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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Relative A is invited to a wedding with a plus one
Relative B is not invited
Relative A brings Relative B as their plus one.
Rude or perfectly acceptable?"
Perfectly acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say acceptable unless there is good reason that relative B shouldn’t be there eg a feud or maybe they have upset you in some way.
If relative A knows that it would be unacceptable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the relative has not been invited due to venue size, perfect solution!
If it's because there is bad blood, highly innapropriate.
I would definitely run it by the bride and groom first discreetly, it is their day after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's out of order, I know it would make me feel like I was pushed into a reaction. Say for example I didn't invite relative b because I didn't like them but I didn't want to disclose why, then when relative a says they are bringing them anyway it either forces you to a) have someone you don't want there b) have the confrontation or have to give explanation for reason for not inviting, which you shouldn't have to do as you can invite and not invite who ever you like to your wedding.
Rant over... sorry that made me blow my top, hate underhand, sneaky relatives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say it depends on why B wasn't invited. If B is uninvited for good reason then I think it's wrong to bring them along. Otherwise I don't see the problem. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"If the relative has not been invited due to venue size, perfect solution!
If it's because there is bad blood, highly innapropriate.
I would definitely run it by the bride and groom first discreetly, it is their day after all."
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