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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I put on a recent thread similar to this one,
You wouldn't expect to get a job without a decent CV.
Here is the same.
In a similar fashion your email to them should be tailored to what they are looking for.
If they're looking for a draftsman, don't tell them you are a quantity surveyor.
Do your homework, things will improve. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I put on a recent thread similar to this one,
You wouldn't expect to get a job without a decent CV.
Here is the same.
In a similar fashion your email to them should be tailored to what they are looking for.
If they're looking for a draftsman, don't tell them you are a quantity surveyor.
Do your homework, things will improve."
I do try tailoring my messages. Just gotta keep on keeping on as they say lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I put on a recent thread similar to this one,
You wouldn't expect to get a job without a decent CV.
Here is the same.
In a similar fashion your email to them should be tailored to what they are looking for.
If they're looking for a draftsman, don't tell them you are a quantity surveyor.
Do your homework, things will improve.
I do try tailoring my messages. Just gotta keep on keeping on as they say lol"
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One way to get some specific advice would be to head over to the Swinging Support forum section and ask for advice about your profile. Much profile advice is the same so you could just look through the numerous threads by people asking the same thing.
You should always ask yourself how your profile presents you and why somebody would want to talk to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've been here 2 weeks OP, you've got a veri, and you're whinging already. Not bad going  "
Fair point. And I suppose being over eager isn't exactly a sexy quality lol |
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Where are you going wrong.... Posting where am I going wrong threads in the forums... Is 1 for starters...
Learn to persevere... As in life things don't happen instantly just because you want them to.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 weeks....some have been here 2 years and not had a meet!!"
I was just about to say something like that. Online dating as always been a fucking waste of time for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where are you going wrong.... Posting where am I going wrong threads in the forums... Is 1 for starters...
Learn to persevere... As in life things don't happen instantly just because you want them to.. "
On reflection I shouldn't have posted this. That being said I've learned a thing or two. |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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Just keep going op...
Be polite and just keep plodding away...
Its a womens world on fab...
They get bombarded by single males and cock pics..so alot block us..
The dickheads spoil it for the rest..
But keep going..as been said 2weeks in fab land is like an hr in real life..lol
Good luck fella..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you Genuine 
How do you mean genuine. I'm real if that's what you're asking lol
That’s what I get asked all the time
Sarcasm "
I've not had that one yet lol. Mostly blanked |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"Just keep going op...
Be polite and just keep plodding away...
Its a womens world on fab...
They get bombarded by single males and cock pics..so alot block us..
The dickheads spoil it for the rest..
But keep going..as been said 2weeks in fab land is like an hr in real life..lol
Good luck fella.. "
Exactly this!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just keep going op...
Be polite and just keep plodding away...
Its a womens world on fab...
They get bombarded by single males and cock pics..so alot block us..
The dickheads spoil it for the rest..
But keep going..as been said 2weeks in fab land is like an hr in real life..lol
Good luck fella..
Exactly this!!!
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Yeah I've never got why blokes send dick pics at the beginning of a conversation. Although I have pics on my profile I don't think it's the most attractive thing about me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys. I'm really struggling to get anywhere on here. Can't seem to get any conversations going let alone a meet. Any advice fabbers? xx"
My advice is to tailor your message to each person individually. Read the profile and status updates, if any.
I am far far more likely to respond to someone who had clearly taken the time to read my profile (when I was looking). I even used a filter method. Guy had to send a message using the word given in my profile else I would delete instantly.
Also messages saying love your pics when they are set to friends only..shows you are sending a standard message.
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Your profile is your market stall, where need to set out your wares enticingly.
Saying "ask me anything" is like having an empty stall and expecting passers by to stop and ask what you're selling.
Unlikely to happen, is it, particularly if Steve on the stall next door has a particularly eye catching display...
Good luck and happy fabbing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys. I'm really struggling to get anywhere on here. Can't seem to get any conversations going let alone a meet. Any advice fabbers? xx"
You are still a newbie OP, so I will take a little time getting yourself established. I recommend keeping your cock pictures private for now, and maybe putting some smart suit pictures on your profile. More detail in your profile text too, wants, desires etc.....
Also keep on joking in on the forums |
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Hi OP, been here a little while and tried different things, the ratio seems to be approximately 100 men to 1 woman.
My advice or what has worked for me ( well worked ish ) is let them massage you as at least you know they are into to you other wise your just fishing, you can then decide who you want to go further with and who you don’t.
Just my advice and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi OP, been here a little while and tried different things, the ratio seems to be approximately 100 men to 1 woman.
My advice or what has worked for me ( well worked ish ) is let them massage you as at least you know they are into to you other wise your just fishing, you can then decide who you want to go further with and who you don’t.
Just my advice and good luck"
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