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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it?
What does it involve?
You see people saying things like 'I like to be flirted with. It adds to the build up'
It always loses me a bit
I wouldn't even know where to start
I don't think I am a flirt
Not consciously anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.
I like the giddy feeling of chatting with someone I fancy boosts me and makes me all girly. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.
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Yep. I think they mean they want more than a how's the weather where you are conversation. You know when you like someone and you want to talk to them and get responses back? That sort of chat.
If you like someone you'll naturally flirt with them whether you realise it or not. I always think I'm not flirtatious in the slightest or if I am, I'm crap at it but apparently not so...
Don't overthink it and have fun with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.
Yep. I think they mean they want more than a how's the weather where you are conversation. You know when you like someone and you want to talk to them and get responses back? That sort of chat.
If you like someone you'll naturally flirt with them whether you realise it or not. I always think I'm not flirtatious in the slightest or if I am, I'm crap at it but apparently not so...
Don't overthink it and have fun with it. "
Me?
Not over-thinking?
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"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through. "
This for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1, I’m not conventionally attractive maybe a 6, Dark and Handsome but not tall.
2, Any manufactured dating scenarios just don’t work for me as they feel forced.
So with those notes out of the way on a holiday to California a few years ago after a bad breakup and illness, I simply didn’t care about pulling or flirting just having a good time.
Guess what? For an average lad I had stunning girls wanting to take me out for date nights and boy was it the best 2 weeks ever.
Just be yourself and don’t try too hard and change the frame you operate in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How do you use your body language to get someone you quite like to stay and chat to you rather than if you were trying to get out of a conversation. You can sort of tell how you use your body, ie eye contact for the one you like and shy smiling compared to preparing to walk away from the other and polite smiling. Thats basically flirting. (The first one)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't a bloody clue! If I like someone a grin like the village idiot when I'm with them. That is the extent of my skills. Oh, that and taking off all my clothes. That seems to be a good indicator that I fancy someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flirty banter is what it is..
You know, when you're messaging back and forth with someone you fancy and you know the feeling is mutual..and the responses just flow and it ferls good.. |
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"I never flirt.
*snort*
*Seconded snort*
You're here!
*whips clothes off*
Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.
Hey Nell.  "
That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"You're here!
*whips clothes off*
Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.
Hey Nell.
That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think? "
Squelching? Your incredibly sexual choice of language never fails to stimulate me in every imaginable way. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"You're here!
*whips clothes off*
Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.
Hey Nell.
That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think?
Squelching? Your incredibly sexual choice of language never fails to stimulate me in every imaginable way."
^^ this dear reader is *not* flirting. It’s shade.  |
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