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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’ve been getting a lot of abusive messages recently when rejecting someone, how do you all cope with it? I block but I can’t help feeling angry and pissed off

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I stopped sending polite rejections, and now get no more abusive replies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Block them after sending your rejection.

Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Block them after sending your rejection.

Problem solved"

Yes this is what I do now too, had several abusive replies lately on my single profile.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

From a single guys perspective? If you aren’t interested, then block the guy (that way he knows) and then delete the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I think that’s what I’m going to have to do, I try and be polite about my rejection but that doesn’t help

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By *irkydirkyMan  over a year ago

Stevenage


"I’ve been getting a lot of abusive messages recently when rejecting someone, how do you all cope with it? I block but I can’t help feeling angry and pissed off "

Agree with pocket rocket, if you prefer to send a polite rejection just block straight after..

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By *oby le roneMan  over a year ago

Treorchy


"From a single guys perspective? If you aren’t interested, then block the guy (that way he knows) and then delete the message.

"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's just text. Cast to oblivion.

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I think that’s what I’m going to have to do, I try and be polite about my rejection but that doesn’t help "

Delete and block.

Job done.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton


"I think that’s what I’m going to have to do, I try and be polite about my rejection but that doesn’t help "

If you really want to be proactive: Block all single guys and send the first message out yourself to people you are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve been getting a lot of abusive messages recently when rejecting someone, how do you all cope with it? I block but I can’t help feeling angry and pissed off "

I get this everyday, and sometime I get it just randomly, it’s sad that adults can be like this, sad society we live in

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By *W_RedMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Find it odd that people can't deal with rejection and turn into keyboard warriors all of a sudden. Probably after sending an initial message that makes them out to be a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Feel sorry for them, rather than being angry, they obviously have issues and deserve sympathy. Also, your anger only hurts you.

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Report , Delete, block move on..

only had one abusive message the lady sits at the top of my block list.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Report abusive messages, admin will always deal with it. Then block the user

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By *musedforlifeMan  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I sent a message and received a polite decline, I wouldn't see the point in being abusive. It achieves nothing, just accept the other persons decision and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Report and block...

If you're not interested don't even bother replying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has anyone mentioned block and delete yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I sent a message and received a polite decline, I wouldn't see the point in being abusive. It achieves nothing, just accept the other persons decision and move on."

That really isn’t how a huge majority of people’s brains work, though, on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't reject anyone, I just delete their messages if I'm not interested. Been on here 18 months, it works for me, never had an abusive message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I sent a message and received a polite decline, I wouldn't see the point in being abusive. It achieves nothing, just accept the other persons decision and move on.

That really isn’t how a huge majority of people’s brains work, though, on here "

Did you mean don't work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't reject anyone, I just delete their messages if I'm not interested. Been on here 18 months, it works for me, never had an abusive message "

I do the same x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I sent a message and received a polite decline, I wouldn't see the point in being abusive. It achieves nothing, just accept the other persons decision and move on.

That really isn’t how a huge majority of people’s brains work, though, on here

Did you mean don't work "

Eh?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't even bother responding. I dont anymore, an awful lot less abuse now. Remember faq section states no reply means no interest. It's not rude despite what the entitled people on here say. Always report abuse and block the sender.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I sent a message and received a polite decline, I wouldn't see the point in being abusive. It achieves nothing, just accept the other persons decision and move on.

That really isn’t how a huge majority of people’s brains work, though, on here

Did you mean don't work

Eh?"

My bad misread the first comment

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