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Why do people stand us up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For any of us who have been through this, I just want to ask why do people do this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Without asking or getting an answer from the perpetrators, you'll never know.

Shrug that shit off, consider it a bullet dodged, and make a booty call.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Because they can, simple as that.

I haven’t been stood up but it is such a rubbish thing for someone to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For any of us who have been through this, I just want to ask why do people do this?"

Don't let other people and their shitty behaviour weigh you down op...

Try not to think about it

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By *aisy SteinerWoman over a year ago

Leicester

"Without asking or getting an answer from the perpetrators, you'll never know.

Shrug that shit off, consider it a bullet dodged, and make a booty call. "

Having been there numerous times...this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People can be cu*ts.

Simple as..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Without asking or getting an answer from the perpetrators, you'll never know.

Shrug that shit off, consider it a bullet dodged, and make a booty call. "

It's a good thing I have friends who helped me out when this happened to me last week.

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By *astyEricMan over a year ago

Hull

Tbh don't really care, why.

Obviously they not worth my attention if they can't explain themselfs in a proper good manner

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Fortunately this has never happened to me as yet, but i'd venture because ppl change their minds, chicken out or get a thrill leading others on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's only a let down if you allow it to be.

See it as a new opportunity instead. You've proved it this week. Don't give those that stand you up the satisfaction of reacting/complaining/stomping your feet. Be the bigger person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fortunately this has never happened to me as yet, but i'd venture because ppl change their minds, chicken out or get a thrill leading others on."

My thoughts exactly on them either chickening out or getting a thrill out of leading others on. It's also a kick in the teeth when they ghost others as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's only a let down if you allow it to be.

See it as a new opportunity instead. You've proved it this week. Don't give those that stand you up the satisfaction of reacting/complaining/stomping your feet. Be the bigger person."

I agree. It's better to report and block those who do this to others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just block them, don't even see point in reporting. Nothing appears to happen when you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just block them, don't even see point in reporting. Nothing appears to happen when you do."

Yeah that is true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some kind soul explained the thrill of being a keyboard voyeur to me and I think we have many of those here. Simply get their kicks from the lead on to the chase but by the time the actual meet arrives, flaccid as an empty hot water bottle.

It hurts, it’s annoying. Will we get used to it? No, but we’ll build immunity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they are fab vegans,they don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they are fab vegans,they don't meet

Made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first ever fab meet was a no show. Not the best start...

I think his wife (that I didn’t know about...) wouldn’t let him

Blocked, moved on.

I’ve had 2 out of 4 no shows - all just planned to be quick social meets.

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By *utsidenakedMan over a year ago

Dorchester

Been there done that more times than I'd like. Yes most just loose their bottle.they live the chase but when they catch something they do turn Vegan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos they're fakes and dreamers, pretty much what we've found.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Most of us have been there, I gave zero fucks to anyone that stood me up, people chicken out and some just lead you on, the only problem is you don’t know who those people will be until the time comes, anyhooooo chin up and keep on keeping on

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