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By *axo25 OP Man
over a year ago
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Sorry meant to say.... worst FAB meet.....
I’ll admit, I’ve been rather lucky so far. All have been very similar to their pics and very friendly. But I’m sure some of you lot have had some eye openers!
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Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.   |
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By *axo25 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency. "
Ouch...... |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......"
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well.  |
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By *axo25 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well. "
Well you can’t win them all I suppose. I had one from another site who was easily 15/20 years older than her photo’s. still stayed and had a coffee though, that’s just mean. |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well.
Well you can’t win them all I suppose. I had one from another site who was easily 15/20 years older than her photo’s. still stayed and had a coffee though, that’s just mean."
Yeah, exactly. Tho I suspect I dodged a bullet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chatted to a guy for quite a while, when we finally met he was 15-20yrs older than any pic or what his profile age claimed to be! Now I prefer to cam before a meet, no age preference but I’d rather not have any surprises
Another meet, again chatted for a while he continuously bragged about being a long stayer and also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a couple that looked nothing like their pics, some that were much shorter than they said they were but on the whole I've been quite lucky ...
Oh apart from the one who used a very realistic 9" dildo in his pics... we'd been chatting for a good few weeks and eventually i had a free afternoon so he came round, we went upstairs and were just kissing on the bed when he suddenly took fright, shot off the bed and legged it down the stairs and out the door! He messaged after and explained about the dildo and was obviously worried that i would be disappointed with what he had...i told him if he thought i was a size queen in the first place (I'm not) then he'd got the wrong person anyway!! |
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By *axo25 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Chatted to a guy for quite a while, when we finally met he was 15-20yrs older than any pic or what his profile age claimed to be! Now I prefer to cam before a meet, no age preference but I’d rather not have any surprises
Another meet, again chatted for a while he continuously bragged about being a long stayer and also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again "
Maybe you were just better than he was used too....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatted to a guy for quite a while, when we finally met he was 15-20yrs older than any pic or what his profile age claimed to be! Now I prefer to cam before a meet, no age preference but I’d rather not have any surprises
Another meet, again chatted for a while he continuously bragged about being a long stayer and also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again
Maybe you were just better than he was used too.... "
Maybe or maybe he was just chatting sh!t
Either way he could have given me a little warning  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I've been fortunate to have never had a bad meet thus far. Most have been great, some exceptional. I think I can read people pretty well and my gut hasn't proven me wrong yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had the one who desperately needed alcohol... he proceeded to crack open a can 
Blood shot eyes and had that lager smell
The one who thought he was gods gift with the expensive car
Quite a few bad socials over the years 
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been fortunate to have never had a bad meet thus far. Most have been great, some exceptional. I think I can read people pretty well and my gut hasn't proven me wrong yet "
You actually have super powers on reading people. It amazes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is from another site. Arranged to meet a couple at theirs. Was met at the door by them both in their dressing gowns. He looked at her asked, “will he do?”
Then they both walked up stairs taking off their dressing gowns while he spouted various rules that included no kissing and no oral from her. Fortunately I was 23 at the time and could pretty much think myself hard, so did the deed as quickly as possible to make a swift exit and hopefully to never hear from them again.
That wasn’t the case, they said it was great and asked if I could do it again. They must have had some REALLY bad ones. Needless to say, I never returned their message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the one who desperately needed alcohol... he proceeded to crack open a can
Blood shot eyes and had that lager smell
The one who thought he was gods gift with the expensive car
Quite a few bad socials over the years
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I hate that lager aftershave |
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We were on another site years ago and thinking back only one meet from there was successful. We had guys arrange to meet then stop all contact, turn up years older, couples where it was obvious the one or the other wasn't feeling any attraction. The worst meet was so awful that 8 or 9 years later we're still not at the stage of being able to laugh about it. |
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"We were on another site years ago and thinking back only one meet from there was successful. We had guys arrange to meet then stop all contact, turn up years older, couples where it was obvious the one or the other wasn't feeling any attraction. The worst meet was so awful that 8 or 9 years later we're still not at the stage of being able to laugh about it."
why what happened?
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"We were on another site years ago and thinking back only one meet from there was successful. We had guys arrange to meet then stop all contact, turn up years older, couples where it was obvious the one or the other wasn't feeling any attraction. The worst meet was so awful that 8 or 9 years later we're still not at the stage of being able to laugh about it.why what happened? "
We've never said on the forum and never will |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well. "
Maybe walk backwards towards him next time
Only teasing it's his loss |
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Not from here but another site ,
Went to her place she had a female friend there ( for safety), we went upstairs nice underwear nice mum body soft music playing was in missionary position felt something touch my arse , her friend had come up and was taking pics “ close up “ , I asked her why then they confessed that the pics were to send to her hubby who had cheated on her, when I digested this revelation and realised the positive affect it had on me I suggested a few poses ( no face pics )I had a great time . Not sure if I would have gone through with it if I had known in advance .
Not a bad meet but a bit weird at the time ! It also opened my mind to meeting yummy mummies behind there other half’s back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were on another site years ago and thinking back only one meet from there was successful. We had guys arrange to meet then stop all contact, turn up years older, couples where it was obvious the one or the other wasn't feeling any attraction. The worst meet was so awful that 8 or 9 years later we're still not at the stage of being able to laugh about it.why what happened?
We've never said on the forum and never will"
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Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blah"
Well she was horny what did you expect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blah"
Are you being serious?? |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well.
Maybe walk backwards towards him next time
Only teasing it's his loss "
Oh I learnt my lesson for sure, I jump out from behind pillars like a ninja now |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......
I know, right!?
I'd worn my best bin bag as well.
Maybe walk backwards towards him next time
Only teasing it's his loss
Oh I learnt my lesson for sure, I jump out from behind pillars like a ninja now "
Love your soh shame I'm out of your age range or you could ninja me anytime lol |
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"Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blah
Are you being serious?? "
Stuff I've seen on here, I didn't bat an eye at this. I wouldn't do it either, but I totally believe it's happened. |
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"Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blahWell she was horny what did you expect "
So was I before the meet !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again "
We all say that, creates the illusion of a challenge, followed by "wow, you are the only woman who can do that to me". Then wipe our dicks on the curtains, and escape in the confusion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone once from anther app and I didn't realise her pics were edited.
She was lovely and we got on.. But she didn't look anything like her pictures. |
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" also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again
We all say that, creates the illusion of a challenge, followed by "wow, you are the only woman who can do that to me". Then wipe our dicks on the curtains, and escape in the confusion. "
Lol. Nah.
No woman can make me cum from a blowjob! No one's that good!
Bet I could. Don't fancy it, ta. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple when I lived down south. Arrived at theirs to find them both so d*unk they could barely talk. Oh and the male half had sh*t himself on the sofa. I walked in and walked out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" also claimed he had never cummed during a blow job........... well he cummed 3-4 mins into a blowjob then couldn’t get it up again
We all say that, creates the illusion of a challenge, followed by "wow, you are the only woman who can do that to me". Then wipe our dicks on the curtains, and escape in the confusion. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here "
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up. "
Are you both mentioned on this thread ?? |
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up. "
I tend to agree. While I've said some things here, I try not to discuss my meets in detail anyone would recognise.
(unless it's positive, and then only they'd know, most likely) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ?? "
Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
I tend to agree. While I've said some things here, I try not to discuss my meets in detail anyone would recognise.
(unless it's positive, and then only they'd know, most likely) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope "
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x"
I actually think (depending on what’s being disclosed ) that lessons can be learned by reading about others mishaps. It can also be amusing.
I don’t agree with naming or being really specific as it’s not good to intentionally hurt people. |
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I’m pleased to say my judgement has served me well and I’ve never had a bad meet yet. Having said that, even if I had I wouldn’t share it here. You just put it down to experience or incompatibility
Insinuations of people being a bad meet is an unfair representation to those that may follow and not have the same experience. It’s not fab etiquette either!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x
I actually think (depending on what’s being disclosed ) that lessons can be learned by reading about others mishaps. It can also be amusing.
I don’t agree with naming or being really specific as it’s not good to intentionally hurt people."
Exactly x |
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Mine was a few years back, we were chatting for ages and agreed to meet she arrived it was her first ever meet and she just changed her mind wouldn't say it's bad. Think sometimes this site isn't for everyone she left soon after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a bunch of awkward meets, but honestly? I've been sexually/physically assaulted 3 times on meets so for me they'd be the worst."
Oh wow. Sorry to hear that  . That’s awful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a bunch of awkward meets, but honestly? I've been sexually/physically assaulted 3 times on meets so for me they'd be the worst.
Oh wow. Sorry to hear that . That’s awful x"
There are some absolute cunts about. Thankfully in 12 years of swinging the good far outweighs the bad! |
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"I've had a bunch of awkward meets, but honestly? I've been sexually/physically assaulted 3 times on meets so for me they'd be the worst."
Omg , that's awful hope you are alright , hope the bastards are in nick |
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"I've had a bunch of awkward meets, but honestly? I've been sexually/physically assaulted 3 times on meets so for me they'd be the worst."
Crikey! I think I’d of stopped meeting after the first assault !
Sorry to hear that |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m pleased to say my judgement has served me well and I’ve never had a bad meet yet. Having said that, even if I had I wouldn’t share it here. You just put it down to experience or incompatibility
Insinuations of people being a bad meet is an unfair representation to those that may follow and not have the same experience. It’s not fab etiquette either!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a bunch of awkward meets, but honestly? I've been sexually/physically assaulted 3 times on meets so for me they'd be the worst.
Crikey! I think I’d of stopped meeting after the first assault !
Sorry to hear that"
I'm not about to let some cretin stop me from having fun.
Similar things have happened without fab. Assholes are everywhere unfortunately.
I've had far more fun than horror stories |
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Messages back and forth to a couple who were ideal. Him: over 6 feet, "vogue" style fashioned stubble, ripped gym fit. Her: stunning, stylish, gravity defying boobs and and arse that could crack a walnut.
Both early 40's. Perfect!!
Arrived on the evening at exactly the time we arranged and then.....
Hin: 5 feet summat. Balding and unshaven Beer belly, t shirt that didn't cover said beer belly and late 50's
HER!! Very thin, glasses, wearing an awkward see through dress and clearly not a day over SEVENTEEN years old shaking so badly with nerves her bones must have ached.
Purely to get her off the doorstep we had a coffee while we sized up the best way to report the whole thing to the necessary authorities.
That was the last time we decided social meet/play would ever happen in our home, it's strictly public social only now regardless of who it is. |
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Had the police round after they had left and willingly gave very in depth statements, got pretty much every detail available from him, where he lived, how long he'd been on time site, where he met her.
Description of them both.
She was seriously not into it and absolutely terrified.
We refuse now on any grounds to accommodate for the first meet and it's always only social in a public place |
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x"
I never said I was against the thread at all and never did the individual who’s comment followed mine.
I just choose to keep the details of any bad meets private. Just the same as I keep any details of a good meet private. As it is between me and that individual. What’s bad for me is not necessarily bad for another.
Having read the thread no one is naming names (and rightly so) but to describe some of these instances as “harmless fun” is just ridiculous as some have had some awful things happen to them |
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency.
Ouch......"
I was thinking this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not on here but another site.
Arranged to meet at a train station, I saw him approach, then saw him swiftly turn around.
I got a text a few mins later saying he couldn't make it due to a family emergency. "
Typical fab trait that, lol. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
A world all of his own |
I've never had a bad meet (they might have though lol) only two socials where afterwards they just went quiet. I fully appreciate that I'm not for everyone, that's absolutely cool but just have the balls to tell me that rather than making up a load of old flannel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met woman in the hotel pub restaurant who had brought her young kids.
She Wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room, I said no and she went crazy.
Then she wanted to bring them to the room and said they wouldn't mind being in the room.
I said no again and she flipped screaming and shouting that I was a time waster blah blah blah
Are you being serious?? "
This woman needs her kids taking into care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x
I never said I was against the thread at all and never did the individual who’s comment followed mine.
I just choose to keep the details of any bad meets private. Just the same as I keep any details of a good meet private. As it is between me and that individual. What’s bad for me is not necessarily bad for another.
Having read the thread no one is naming names (and rightly so) but to describe some of these instances as “harmless fun” is just ridiculous as some have had some awful things happen to them"
The thread is harmless fun, I never said some of the instances were! I think you took offence to my comment, sorry no offence was intended, like I already said I’m messing ..........
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x
I never said I was against the thread at all and never did the individual who’s comment followed mine.
I just choose to keep the details of any bad meets private. Just the same as I keep any details of a good meet private. As it is between me and that individual. What’s bad for me is not necessarily bad for another.
Having read the thread no one is naming names (and rightly so) but to describe some of these instances as “harmless fun” is just ridiculous as some have had some awful things happen to them
The thread is harmless fun, I never said some of the instances were! I think you took offence to my comment, sorry no offence was intended, like I already said I’m messing ..........
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A misunderstanding of a choice of words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad meets are lessons learnt, not something I’d share here
Exactly. Or even worse, making it obvious who it is. What’s for one person may not be for another. Reading through some threads lately makes me think some people need to grow the fuck up.
Are you both mentioned on this thread ??
Nope
I was messing, I don’t get why you’re so against the thread ? I’ve read the thread and can’t see anyone obviously pointing the finger or naming and shaming anyone, it’s just harmless fun x
I never said I was against the thread at all and never did the individual who’s comment followed mine.
I just choose to keep the details of any bad meets private. Just the same as I keep any details of a good meet private. As it is between me and that individual. What’s bad for me is not necessarily bad for another.
Having read the thread no one is naming names (and rightly so) but to describe some of these instances as “harmless fun” is just ridiculous as some have had some awful things happen to them
The thread is harmless fun, I never said some of the instances were! I think you took offence to my comment, sorry no offence was intended, like I already said I’m messing ..........
A misunderstanding of a choice of words "
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