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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
This is going to sound smug or something like it - but honestly I don't think there's anything - the site works for me as it is, has surpassed any expectations I had when I joined, has meant I have got to know some lovely people, some of which I am proud to call friends and so very much more. |
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Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People read profiles. I didn’t know quite how bad it was, my old single profile didn't really have any specific "looking for" but I'm shocked by how many messages we're getting from straight men despite our profile stating we only want to meet bi guys.
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"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. "
You mean this isn't Dial-a-Shag??
Goddammit... why weren't we told??? |
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"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent.
You mean this isn't Dial-a-Shag??
Goddammit... why weren't we told???"
Must have missed that part of the contract. |
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"This is going to sound smug or something like it - but honestly I don't think there's anything - the site works for me as it is, has surpassed any expectations I had when I joined, has meant I have got to know some lovely people, some of which I am proud to call friends and so very much more."
I’d have to agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas 
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse "
Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get |
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse "
Babe I gotta smash ya back door in. (phone number)
(types of messages I get in my inbox which make me feel sick/are sometimes illegal and it's bad enough that I have to see it) |
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse
Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get "
Don't make me imagine that
I'd need a mile of mental floss to get rid of the idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse
Babe I gotta smash ya back door in. (phone number)
(types of messages I get in my inbox which make me feel sick/are sometimes illegal and it's bad enough that I have to see it) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse
Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get
Don't make me imagine that
I'd need a mile of mental floss to get rid of the idea"
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
Those last two are awful ideas
Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse
Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get "
Cum shot to Chariots of Fire
In a swing dress in a swing dress mmmm *groan* |
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"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.
By the gods, no. Can you imagine the comments from entitled, angry men? "
Guy loves all my pictures.
Stupid message. I delete.
Guy un-loves all my pictures and adds a negative reaction.
It already happens with Fabbing  |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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If I could press a button on people’s profile to:
a) instantly materialise them in my bedroom consenting to anything I choose, thinking I’m the most delicious sexual being they’ve ever set eyes on
b) instantly cause them wherever they are to continuously fall over for ten minutes, or shake vigorously and throw their hands in the air and shout ‘hallelujah’, or ‘I’m a feminist’, or have their clothes disappear and them sing Agadoo
That just might improve things for me.  |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
Liphook |
Guess I was thinking of FL site and I quite like some of the features there. But perhaps the crowd is better behaved there. Or maybe people behave a bit better if things are more public and not just pm. You make good points though.
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"If I could press a button on people’s profile to:
a) instantly materialise them in my bedroom consenting to anything I choose, thinking I’m the most delicious sexual being they’ve ever set eyes on
b) instantly cause them wherever they are to continuously fall over for ten minutes, or shake vigorously and throw their hands in the air and shout ‘hallelujah’, or ‘I’m a feminist’, or have their clothes disappear and them sing Agadoo
That just might improve things for me. "
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"Guess I was thinking of FL site and I quite like some of the features there. But perhaps the crowd is better behaved there. Or maybe people behave a bit better if things are more public and not just pm. You make good points though.
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It wouldn't work here unfortunately. There is not enough bleach or fire to cleanse that. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"Being able to take a photo of myself for my profile that I don't hate.
Nine people seem to like your body according to your verifications  "
Thanks It's not the body that I hate, just the photos. I must have bought the camera with a built-in serial killer filter.
Another site added the ability to post photos in chat. Including private chats. That are by default enabled from everyone. You can guess what happened.
Comments on photos might work if they're done like verifications - the photo-owner chooses which ones to publish.
I often see a status that I like, and would like to interact with in some way. But sending mail feels far too intrusive. Being able to like a status would be nice. Facebook-style comments would be good too, if it could be done in a way that doesn't invite abuse. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd really like a button that you can choose to pick up and you click it to say "yes, I want to fuck this person."
Obviously I *could* ask but reading things in connection to me is complicated so a simple yes/no button will a) sate my wondering and b) save me the potential embarrassment of asking.
Other than that my fab life is great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a lot really. Except perhaps being able to know if someone has quoted one of your posts on the forum.
I would love some of the cretinous behaviour to stop but even contemplating the possibility is why I llive in Cloud Cuckoo Land.
I like the site’s simplicity even if it is a bit antiquated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. "
Just don't take too long over giving that consent, we haven't got all day! Well maybe you can have a day and a half! |
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"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. Just don't take too long over giving that consent, we haven't got all day! Well maybe you can have a day and a half! "
Ha. My no usually happens pretty quickly. |
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If you could put a filter on that you could only see women who will fuck now, accomadation/pay the full hotel bill, give one way gratification and provide a light snack? That would be great thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you could put a filter on that you could only see women who will fuck now, accomadation/pay the full hotel bill, give one way gratification and provide a light snack? That would be great thank you."
only a light snack? Have some self respect man!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think i'd change anything, as the site works the way i thought it would.If i felt fab stopped working the way i'm happy with,or the negatives outweighed the positives then i would simply leave the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A 'no thanks' button that sends a short polite 'no thank you' reply message to the sender and which also blocks the sender once they have read it.
or something like that!"
Have admin rename the block button as the 'No Thanks' button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.
It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.
It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here?"
I'm with you there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Works well.. the single male block on the message is a god send that i discovered too late.
How was your profile picture allowed ? 
Im the chosen one "
You saved our lives, we are eternally grateful! |
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"It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.
It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here?"
People can do what they like. I don't have to like it. |
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"What things would improve your Fab experience?
Nothing...
It works for me and when it doesn't, i disappear.."
Same here, it works well for me. If it gets stale I'll skedaddle. Currently it's still fun |
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