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over a year ago
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I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.
I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.
I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives. "
Ooh good call. I'm doing that too!
Or if I could be greedy and have a whole summer, can I go back to 2005 and just relive that?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.
I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives.
Ooh good call. I'm doing that too!
Or if I could be greedy and have a whole summer, can I go back to 2005 and just relive that?!"
Oh go on then, cause I like yah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.
I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives. "
id pick our wedding day aswell. wouldnt have most of my family there for a start  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.
I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives.
id pick our wedding day aswell. wouldnt have most of my family there for a start "
You got that right buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it would of been the final day I saw the girlfriend, instead of going home early to get ready for work the next day I should of stayed at hers and kept her company. Could of still been with her maybe. |
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By *xxxMan
over a year ago
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When I was young (many moons ago) I was staying at a hotel for my first conference I was attending for work by myself. I was in the hotel for five days and you get to recognise other conference goers and people visiting the hotel for use of the spa etc. On my last night I was in the lift on the way up to my room and a couple whom I'd spotted were friendly and not shy with each other also entered the lift. As soon as the door closed they were kissing and fondling each other. I didn't know what to do and an embarrassed late teenager just watched in the mirrored walls before exiting the lift in my floor.
I've often wondered what if? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited."
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently  |
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently "
I’d still include the nap though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over. |
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently
I’d still include the nap though "
. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that |
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"The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over. "
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently
I’d still include the nap though
. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that"
I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much |
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently
I’d still include the nap though
. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that
I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much"
That's basically shame. The pressure to do things everyone else's way is immense. It was even worse 32 years ago. Our mum's wanted all sorts of people involved. We made some unpopular choices but have never regretted them. My only genuine regret is not arranging to gallop away from the ceremony on matching jet black horses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently
I’d still include the nap though
. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that
I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much
That's basically shame. The pressure to do things everyone else's way is immense. It was even worse 32 years ago. Our mum's wanted all sorts of people involved. We made some unpopular choices but have never regretted them. My only genuine regret is not arranging to gallop away from the ceremony on matching jet black horses."
I wanted owls to deliver our rings and we didn’t do it. Biggest regret 
And that was the same for us. His family wanted everyone invited, he had so many people from his family there that neither of us wanted there. We had his brother an usher because I thought it would help ‘heal the rift’ (beyond repair, even by this point!) and it just made everything worse. I remember his brother changed out of his kilt into normal clothing and I was fuming - his dad turned to me and said ‘oh shut up and sit down. it’s not all about you’
Ermmmm. Yes it is hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over. "
Aw I'd give up my day for you to have that. Xxx |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Do your wedding again the way you want it. I did 25 yrs later. I hated my wedding, it was everything I didn’t want it to be. I don’t like being centre of attention. So when we renewed our vows we walked to the top of a mountain with the 2 kids and my sons girlfriend. Met a celebrant at the top and had a handfasting ceremony with our own vows and the kids readings by the side of a tarn on a beautiful sunny morning with no one else around. It was perfect.
As an aside, I vowed to occasionally hoot like an owl in bed and we did come down the mountain and see loads of owls and get photographs with them. So owls are optional extras  |
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"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.
I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.
I’d do everything so differently
I’d still include the nap though
. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that
I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much
That's basically shame. The pressure to do things everyone else's way is immense. It was even worse 32 years ago. Our mum's wanted all sorts of people involved. We made some unpopular choices but have never regretted them. My only genuine regret is not arranging to gallop away from the ceremony on matching jet black horses.
I wanted owls to deliver our rings and we didn’t do it. Biggest regret
And that was the same for us. His family wanted everyone invited, he had so many people from his family there that neither of us wanted there. We had his brother an usher because I thought it would help ‘heal the rift’ (beyond repair, even by this point!) and it just made everything worse. I remember his brother changed out of his kilt into normal clothing and I was fuming - his dad turned to me and said ‘oh shut up and sit down. it’s not all about you’
Ermmmm. Yes it is hun x"
Oh dear. Weddings and funerals bring out the worst in families |
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"If you could redo one day of your life, which would it be? What would you change?
Or would you just like to experience it again?"
Our wedding day it was perfect, but I'd love to do it all again.
Jo.Xx |
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"The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over. "
Big hugs xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could redo one day of your life, which would it be? What would you change?
Or would you just like to experience it again?"
I wouldn't have got married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd go back to the day before Mom died and I'd of walked out of work instead of staying till the end of my shift. At least then I'd of spoken to her before she slipped into her coma  |
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I was going to say that I’d go back to a few years before dad died of prostate cancer and tell him to get checked out! That way they may have caught it in time and I’d still have my lovely Dad!
However - though he died as soon as he retired - he still spent over 45 years with the love of his life - my mum - so I’d give my day to Rubi to give her an extra day with her baby - because losing a child must be the hardest of all pains to bear - and my biggest wish is that I never find out what that’s like!
Huge hugs to Rubi and anyone else who’s lost a child! I salute you for having the courage to get out of bed each day! Xxx |
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