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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think of it as well thought out, intelligent, imaginative, humourous and a bit different but i'll leave it for others to decide whether that's true or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try and keep it short but sweet. If I wrote paragraphs I'm not sure people would bother to stick around
As for pictures I just like to show my best parts |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I wrote it to convey What i'm like as a person, what I can offer and what i'm looking for without it being tedious or exhaustive.
In short, I aimed for a good read
As to my pics...feel free to browse and come to your own conclusions. I don't want to do what everyone else does |
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"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?
Reflection exercise I guess. " I’ve changed mine a few times now from being informative to being honest my pics are all body focused Rational being it’s a sex site so advertise my body and a bit of mind and attitude I think x |
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My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.
My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more. |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
Liphook |
"My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.
My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more. "
And you’ve done a spectacular job at that. |
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"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private."
You do it very well. We are similar with photos x |
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"My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.
My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more.
And you’ve done a spectacular job at that."
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple profile, pics of us both together. Profile text, location and verifications changed around depending on type of meet we want and who we want to attract.
This profile, I'm just happy if it makes someone smile. |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
Liphook |
"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private.
You do it very well. We are similar with photos x"
Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake! |
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We try to paint an honest picture of who we are, why we are here, and what people will get if they meet us. Then a reader is free to decide if that appeals and respond appropriately should they want to, in the knowledge of what's potentially on the table. We don't want anybody to feel misled.
For our photos, we try to be enticing and alluring to people who like our physical type, but we made a conscious decision to not to just lay it all out there. We have nudes of both of us though we never show the "money shot" and there is nothing explicit. We would rather people felt we are a present they want to unwrap but not feeling like they already know what they are getting for Christmas.
If we were going to update it, we might say something about how to approach us (we have had excellent and terrible initial messages), but we don't want to seem prescriptive or to give a template for somebody when we are not well-suited for each other. We might say something about what we don't want, but we are wary of being negative. What we may do is say more about how we like sex to be, because sexual compatibility is very important in this line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think my profile is honest about what I'm looking but I'm not sure what else it says about me or how it comes across to others. I get lots of messages saying people like it but I think that's probably a generic message most men send out.
My favourite pictures to take are usually just lingerie and dresses. I keep it pretty simple I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think I need to update more about my partner though since what we want involves the two of us. But as we aren't 100% committed to the idea yet I'm not too bothered. |
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"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private.
You do it very well. We are similar with photos x
Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!"
Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?
Reflection exercise I guess. "
I really like how your profile is written _naswingdress. I think it shows a lot of your personality and tells people about what kind of person you are.
I really don't like short profiles with nothing but hello I'm Bob looking for fun etc but each to their own. |
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"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?
Reflection exercise I guess. "
If I have changed in weight, hair colour and ink then I change pics as i dont like people going on old pics.
Profile if it needs changing |
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"Take a look!
Oh, I have...
Mrs TMN x
And ? What’s my style ?
You first! x
Very attractive. "
Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic |
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"I think my profile is honest about what I'm looking but I'm not sure what else it says about me or how it comes across to others. I get lots of messages saying people like it but I think that's probably a generic message most men send out.
My favourite pictures to take are usually just lingerie and dresses. I keep it pretty simple I suppose. "
I find your profile very attractive and genuine. You have a beautiful body - don't apologise for not being "perfect", there's no such thing! You are the perfect you.
Mrs TMN x |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
Liphook |
"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private.
You do it very well. We are similar with photos x
Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!
Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X"
Yeah, great profile. I don’t find it boring at all. Maybe a bit too much text for some, but I like it. And your photos are FAR from boring. |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
Liphook |
"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?
Reflection exercise I guess.
I really like how your profile is written _naswingdress. I think it shows a lot of your personality and tells people about what kind of person you are.
I really don't like short profiles with nothing but hello I'm Bob looking for fun etc but each to their own. "
Her profile has a voice, doesn’t it? Difficult to write.
Your profile is great too. Your humour and oddballness shines through. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"A “can’t be arsed” style springs to mind re mine."
Ditto. I *could* take and use better photos as a friend kindly points out to me often.
I *could* market myself really well but right now I have no need or desire to. People I like find me anyway. I'm probably going for the ironic millennial I don't care style of profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being vague. I dont like offering a menu of myself or what Im after which I know probably isn't terribly helpful.
Whimsical I guess, which will either be endearing or annoying in equal measures. I dont get many messages anymore |
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"My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.
My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more. "
Love your profile - it gives a really good sense of who you are and what you want. Love the teasing pics too x |
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"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private.
You do it very well. We are similar with photos x
Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!
Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X
Yeah, great profile. I don’t find it boring at all. Maybe a bit too much text for some, but I like it. And your photos are FAR from boring."
Thank you. We've talked about cutting it down but prefer to have our cards on the table from the start, rather than chatting to people then finding out we're not after the same things. If folk can't read the whole thing - they're probably not for us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine reflects my forthright non pc nature. I make no apologies for what some have termed my 'racist exclusion' of one particular ethnic group.
My photos are risque and deemed offensive by some, but this is serious business and my profile is a statement to how important sleeping with as many women as possible is to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take a look!
Oh, I have...
Mrs TMN x
And ? What’s my style ?
You first! x
Very attractive.
Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic "
Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?
Reflection exercise I guess. "
I try to come across as a wicked gentleman in my profile text. At the moment as I am feeling filthy I I’m showing everything. I guess my profile changes with my mood |
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"Take a look!
Oh, I have...
Mrs TMN x
And ? What’s my style ?
You first! x
Very attractive.
Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic
Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer"
Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself " do you throw the snails over neighbours fence? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself do you throw the snails over neighbours fence? "
Why do you talk nonsense??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself do you throw the snails over neighbours fence?
Why do you talk nonsense??? " yeah thats my job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope that is portrays friendliness and that I like my privacy and that I don’t like rude and crude.
Judging by my messages, it works
Thanks Taff x " my pleasure lovely lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself do you throw the snails over neighbours fence?
Why do you talk nonsense??? yeah thats my job "
And squatting to take a dump by the look of things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.
Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself do you throw the snails over neighbours fence?
Why do you talk nonsense??? yeah thats my job
And squatting to take a dump by the look of things " no no no its my flasher pose in the garden |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
My profile text has barely changed (odd tweak aside) since I first wrote it and has served me well - think it pretty much sums me up in as small a nutshell as I could manage, and covers both who I am and what I am looking for in a pretty non-generic way.
I add pics from time to time when I get inspiration and looking through them they mostly follow a few set themes. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Classy pics..
Well apart from the last one
Highbrow humour i guess is the writing style..
Tbh no fecker evet reads it so might as well leave it blank
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Oh I don't know I saw the last one and said "oooh that's class"
Actually all joking aside, it's a little "out there" for you but I still think it's a good picture that isn't too dissimilar in style from your others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friendly and approachable, yet managing to get over a message about what I'm not after
I get very few messages, so either I'm a munter or those I seek are looking for different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Classy pics..
Well apart from the last one
Highbrow humour i guess is the writing style..
Tbh no fecker evet reads it so might as well leave it blank
Oh I don't know I saw the last one and said "oooh that's class"
Actually all joking aside, it's a little "out there" for you but I still think it's a good picture that isn't too dissimilar in style from your others"
It's not too 'in your face' for the subject matter... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine used to be all sweetness and loveliness. It’s gradually got more specific and to the point over time, in fact I probably sound like a right bitch but I’m actually not. It’s probably cut down the messages a little but still half the people obviously don’t bother reading it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take a look!
Oh, I have...
Mrs TMN x
And ? What’s my style ?
You first! x
Very attractive.
Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic
Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer
Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt?"
There are both in your pictures and words many items which would wet anybody’s appetite. Sexy and confident, you two seem to know what you do and what you want. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Ours hasn’t changed in ages and probably could do with some tweaks here and there. As far as pics go, I just mess around change them about as I fancy for no particular reason. Depends on my mood.
It probably says minge unhinged in that case
Lex |
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"Take a look!
Oh, I have...
Mrs TMN x
And ? What’s my style ?
You first! x
Very attractive.
Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic
Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer
Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt?
There are both in your pictures and words many items which would wet anybody’s appetite. Sexy and confident, you two seem to know what you do and what you want."
Guilt assuaged Thanks, that's what we were aiming for! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of the text, I'm looking to meet people I can engage with mentally as well as bodily, so I want to give a sense of how I think as well as what I like sexually. Ultimately a lot of people probably just look at pictures and don't read text, so anyone who is prepared to read all my profile deserves at least a response
In terms of photographs...I'm not naturally photogenic and I'm rubbish at finding flattering angles so I have some to give an idea of what I'm like, but really I'm hoping people find a mental connection which they find attractive. |
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