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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have been speaking to someone on fab over the last 18 months. I would consider him a close friend. we have cammed and speak for hours most nights.
He wants us to finally meet after asking me for ages, but I have been nervous because like with most friendships either online or not, sex spoils it.
The thing I find daunting as well as the friendship thing is the fact he is a beautiful young man lol. Like one of those gym, love island guys and I am just a mum who forgot where the gym is and I like pizza too much lol. But I am confident on meets (Can be chicken before but am ok while meeting) and I'm not gonna let it put me off from meeting him  feeling lucky actually!
Just wanted to be real and know what to expect and hear people's success and not so successful stories about if this has happened to you and how it went. How's your friendship now?
Thanks
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I think if you're meeting up to socialise and bring your online friendship to real life then it will be absolutely fine and wonderful. I do think if you add sex into the mix, it could change things a little. But it doesn't mean bad change, it could enhance and make your friendship even better.
Good luck. I've seen your photos and I think you're gorgeous! He's lucky you'll be even better in the flesh ^ . ^ |
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Your a splendid lovely lady Lucy and a good chum too. I am sure he will be captivated with your company .
It will be fine , we all get nervous when we meet people we like |
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If you've cammed he knows what you look like. Don't worry.
One man I met online- utter disaster. Still causing me issues now years later. Lesson learned, trust my gut.
Another man I met online- a fabulous friend who can ground me in just a few words. Bussy is awesome. 
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I think if he cares about your friendship as much as you do, it will be fine. Relax and enjoy whatever happens. Keep talking openly with each other and you’ll continue to have a fabulous friendship with benefits or not. |
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You've been talking for a year, he knows exactly what you look like.
He obviously likes you, for being you.
Go for it!
From my own experience.
I chatted with someone for a year before our diaries aligned & we arranged to meet.
I was attracted to him mentally, intellectually, I knew I found him physically attractive.
But I had no idea how I & of course he, would really feel until we actually met.
Was I nervous before? Think terrified was a better word!
I nearhy backed out, I got myself so wound up. Even on the train there, I was thinking "What if he hates he" "oh, just get on the next train back"
I didn't.
And I'm bloody glad I didn't.
I had an amazing evening, and 15mths later, he's still one of my best friends.
If you don't try OP, you'll always be left wondering
Go on.... Do it xxx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your a splendid lovely lady Lucy and a good chum too. I am sure he will be captivated with your company .
It will be fine , we all get nervous when we meet people we like "
Thanks Taff  I hope he is! big cwtches! Xxx |
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"If you've cammed he knows what you look like. Don't worry.
One man I met online- utter disaster. Still causing me issues now years later. Lesson learned, trust my gut.
Another man I met online- a fabulous friend who can ground me in just a few words. Bussy is awesome.
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Yay! A success story thats lovely xxx |
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"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink. "
Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles  |
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"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.
Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles "
And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory. |
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"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.
Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles
And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory. "
Ok I googled it and I'm fucking baffled  |
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"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.
Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles
And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory.
Ok I googled it and I'm fucking baffled "
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