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Have you ever been on a meet where you was scared ?

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

Eg ....you was told to meet in dark field or the house you visited was scary ect ect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I would never put myself in that kind of position

(I'm not meeting at the moment anyway, so doubly safe!

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

To be honest, I'm usually the scary one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eg ....you was told to meet in dark field or the house you visited was scary ect ect"
no.because i always do a social first and would meet in public

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes because I was stupid and accepted a lift after our social and he started talking about his fantasies which were cause for concern.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good god no

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Nope, I only meet at clubs predominantly for safety reasons

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I wouldn't meet in a dark field and I'd advise everyone against it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would anyone agree to meet in a dark field?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, very, in my early days on here. I was too trusting. God, when I think about what happened, I need my head testing for still being here. The Forums have helped me immensely since then.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Only sacred

not scared...

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, behaviours I should have paid more attention to that got worse.

No dark fields or spooky, just someone who didn't respect my boundaries.

Once bitten twice shy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never. I did take stupid risks when I first joined 4 years ago because I was very naive. Fortunately I was lucky in that the men I met were nice people. I'm much more savvy now.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Only once, for about 1 minute.

Then I remembered who I was, what I can do & my instincts/training took over.

I'd only been on here a couple of days, my first social, I put myself in a stupid situation.

Luckily I walked away unscathed, he didn't!

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

Only once, but what started off innocently enough with a verified couple, quickly turned the wrong way and could have ended up with me getting seriously injured.

It was only by quick thinking and talking that I escaped from a house.

This wasn't via FAB, but on another site.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I was scared of my feelings but not of the person.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

Not so much scared but worried what a guys plans was i met to get some viagras from . Worked out he was in the bi closet and had other ideas rather than give me a viagra . He almost coped a black eye when i discovered his intentions !!

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Why would anyone agree to meet in a dark field?! "

Torch battery testing kink?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep.

Went for a social in a pub, the guy was being very pushy (almost physically at one point) in trying to get me in the back of his transit where he apparently had restraints and all sorts. If he called me a bitch and a slag once he called me it ten times in 2 mins when he realised the only place I was going was far away from him.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Not so much scared but worried what a guys plans was i met to get some viagras from . Worked out he was in the bi closet and had other ideas rather than give me a viagra . He almost coped a black eye when i discovered his intentions !!"
Your so tough

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Yes, a few times, when I was less experienced and more gullible. Thankfully I am a determined person and will work through or fight my way out of a tricky situation. There truly are some people who have dark, very sinister intentions for others.

I'm now less flexible and largely expect men to conform to my demands. My safety is generally retained at high levels now.

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By *he Happy ManMan over a year ago

Merseyside

"Eg ....you was told to meet in dark field or the house you visited was scary ect ect"

Nope. 99% of my meets have been with people I have spent a long time getting to know online. I spend time getting to know them to avoid

Axe murderers

Fantasists

Timewasters

Idiots

Weirdoes

etc

I take my safety very seriously.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

My house

Uninvited

He's doing 6 years

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

"I wouldn't meet in a dark field and I'd advise everyone against it.

Erm dogging ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eg ....you was told to meet in dark field or the house you visited was scary ect ectno.because i always do a social first and would meet in public"

This for us too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eg ....you was told to meet in dark field or the house you visited was scary ect ect"

meeting people is scary enough!

going to others houses is also scary

field invite ..novel! but No!

haunted house swing...again nice idea but No...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes #youknowwhoyouare !

Who on earth put milk in herbal tea !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes #youknowwhoyouare !

Who on earth put milk in herbal tea ! "

It is when I know that my bowel movement would be in danger so I preferred to leave

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By *ondonFreakMan over a year ago

London

I`ve done some car meets in dodgy places (like industrial estates at the back of Tottenham at 3am), but nothing ever went bad..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Not myself but had a few screams from ladies riding my big dipper.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

very first meet we went on we were so naive!! was supposed to be a little social just two couples and the guy who owned the house, when we arrived and was parking up we luckily saw 5 males get out of a car, go to the front door and get let in by the male! we nearly pooed ourselves hubby put car in gear and we shot off!!! since then we NEVER have first meet anywhere but a public place for a social

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, very, in my early days on here. I was too trusting. God, when I think about what happened, I need my head testing for still being here. The Forums have helped me immensely since then. "

Exactly this, when I first started I too was far to trusting.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

I knew a couple when the guy would send mrs into the woods on a dogging meet where he sat in the car . She thought it was fun

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only the one where I had to pick her up in a dark church yard

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

I think I’m probably more frightening than frightened

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once went on a meet where I found the guy had locked the door and pocketed the key. A very frightening hour.....taught me a lot about being careful

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I had a lady come and stop at mine for the weekend, she set ma smoke alarm off twice whilst cooking

The apple & pear crumble was sublime though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We only ever meet as a couple so no never been scared.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I have always chosen people that were lovely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Ive had an unpleasant meet in more naive times but certainly not scared

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By *ara JTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol East

If I felt scared, it would not be happening, so the answer is no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The few people's I've met off this site have been lovely. So no scared.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Yes, I generally make unwise decisions when alone and horny, I was chatting to a man off here and told him I had no car, so he cycled to me, I then lived in a rural spot. As he was coming nearer I thought he is nothing like his picture, I gave him a drink and we chatted outside as it was a lovely evening, but I wasn’t attracted and thought this could go badly really quickly. Luckily I had friends nearby who were aware of what I was doing, and I think he was thinking of all the nasty things that should befall me for sending him away at twilight with no sex, but he accepted the decision like a gent.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had offers for woods, car parks etc at night with random men, no way would I ever risk my safety like that. So, no OP, I've not experienced it and would strongly advise others to never do this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met once with an individual who was d off his head and paranoid as FUCK! He suddenly switched all the lights off and began covering his windows with duvets and shouting whilst looking out the window. It was so dark by the time he had blacked out all the windows that I couldn’t see my hand in front of my face. I thought yep this is my cue to go!. But every time I shifted my weight a little he’d come over and lead me to his bedroom. Almost like an animal. All I could hear was his shuffling around, opening doors and drawers and occasionally snorting whatever he was on!

Didn’t help he had been fine until this point And I was mostly naked. Finding my way a strangers house in pitch blackness, locating my clothes which had my car keys in them. When I got out and into my car he was kind of standing in his doorway head peering around the side of the door looking quite forlorn that I was going. Well I wasn’t bloody staying after that mess!

Had to talk to him like a paranoid patient at work and slowly worked my way out. He was so erratic and his eyes wide like a stereotypical maniac. He was so edgy as well I didn’t want a sudden move to trigger him. Got out just fine but yes that was the only time I truly thought this guy might kill me and no one will even know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone wants asked me to meet them in a dark field at 9pm

and of course l didn't meet him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wants asked me to meet them in a dark field at 9pm

and of course l didn't meet him"

How do people think this sounds safe or innocent. As if you’d ask someone this and expect them to show. Probably a good thing you didn’t!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes she bit my belly

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had a social with one person (public place, coffee) who started saying some seriously weird things...at first I thought they were joking, then realised they weren't .

Luckily I was able to make my excuses and leave but I went the long way home, as didn't want to be followed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

One guy shit me up big style

I was once chased through the woods by a d*unken guy cruising

I've also been interviewed by the police whilst on a meet

It really is better that I stay in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One guy had me driving about 4 hours, deep into desolate moors. To some cafe in the middle of nowhere. That was scary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One guy had me driving about 4 hours, deep into desolate moors. To some cafe in the middle of nowhere. That was scary.

I'd have been scared too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was persuaded to go back to a guy's place. Friendly Scouser. Inside he had a cup of tea and talked about his 'crazy'antics...

I began to feel uncomfortable and reached for the door. Just got out with him hot on my heels. Fortunately neighbours were about otherwise he would have chased me down the garden path . I got home instead of A&E with a very sore ass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope im very careful

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Dude...was you ever scared?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Years back now but was given the address of an estate & was told to call again once there as it could be tricky to find & it would make sense when I was there. It was winter, so got dark early.

Got there & the estate was grim, but phoned anyway. No reply & was then texted to go in a block of flats, find the flat & the door would be on the latch. Go in & make my way to the bedroom where she would be waiting & to just climb into bed.

Not a hope in hell I was going into that situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had one years ago , was on holiday in gran canaria was on an app and this bloke was chatting to me , he had a hire car and was going for a drive up the mountains , asked if I wanted to go for a ride (shut it ) we arranged to meet outside the yumbo centre at 8 it was getting dark , I walked over the road and this cars horn was honking so I ran to the car and jumped in , the man was nothing like he's photos he drove off and I felt so trapped , he dove and kept putting he's hand on my knee I said I'm only here for a trip up the mountains , few minutes later he did it again so again I move he's hand , he kept saying I know you want it etc etc , I was bricking myself , I was in a car with a stranger driving somewhere in the dark to gods know where , I made out I was sick and asked him to pull over by this time we were way up a mountain pitch black with no one around , I wanted to run but Ithere was no where to run too . I was making being sick noises then saying I need to go back I don't feel well , he agreed so I get back in , then he locked the car and tried to kiss me I said I've just been sick , he then grabbed my cock and I pushed him away I begged him to take me back . And he started to drive back down the mountain but very fast the atmosphere was nasty , I really thought I was going to die when we got back to playa del ingles I jumped out of the car at a crossing and ran , learnt my lesson that night

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By *lloverkisserMan over a year ago

preston

Only the one occassion, but it turned out she was a police officer so the only thing I was worried about was my car tax disc and a semi legal tyre

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

"Only the one occassion, but it turned out she was a police officer so the only thing I was worried about was my car tax disc and a semi legal tyre"

Owwww my fantasy . Yet to meet a wpc on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"No. I would never put myself in that kind of position

(I'm not meeting at the moment anyway, so doubly safe!

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a meet, but when i was younger and in Central London.. I was approached by a friendly old man who seemed to be very happy to help me around London.

He recommended me to a club and stupidly I went there. When I arrived I was greated by a lady at the door, who was quick to get me inside.

I walked down steps into a dark room and I saw women arguing with a man and demanding him to give them money. Then another woman approached me and ordered me to sit down. I sat down for a second and realised I was going to be the next victim, then I legged it.

The scam was they would accuse men of sexually assaulting them and then demand cash and if they didn't pay, they would threaten to call the police or get the bouncers to intervene.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only the one occassion, but it turned out she was a police officer so the only thing I was worried about was my car tax disc and a semi legal tyre

Owwww my fantasy . Yet to meet a wpc on here

There's loads of policemen on here

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

"Only the one occassion, but it turned out she was a police officer so the only thing I was worried about was my car tax disc and a semi legal tyre

Owwww my fantasy . Yet to meet a wpc on here

There's loads of policemen on here "

..yes so iv been told lol . Always intresting chatting to couples that have or do meet coppers. Especially when these couples like to indulge in there spare time . No Comment as the quotes go lol

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man over a year ago

Kent

Just been chatting a lady today when she messaged me this .....

'was supposed to be meeting a guy but when I turned up I was faced with 3 men ..... rather scary'

Jesus what is wrong with guys these days ffs !! Enough to ruin a young naive girls life and the rep of men on here !

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