autism.
You've had loads of meets....dsnt affect you that much...."
Yeah. When I first joined Fab a couple of years ago, I had social anxieties but managed to go to a club for the first time. The first couple of visits were hard for me to come out of my shell but as time went on, I was able to make a few friends and gain confidence. |
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"I think it’s a great idea. Likeminded people to have a laugh with. Just because I’m on this site, doesn’t mean I want to fuck everyone. Some make me feel, oh I’d love to know you better on a platonic level."
I (Luke) agree. The forums are a good way of gauging what people are like over time and there are a handful of people I could name I'd be really excited to meet given the opportunity. My only presumption would be a social meet.
I'd be fascinated to know if any forumites would like to meet us, I mean in principle forgetting distance and scheduling.
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, it’s lonely up here where I am....although there is someone very local (from the forums!) who I want to meet
But there’s loads I’d like to meet "
And may they continue |
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Yes one. Had a lovely time.
Seen some car crash romances play out on here.
Lady leaves Husband for forumite. Lady goes on the forums to say she left him because he wasn’t giving her what she needs.
Husband retains dignified silence on forums.
Lady goes back to husband. Tells every one on forums she was hoodwinked blah blah blah.
Other man retains dignified silence.
Husband now having to put up with all sorts of shenanigans again.
All played out on the forums. Jeremy Kyle style. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a great idea. Likeminded people to have a laugh with. Just because I’m on this site, doesn’t mean I want to fuck everyone. Some make me feel, oh I’d love to know you better on a platonic level.
I (Luke) agree. The forums are a good way of gauging what people are like over time and there are a handful of people I could name I'd be really excited to meet given the opportunity. My only presumption would be a social meet.
I'd be fascinated to know if any forumites would like to meet us, I mean in principle forgetting distance and scheduling.
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In principle, yes, but I'm the wrong sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?
When it comes to meeting new people, it's difficult for me to put myself forward because of my autism.
You've had loads of meets....dsnt affect you that much....
Yeah. When I first joined Fab a couple of years ago, I had social anxieties but managed to go to a club for the first time. The first couple of visits were hard for me to come out of my shell but as time went on, I was able to make a few friends and gain confidence. "
Well done,mate, you're doing way better than me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Why is it? That you don't meet forumites? Cmon...
It's much more like can't meet forumites really.
Why not?
When it comes to meeting new people, it's difficult for me to put myself forward because of my autism.
You've had loads of meets....dsnt affect you that much....
Yeah. When I first joined Fab a couple of years ago, I had social anxieties but managed to go to a club for the first time. The first couple of visits were hard for me to come out of my shell but as time went on, I was able to make a few friends and gain confidence.
Well done,mate, you're doing way better than me "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met several forumites over the years, infact barring a few, all of my meets have been via the forums. It's how Dotty and I met too!
I found that through the forums the conversation grows naturally and organically, then if/when you do meet, it feels like you're meeting a friend as opposed to some random person for a sex interview.
I do understand how things feel for you OP, especially if you're an aspie, however, you're not alone in that and being atypical isn't a barrier. The thing to remember is that everyone feels excluded or ignored at times and everyone thinks it's just them, it really isn't. If I post ten comments in a day, I'm lucky to get one or two replies on those. It doesn't mean that you're being ignored, your comments will have been read and digested and probably agreed with, just not commented on.
Keep posting, keep commenting and keep being yourself. The forums take a long time to get a meet from if that's your intent.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas. "
You're a lovely guy. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought they all do here through clubs and parties?
I used to wanted to meet Tina Titz but she went off fabs now."
She's still on here, she posted the other week.
I've met lots of forum people at socials over the years.
I've never fucked a forumite. Honest.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
You're a lovely guy. X"
Aww thank you and you're a lovely lady |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve met mostly from the forum; although also from the non-forum posting % of the site too.
Either group socials or more intimate 1:1s and have had more involvement from a couple too. One remains my closest life confidante and I absolutely love him.
I also have my pseudo-siblings hive mind from the forum; Meli and Tea.
There’s many I’ve not yet met that I’d like to meet for socials, maybe more.
There’s one currently I’d definitely like to meet for more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm aspie too, there are quite a few of us on here, and I've had most of my meets from the forums. If I like someone's posts I just steel myself and message. I've made some lovely friends who are very dear to me by doing this. Try not to let self-consciousness stop you from initiating conversation with people. The Internet is a great way for people like us to make connections without the awkwardness of face to face interaction, and once you've built up a rapport with someone actually meeting them is much easier. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think the problem is the threads you are expecting to get meets from OP - the "kiss, snog, avoid", "I fancy you" and "whose hotlist" etc type of threads are fairly superficial and have little substance - as Tea Monkey said it's more of an organic over time thing that leads to meets from the forum, seeing how someone interacts, and bouncing off them in the forums, then sparking conversations from there.
Not knocking the type of threads I referred to at all, they *can* act as an ice breaker to start a conversation, but more often than not the superficial nature of them sees the conversation fizzle out fairly quickly - although I guess that's no different from any other conversation on here, sometimes they just flow and grow, others they trickle to nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m speaking to some people who I met in the forums and certainly would meet in future others I don’t think we click in that way but will definitely remain friends and possibly meet up in a none playing way, genuinely I’ve found more honest likeminded people in the forums than any other place on fab x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't anymore ! I got disappointed so many times. All people want is to fuck my brain out !
I see they were successful with that. "
 walked straight into that one didn't I |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites. "
Where was snoggers corner? I must have missed that bit.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't anymore ! I got disappointed so many times. All people want is to fuck my brain out !
I see they were successful with that.
walked straight into that one didn't I "
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I have met one person i got to know through the forums..
Surprisingly enough, she was actually quite normal... one head, two arms, ten fingers, fourteen toes...
She even spoke English and not Klingon... i was surprised..
It was quite a pleasant experience , we met for coffee and chatted..
It seems ideas i had of other forumites may have been just a little bit wrong... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites. "
is caenarfon near st.leonards ??  |
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I've met oodles of forumites at various Lounge Socials. Lots of giggles, hair stroking, hugs, snogs, smiles, blushes, gin, winks, nudges, 'who is that over theres?', fafs, cupcakes, stories, jokes.... And at the end of them all, lots of new friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a lot on the Welsh forums, through socials. Only met a few on the mains. LJ being the best one obviously  .
But we are going to the MLS in September, where I finally get to put faces to the username and am so excited to meet some in person, finally
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites.
is caenarfon near st.leonards ?? "
Lol no lovely. I'm out in the sticks here so a million miles away from anyone lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites.
Where was snoggers corner? I must have missed that bit.
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Lol opposite end to smoking area. I was the one with the black and bright red hair keeping snoggers corner busy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging."
Well I’ve enjoyed chatting with you on several forums OP as I enjoy the point of views you put across |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do try my best not to not feel negative about myself but when posting on certain threads, I can't help but feel like I'm that scrawny little turkey in a supermarket that no one wants to by for Christmas.
Welcome to the club, chum.
It can feel quite discouraging.
Well I’ve enjoyed chatting with you on several forums OP as I enjoy the point of views you put across "
Aww thank you |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites.
Where was snoggers corner? I must have missed that bit.
Lol opposite end to smoking area. I was the one with the black and bright red hair keeping snoggers corner busy lol"
You must have been obscured from my view by the other snoggers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met a lot on the Welsh forums, through socials. Only met a few on the mains. LJ being the best one obviously .
But we are going to the MLS in September, where I finally get to put faces to the username and am so excited to meet some in person, finally
Holly"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a few over the years, some I've invited to enter my tuna tunnel of love, some I've wanted a good ole piss up with and no more, one I've spoken to every day for 2 years and is like a sister to me, and one....well, what was intended on being a laugh, pretty decent naked gymnastics and a mate turned into a love story.
I'll happily meet forumties as I feel I've already got the cut of their jib sussed to a certain degree.
Yes there are some people I've been completely wrong about as their online persona and "real life" them are polar opposites, but that's life, and unfortunately it happens.
So if any forumties are in the Dudley area and wanna meet up for a chin wag and a brew that's cool with me. If I ain't working I'd welcome it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met a few over the years, some I've invited to enter my tuna tunnel of love, some I've wanted a good ole piss up with and no more, one I've spoken to every day for 2 years and is like a sister to me, and one....well, what was intended on being a laugh, pretty decent naked gymnastics and a mate turned into a love story.
I'll happily meet forumties as I feel I've already got the cut of their jib sussed to a certain degree.
Yes there are some people I've been completely wrong about as their online persona and "real life" them are polar opposites, but that's life, and unfortunately it happens.
So if any forumties are in the Dudley area and wanna meet up for a chin wag and a brew that's cool with me. If I ain't working I'd welcome it.
P"
I've just spotted that my phone has decided to change the spelling of forumites to forumties... are they the numpties of the forums? 
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"Met a few at the last MLS but me being too bloody shy I didn't speak to many. Just went from snoggers corner to smoking area and back many times.
I'd love to have coffee and a laugh with some of the forumites.
Where was snoggers corner? I must have missed that bit.
Lol opposite end to smoking area. I was the one with the black and bright red hair keeping snoggers corner busy lol
You must have been obscured from my view by the other snoggers "
Lol I'll be there again this time.. hopefully keeping the corner company Still with black and bright red hair |
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Pretty much every meet that I've had has come about as a result of us both being on the forums at some point, being as I haven't sent a preemptive faf message for about 10 years, it's a bloody good job too |
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I've just spotted that my phone has decided to change the spelling of forumites to forumties... are they the numpties of the forums?
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Nah it's the bondage kinkster forumites "
Thank fuck for that.
To be fair tho, I fit in the numpties group |
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It was someone from the forums on a spontaneous drink social that told me about them. Since then I’ve only meet guys from the forums
It’s a great way to get a feel of someone before you message them, so far I haven’t been disappointed |
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"I've met a few over the years, some I've invited to enter my tuna tunnel of love, some I've wanted a good ole piss up with and no more, one I've spoken to every day for 2 years and is like a sister to me, and one....well, what was intended on being a laugh, pretty decent naked gymnastics and a mate turned into a love story.
I'll happily meet forumties as I feel I've already got the cut of their jib sussed to a certain degree.
Yes there are some people I've been completely wrong about as their online persona and "real life" them are polar opposites, but that's life, and unfortunately it happens.
So if any forumties are in the Dudley area and wanna meet up for a chin wag and a brew that's cool with me. If I ain't working I'd welcome it.
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You still owe me an ice cream |
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"I've met a few over the years, some I've invited to enter my tuna tunnel of love, some I've wanted a good ole piss up with and no more, one I've spoken to every day for 2 years and is like a sister to me, and one....well, what was intended on being a laugh, pretty decent naked gymnastics and a mate turned into a love story.
I'll happily meet forumties as I feel I've already got the cut of their jib sussed to a certain degree.
Yes there are some people I've been completely wrong about as their online persona and "real life" them are polar opposites, but that's life, and unfortunately it happens.
So if any forumties are in the Dudley area and wanna meet up for a chin wag and a brew that's cool with me. If I ain't working I'd welcome it.
P
You still owe me an ice cream "
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I’ve met loads at the MLS and STP and even had some more intimate meets with a few. Some I’ve met again for purely social meets. And met my best fab friend the lovely Curvy on here. There’s definitely a few more I’d like to meet for a more intimate time x |
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"I’ve met loads at the MLS and STP and even had some more intimate meets with a few. Some I’ve met again for purely social meets. And met my best fab friend the lovely Curvy on here. There’s definitely a few more I’d like to meet for a more intimate time x "
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"I’ve met loads at the MLS and STP and even had some more intimate meets with a few. Some I’ve met again for purely social meets. And met my best fab friend the lovely Curvy on here. There’s definitely a few more I’d like to meet for a more intimate time x "
It was certainly nice meeting you and many others including Curvy at the MLS last year. It's a shame I'm missing the next one due to being on holiday in September. |
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In the years I’ve been Fabbing around I’ve met some wonderful people who I first encountered on these forums. Both in socials and more intimate meets. Luckily no one has been anything other than the person they seem to be on here. I went to the theatre with a forumite recently. Friendships can blossom once you meet and it’s just wonderful when it does. As for it all going wrong... we’re all adults. It’s how you handle things that make the difference. |
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Met a forum regular once, married the wally in the end lol. In all seriousness though, we've met a few but wouldn't class them as friends as only met once. We've got a regular social group now from fab members on a kik group though.
Danish x
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"I really value the forum interaction whether or not it leads to more.
Me too. Enjoying it atm and that’s cool."
Also here ... there is perhaps to much focus on the site sometimes that it's "must meet" "must shag others"
The art of communication and conversation is just as important |
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"I've met a lot on the Welsh forums, through socials. Only met a few on the mains. LJ being the best one obviously .
But we are going to the MLS in September, where I finally get to put faces to the username and am so excited to meet some in person, finally
Hollyhave fun "
I just wish you were still going  |
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"I've met a lot on the Welsh forums, through socials. Only met a few on the mains. LJ being the best one obviously .
But we are going to the MLS in September, where I finally get to put faces to the username and am so excited to meet some in person, finally
Hollyhave fun
I just wish you were still going "
naaaa its cool il grab u friday at some point instead |
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