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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was recently catfished and I met the guy he was nothing like his photo at all
But I was too nice and slept with him either way I didnt want to but I also didn't want to hurt his feelings.
What do you do if you are in a similar situation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought of walking away then I thought of his feelings.
Hypothetically what if it was the other way around and he was hot but still catfished you would you be angry for the catfishing or just sleep with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought of walking away then I thought of his feelings.
Hypothetically what if it was the other way around and he was hot but still catfished you would you be angry for the catfishing or just sleep with him."
I’d still be angry.
And he clearly didn’t think about your feelings, did he?
I’ll always put my own feelings first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you verify him on here afterwards too ? "
Nope I did not verify him he would be reaching too much if he asked w to verify him cos I wouldn't want to take part in his lies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would I do?! Tell him go get to fuck and leave. Then report his profile when I left. No way would I sleep with him!"
Do you think I should report his profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would I do?! Tell him go get to fuck and leave. Then report his profile when I left. No way would I sleep with him!
Do you think I should report his profile?"
If he isn’t the guy in the photos, then yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought of walking away then I thought of his feelings.
Hypothetically what if it was the other way around and he was hot but still catfished you would you be angry for the catfishing or just sleep with him."
I'd like to think a hot person wouldn't be sad enough to need to catfish. I also think he didn't think twice about your feelings so why you should think about his is beyond me. Justified reason to walk away from the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought of walking away then I thought of his feelings.
Hypothetically what if it was the other way around and he was hot but still catfished you would you be angry for the catfishing or just sleep with him."
Still no.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You slept with someone who lied to you to save their feelings? 
I think if I read a forum thread about someone fucking me out of sympathy I'd be more upset than being rejected because I lied and they're not attracted to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You slept with someone who lied to you to save their feelings?
I think if I read a forum thread about someone fucking me out of sympathy I'd be more upset than being rejected because I lied and they're not attracted to me. "
Yeah true I probably didn't think about it like that. I was just curious if I am the only one and I had no malicious intent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would I do?! Tell him go get to fuck and leave. Then report his profile when I left. No way would I sleep with him!
Do you think I should report his profile?"
Bit pointless now you've fucked him |
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I get angry with people who deceive me and have no trust in them - I would then struggle to be intimate with them in any way. I'd make a point of expressing my disappointment in them and how they abused my trust. I would then end the interaction. I also view them getting the payoff that they wanted - ie sex after deceit - as reinforcing their awful behaviour. As such, they will be likely to continue to repeat it and add problems for other person |
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"I get angry with people who deceive me and have no trust in them - I would then struggle to be intimate with them in any way. I'd make a point of expressing my disappointment in them and how they abused my trust. I would then end the interaction. I also view them getting the payoff that they wanted - ie sex after deceit - as reinforcing their awful behaviour. As such, they will be likely to continue to repeat it and add problems for other person "
indeed his ego has been nourished so he will go on to abuse again cos it's working for him isn't it
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
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How badly catfished... I mean, if they were literally using someone else's photos then I would 100% walk and be rude with it too!
But I also know that a bit of good lighting and my makeup makes me look like an entirely different person   so if it was just a case of the photos looked better but were infact him then I would have either politely declined or gone ahead with it (depending on how attractive he still was) |
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"This is why you should allways arrange to meet for no more than a coffee social at first. "
I have noticed that most coffee social verifs are not followed up with a play verif later on , I wonder if catfishing is more prevalent than one thinks ?
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
"I get angry with people who deceive me and have no trust in them - I would then struggle to be intimate with them in any way. I'd make a point of expressing my disappointment in them and how they abused my trust. I would then end the interaction. I also view them getting the payoff that they wanted - ie sex after deceit - as reinforcing their awful behaviour. As such, they will be likely to continue to repeat it and add problems for other person indeed his ego has been nourished so he will go on to abuse again cos it's working for him isn't it "
This |
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