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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand the mechanics of this activity but i do not understand its purpose. Just why?
Is it visually pleasurable?
Does it feel nice?
Is it a thing you do in trust n love?
Is it porns fault?
What are the risks involved?
I personally am grossed out by it (disclaimer: thats my own personal opinion and cast no judgement upon those who enjoy this activity) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it's definitely porn's fault and I agree with you, I don't get the appeal of it. It's so ridiculously unhygienic. Pretty disgusting imo but again, like you, that is just my opinion. To each their own.  |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit 
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no..... 
Noted   "
You writing a book about my likes and dislikes? |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no.....
Noted
You writing a book about my likes and dislikes? "
More a journal of things to try and not try with you  |
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I think porn is responsible for men thinking it is a regular part of sex.
I suppose the appeal might be in the taboo and distasteful nature of the act, in the same way I enjoy watersports due to the 'naughtyness'. |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no.....
Noted
You writing a book about my likes and dislikes?
More a journal of things to try and not try with you "
You want it Monkey I'll try it! |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no.....
Noted
You writing a book about my likes and dislikes?
More a journal of things to try and not try with you
You want it Monkey I'll try it! "
Game on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Given some of the porn I've seen, I do wonder if it's very explicitly about the forced consumption of waste products."
I agree theres certainly a submissive element to it.
(Theres a small voice asking what porn you’ve seen. Lol) |
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"Given some of the porn I've seen, I do wonder if it's very explicitly about the forced consumption of waste products.
I agree theres certainly a submissive element to it.
(Theres a small voice asking what porn you’ve seen. Lol)"
I like rough porn. There's way too much crossover into degrading. |
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By *rs PickWoman
over a year ago
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I personally am siding with the OP. *goes to vomit*
Can't think of anything more disgusting for me to do.
On the other hand I have fingered subs arses and then made then clean my finger with their mouth!!
All about humiliation but all done consensual. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it happens when you don't know you've done it. Heat of the moment. It's not that bad
Was it given a little wipe off first?
Before or after it went up my arse?"
After it went up your bum |
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"Given some of the porn I've seen, I do wonder if it's very explicitly about the forced consumption of waste products.
I agree theres certainly a submissive element to it.
(Theres a small voice asking what porn you’ve seen. Lol)
I like rough porn. There's way too much crossover into degrading. "
Yes... I often wonder why there is so little rough porn which isn't degrading. I'm sometimes triggered by degrading actions and name calling, and surely cannot be the only person who likes it rough without that? |
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"Is it that different from the hygiene of rimming?
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Probably. Even if one sticks one's tongue in, it won't go as deep as a penis or decent length toy. Assuming the owner of the anus has cleaned themselves, theres far more chance with the latter of fecal matter going to the mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think porn is responsible for men thinking it is a regular part of sex.
I suppose the appeal might be in the taboo and distasteful nature of the act, in the same way I enjoy watersports due to the 'naughtyness'. "
It’s more the latter than the prior. I’ve done it a few times, yet I’m not a big porn viewer. I get off on how dirty it is. (pun ahaha) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think porn is responsible for men thinking it is a regular part of sex.
I suppose the appeal might be in the taboo and distasteful nature of the act, in the same way I enjoy watersports due to the 'naughtyness'.
It’s more the latter than the prior. I’ve done it a few times, yet I’m not a big porn viewer. I get off on how dirty it is. (pun ahaha) "
Just to clarify, when I mentioned “doing it a few times” I meant as the giver, never the receiver. |
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"I think porn is responsible for men thinking it is a regular part of sex.
I suppose the appeal might be in the taboo and distasteful nature of the act, in the same way I enjoy watersports due to the 'naughtyness'.
It’s more the latter than the prior. I’ve done it a few times, yet I’m not a big porn viewer. I get off on how dirty it is. (pun ahaha)
Just to clarify, when I mentioned “doing it a few times” I meant as the giver, never the receiver. "
Me think he doth protest too much |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Surely all the people that douche themselves before having anal sex wouldn't have a problem with it?
I can understand people who are in ltrs and being caught in the moment but it's a no from me. |
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"It's a no from me....
And porn has quite alot to answer for and this is one of them "
So let me get this straight.... You're giving a girl good hard anal sex and as you're about to cum she tells you she wants to suck you and swallow your cum.... You're gonna stop her and say no are you???
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"Sometimes it happens when you don't know you've done it. Heat of the moment. It's not that bad
Was it given a little wipe off first?
Before or after it went up my arse?
After it went up your bum "
Do you always think what your doing when having sex. I go with the flow. I douche before I have anal. |
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"Sometimes it happens when you don't know you've done it. Heat of the moment. It's not that bad
Was it given a little wipe off first?
Before or after it went up my arse?
After it went up your bum
Do you always think what your doing when having sex. I go with the flow. I douche before I have anal."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it happens when you don't know you've done it. Heat of the moment. It's not that bad
Was it given a little wipe off first?
Before or after it went up my arse?
After it went up your bum
Do you always think what your doing when having sex. I go with the flow. I douche before I have anal."
Honest answer yes. Thanks for answering i was genuinely curious. Xxx |
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"It's a no from me....
And porn has quite alot to answer for and this is one of them
So let me get this straight.... You're giving a girl good hard anal sex and as you're about to cum she tells you she wants to suck you and swallow your cum.... You're gonna stop her and say no are you???
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Unless I know she has douched or had an enema, yes. Because it's not good for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no..... "
Which part? Ha |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no.....
Which part? Ha "
I'm still trying to figure it out |
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"What is it? Rimming?
My dear ..
Anal sex with completion by BJ
Sweet innocent Bandit
Oh I see, ass to mouth! Hahahaha...........yeh that would be a no.....
Which part? Ha
I'm still trying to figure it out "
Need a diagram? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After that dicks given me my pleasure, of course.
Love to fuck like a little pornstar so for me it’s a must.
Love the deviancy and the naughtiness.
Douche, douche, douche and all is brilliant
x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A girl done this with me once. I thought she'd did it by accident and was going to stop after a few seconds but she seemed to be enjoying herself so I didn't complain. |
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I can fully understand people feeling that it is a 'no no' for them but it is just an extension of anal sex with all the aspects of hygiene taken.
If someone is into anal sex takes loperamide to firm up, douches and is scrupulously clean it reduces risks associated with that dual purpose orifice.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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It's something I've done with long term partners. (and I'm talking years before I saw it in mainstream porn)...
It's multifaceted as to why I got off on it so much, partly humiliation, partly it's taboo nature...
Sometimes I don't question too deeply why I enjoyed something and just get on with enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand the mechanics of this activity but i do not understand its purpose. Just why?
Is it visually pleasurable?
Does it feel nice?
Is it a thing you do in trust n love?
Is it porns fault?
What are the risks involved?
I personally am grossed out by it (disclaimer: thats my own personal opinion and cast no judgement upon those who enjoy this activity) "
This happened to me on a first date. We were talking for a few months and decided to meet, after drinks and during sex by her place, she asked me to fuck her in the ass and after pulling out, she took my dick and cleaned it off, saying "I know, I'm a Very dirty girl" I thought the whole thing was incredibly sexy and turned me on a lot. Still one of my top 10 sexual highlights since being here in the UK.
It has happened a few other times but that first time and how she said it was incredibly sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out "
Can spitting be used sensually though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though "
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah… |
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Being a bottom guy myself I take stringent methods to ensure my hygiene
When I am with a guy I do love to suck their cock after it hss been inside me purely on the basis of I know how clean I am and I enjoy tasting any cum left on his cock, I would never do this if there was any hint of dirt that does not appeal to me I will also admit to not liking or using lube during anal as hate the taste and feel of it I am lucky in so much as usually after a couple of strokes of a cock inside me I naturally get very wet and this means I dont have to use or taste the ghastly stuff. I understand its not for everyone but in my case it certainly is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah… "
Got you…..I was more focused on the act of spitting and not the transfer of it naturally…that’s my bad Kylie  |
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out "
+1 for the spitting in mouths. My ex used to love it abd if she had a few drinks she’d spit in mine. Was great!
Not for everyone though, had a meet where she said she was very kinky and submissive, I dunno the etiquette of consent when spitting in someone’s mouth and I stupidly just went for it. Did not end well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
+1 for the spitting in mouths. My ex used to love it abd if she had a few drinks she’d spit in mine. Was great!
Not for everyone though, had a meet where she said she was very kinky and submissive, I dunno the etiquette of consent when spitting in someone’s mouth and I stupidly just went for it. Did not end well "
Haha I’m glad you understand I thought I came across as I’m from another planet 
But yeah, I guess it’s kinda one of those things that some might like and some others might think…. weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah…
Got you…..I was more focused on the act of spitting and not the transfer of it naturally…that’s my bad Kylie "
Well that’s the sensual part of it. As there can be a lot of heavy kissing with a lot of saliva involve
But I do admit when I’m feeling kinky I love when a hot guy spits in my mouth.
Which is “kinky” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah…
Got you…..I was more focused on the act of spitting and not the transfer of it naturally…that’s my bad Kylie
Well that’s the sensual part of it. As there can be a lot of heavy kissing with a lot of saliva involve
But I do admit when I’m feeling kinky I love when a hot guy spits in my mouth.
Which is “kinky”"
Fully agree with you….sloppy kisses and a few spit shots are enjoyable in the moments of passion, kinkiness and naughtiness!!
You’re certainly no Angel haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah…
Got you…..I was more focused on the act of spitting and not the transfer of it naturally…that’s my bad Kylie
Well that’s the sensual part of it. As there can be a lot of heavy kissing with a lot of saliva involve
But I do admit when I’m feeling kinky I love when a hot guy spits in my mouth.
Which is “kinky”
Fully agree with you….sloppy kisses and a few spit shots are enjoyable in the moments of passion, kinkiness and naughtiness!!
You’re certainly no Angel haha "
I’ve been told I look Innocent but my eyes tell otherwise x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a dominant thing … I know for example that I love it when guys spit in my mouth in sexual situations because it feels all very dominant and I feel submissive.
But I’d be grossed out by spit in any other contest that isn’t sensual or sexual involved. Go figure that one out
Can spitting be used sensually though
When you heavily kiss there’s swap of saliva. So yeah…
Got you…..I was more focused on the act of spitting and not the transfer of it naturally…that’s my bad Kylie
Well that’s the sensual part of it. As there can be a lot of heavy kissing with a lot of saliva involve
But I do admit when I’m feeling kinky I love when a hot guy spits in my mouth.
Which is “kinky”
Fully agree with you….sloppy kisses and a few spit shots are enjoyable in the moments of passion, kinkiness and naughtiness!!
You’re certainly no Angel haha
I’ve been told I look Innocent but my eyes tell otherwise x "
Well they didn’t lie did they
Certainly suckered me in for a perve of the profile   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand the mechanics of this activity but i do not understand its purpose. Just why?
Is it visually pleasurable?
Does it feel nice?
Is it a thing you do in trust n love?
Is it porns fault?
What are the risks involved?
I personally am grossed out by it (disclaimer: thats my own personal opinion and cast no judgement upon those who enjoy this activity) "
I never force this or expect it. I do fuck lots of tgirls and it's always a very pleasant bonus once I've cum in an arsehole and pulled out to find that the girl turns round of her own volition and takes my cock still covered in cum juice and sucks it clean. I don't query it.. I just enjoy it. Not yet had a woman do it to me. |
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As someone said before... It's more the Dom sub game... I had 2 subs doing it in the past we both enjoyed from the situation by itself and or course this was agreed from both sides.
If there is hygiene shouldn't be too different from rimming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually had a professional look in my rectum passage and he said it was spotless and very clean compared to the average UK household so I have no problem sucking a sausage that has been lost in my very dark tight hole. |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
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"Personally... I think it is just a way to invoke "control" or dominance ... I can't personally see any pleasurable advantage to it"
I’d agree with this, it’s just degrading and I don’t see the appeal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done it with people, 1 just got on with and another wanted to try it. It was oo, the only pleasure from it was the knowing what had just happened.. and the 'taboo' around it"
Deffo the taboo element
If you like it great, if not dont do it
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Porn's fault.
And they eat a light diet and douche before the scene not after a few pints and a kebab after a night out.
I don't see the appeal apart from thinking, my word, you are one kinky filthbag, in a good way. |
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"I understand the mechanics of this activity but i do not understand its purpose. Just why?
Is it visually pleasurable?
Does it feel nice?
Is it a thing you do in trust n love?
Is it porns fault?
What are the risks involved?
I personally am grossed out by it (disclaimer: thats my own personal opinion and cast no judgement upon those who enjoy this activity) "
Be like licking a half melted Magnum... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal with a condom is a must ,prefere vaginally sex though every now and then we will go wild ,but Mrs preferes a butt plug while I fuck her as she loves sucking me off vagina to mouth I wouldn't dram of ATM though does nothing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've done it in the heat of the moment too and there was no focus on it being that. She had just had a huge anal orgasm and went straight down on me. I do remember thinking WTF stop doing that as it's just been up your arse but that subsided very quickly when I couldn't contain my pleasure. --- We were both very d*unk at the time.
I suppose the difference is wether it's a kink that you absolutely have to do and focus on or just a sequence thing that occurs |
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