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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams

A proper vanilla 'just going out for a coffee' date.

By a woman.

Not a fab meet, or a social.

And it got me thinking......when was the last time that happened?

And the sad truth is I reckon it was over 10 years ago. I've been in a few relationships since then of course, and been on loads of dates - but I've always been the one doing the asking.

So at the risk of inviting a load of sarky comments (hi suz!) - guys do you often get asked out on vanilla dates by women?? How long since the last time?

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

And are you going to go?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I cant remember the last time that happened to me i just know it was many years ago

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman  over a year ago

Hull

Just thought I'd get in there but on "vanilla" dating sites... I do ask the men if they actually want to meet for a coffee or a date...and on here I will message men too. Just not many want to date on here!!

So there

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"A proper vanilla 'just going out for a coffee' date.

By a woman.

Not a fab meet, or a social.

And it got me thinking......when was the last time that happened?

And the sad truth is I reckon it was over 10 years ago. I've been in a few relationships since then of course, and been on loads of dates - but I've always been the one doing the asking.

So at the risk of inviting a load of sarky comments (hi suz!) - guys do you often get asked out on vanilla dates by women?? How long since the last time?"

10 years you say? I would of said more......

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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams

This was a client at work not through here.

And yes I said yes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I asked someone today

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This was a client at work not through here.

And yes I said yes. "

have a great time x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman  over a year ago

Hull

Hope it goes well x

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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams


"

So at the risk of inviting a load of sarky comments (hi suz!)

10 years you say? I would of said more...... "

Was expecting sarkier!

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38

I recently asked a guy out...not from here. We've been out 4 times and speak often.

I have gotten used to being so upfront on here with meets that it's feels kinda 'strange'to take a step back and be 'normal'. And I'm not sure that I now know how.

Good luck on your date...I hope you go and have just a good time.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Oh how lovely Op! I hope it goes well for you if you decide to go on it.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"

So at the risk of inviting a load of sarky comments (hi suz!)

10 years you say? I would of said more......

Was expecting sarkier! "

Tbh Chez I'm chuffed for you....really, I hope you have a good time to.....see I can be nice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I asked someone today "

If its who I think it's with, strangely they haven't told me about it!

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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams

I think you are finally mellowing to me suz. Only taken 6 months...

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"I think you are finally mellowing to me suz. Only taken 6 months..."

That is the required time yes....

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By *andomfodCouple  over a year ago

walsall

My last time (B) was about 7 years back. We'd been chatting through a dating site for a few hours and she asked me out for a drink. I had to get home sharpish from football and scrub up lol.

She said a year or so later it was a test to check I wasn't wasted her time lol.

With N I had to be the one doing the asking.

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Aww!! Hope it goes well!!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"Aww!! Hope it goes well!!

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Don't encourage him.......I'm not having sloppy seconds!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

My wife wouldn't like it.

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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams


"Aww!! Hope it goes well!!

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Don't encourage him.......I'm not having sloppy seconds! "

Says the woman who likes to watch bi guys.....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"Aww!! Hope it goes well!!

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Don't encourage him.......I'm not having sloppy seconds!

Says the woman who likes to watch bi guys....."

And this is why I hate you....

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By *hesterXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

in your dreams

I hope not. Because you know I like you.

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"I asked someone today "

Cool! What did he/she say?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I asked someone today

Cool! What did he/she say? "

Was my best friend for coffee and cake. Not a date as in that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I asked someone today

If its who I think it's with, strangely they haven't told me about it! "

Wasnt aware you knew my best friend?

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Aww!! Hope it goes well!!

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Don't encourage him.......I'm not having sloppy seconds! "

My bad...

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