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Can’t accom. Cant travel.
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know.
And to get to know them?"
It happens but in times when I knew our respective profiles matched, I courteously approached whoever it was. It has often led to dialogue and a meet organised.
Equally, it has met with a definite "No" but I've moved on and not taken it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have this for all kinds of reasons, some of which have already been said.
The other thing is some people make assumptions eg... Just because I can accommodate doesn't mean I definitely will and iv had people get funny with me when iv said no you can't come to my house right now! The responses were along the lines of "but you said you can accommodate". So I can see why people put these things on the profile.
Remember these things are often preferences and not always set in stone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know. "
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I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.
It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.
I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.
It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.
I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away. "
local really anonymity out the window then, all meets have to be planned and if the guy doesn't mind travelling to you I don't see the problem  |
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The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.
Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.
Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.
Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.
Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.
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I don’t think thats everyone. I wouldn’t get into a car with someone I didn’t know for starters. I find it scary that people would do that. |
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"The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.
Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.
Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.
I don’t think thats everyone. I wouldn’t get into a car with someone I didn’t know for starters. I find it scary that people would do that. "
I didnt say it was everyone but its a lot of people over the years of being on here, where that has been the case.
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"I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.
It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.
I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away. local really anonymity out the window then, all meets have to be planned and if the guy doesn't mind travelling to you I don't see the problem "
I'm not bothered about anominity, we are all here for the same reason and have had some good meets from guys in my home town. And because there's guys in my local area I don't need to look further afield. If the guy is willing to travel to someone that doesn't accommodate them then to me I've wasted their time.
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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We have can't accommodate because we have a child!! But we're happy to share hotel costs or meet at theirs if we know them.
But we do travel! Depends on location, etc.
Mostly round here the single guys can't accommodate because they're playing away and we choose not to play with those who are playing away!! |
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