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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really. People already argue over who fits into what category size wise.
Plus if you're going to start filtering based on body you'd also need to add height, hair colour, bearded, pubic hair length etc. Loads of people have preferences and would want to filter different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful? "
I think the filter you have just applied as helped me heaps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful? "
Ooh you charmer you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
I think the filter you have just applied as helped me heaps "
Haha same  |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
Ooh you charmer you "
Wow. Please filter me out with that attitude... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures? "
NSA chick your stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are such a charmer. Your status will be off putting to many women.
I believe his status is the blissful ignorance of youth ..."
My filters start a little higher thankfully. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures?
NSA chick your stunning "
Thank you! But I'd be in the fat category   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures?
NSA chick your stunning
Thank you! But I'd be in the fat category "
Either way of size shape it doesn’t matter, the op is an immature .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
I think the filter you have just applied as helped me heaps "
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Don’t worry - going by his status he has no moral compass and his ignorance will belittle him when he finds the tall leggy blonde, by the sounds of it it’s not just confined to the beautiful larger ladies of fab!!
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off."
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
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Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
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I think there's a big difference between "I personally don't find x attractive" or "I'm looking to fulfil a fantasy" and "most women on Fab aren't moderately attractive". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are such a charmer. Your status will be off putting to many women.
I believe his status is the blissful ignorance of youth ...
He's at least a decade too old for that. "
I'm an old bird, anyone under 30 is a tweenie to me  |
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"You are such a charmer. Your status will be off putting to many women.
I believe his status is the blissful ignorance of youth ...
He's at least a decade too old for that.
I'm an old bird, anyone under 30 is a tweenie to me "
Haha. Give most of the post university crowd some credit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are such a charmer. Your status will be off putting to many women.
I believe his status is the blissful ignorance of youth ...
He's at least a decade too old for that.
I'm an old bird, anyone under 30 is a tweenie to me
Haha. Give most of the post university crowd some credit. "
No I can't, not if I am old enough to be their Mum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn’t find it useful.
There’s so many men that like to think they’re ‘athletic’ but their definition may not fit mine.
Or they think they’re ‘average’ when I think they’re skinny etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you like who you like, we all have preferences. However your status is very negative and therefore off-putting. Even if you was molded by the very gods themselves in their perfect image I think it would put most off.
You would be better giving a more positive angle such as lover of slim ladies rather than putting others down... Very low vibing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I wouldn’t find it useful.
There’s so many men that like to think they’re ‘athletic’ but their definition may not fit mine.
Or they think they’re ‘average’ when I think they’re skinny etc "
I,m changing my profile to athletic ,which I am but I have a cpl of protective layers lol |
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"No I wouldn’t find it useful.
There’s so many men that like to think they’re ‘athletic’ but their definition may not fit mine.
Or they think they’re ‘average’ when I think they’re skinny etc
I,m changing my profile to athletic ,which I am but I have a cpl of protective layers lol"
I'm weighing up when to change mine to athletic. I'm going to catch hell when I do |
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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago
S West |
"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures? "
Snapchat filters and 'clever' angles hide alot
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures? Snapchat filters and 'clever' angles hide alot"
And people lie about their size. So a filter wouldn't stop that. |
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful? "
Us "gross" women are what makes the world go round love.....if your after a super model your in the wrong place.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you like who you like, we all have preferences. However your status is very negative and therefore off-putting. Even if you was molded by the very gods themselves in their perfect image I think it would put most off.
You would be better giving a more positive angle such as lover of slim ladies rather than putting others down... Very low vibing "
This
You can have your preferences without putting others down. Some of the slim, attractive women who you’re seeking will be just as put off and insulted by your forum post and status as us chubsters. |
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"Well you like who you like, we all have preferences. However your status is very negative and therefore off-putting. Even if you was molded by the very gods themselves in their perfect image I think it would put most off.
You would be better giving a more positive angle such as lover of slim ladies rather than putting others down... Very low vibing
This
You can have your preferences without putting others down. Some of the slim, attractive women who you’re seeking will be just as put off and insulted by your forum post and status as us chubsters."
Quite. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx"
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it. "
Sorry? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I wouldn’t find it useful.
There’s so many men that like to think they’re ‘athletic’ but their definition may not fit mine.
Or they think they’re ‘average’ when I think they’re skinny etc "
Aye, good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it. "
I’m the same, they have to have a certain something to keep my attention and it usually isn’t looks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it.
Sorry?"
Appearance is more important than anything else. Denying it is Denying basic science. We select those with the best genetics and the most obvious expression of that is ones appearance.
It's tiring seeing so many women virtue signal about how they "value personality over looks"
If a really really nice, funny, 600lb man messaged you, you wouldn't give him the time of day.
It's fine that appearances are of paramount importance.
All I'm saying is i wish people were more honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it.
Sorry?
Appearance is more important than anything else. Denying it is Denying basic science. We select those with the best genetics and the most obvious expression of that is ones appearance.
It's tiring seeing so many women virtue signal about how they "value personality over looks"
If a really really nice, funny, 600lb man messaged you, you wouldn't give him the time of day.
It's fine that appearances are of paramount importance.
All I'm saying is i wish people were more honest. "
I do agree with this. There's good and bad ways to say it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it.
Sorry?
Appearance is more important than anything else. Denying it is Denying basic science. We select those with the best genetics and the most obvious expression of that is ones appearance.
It's tiring seeing so many women virtue signal about how they "value personality over looks"
If a really really nice, funny, 600lb man messaged you, you wouldn't give him the time of day.
It's fine that appearances are of paramount importance.
All I'm saying is i wish people were more honest. "
Looks can turn my head but personality will keep it turned. Shit personality will turn me off that person very quickly. I like quirky looking men that most women don’t fancy. It’s all subjective as to what we find attractive. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd love a filter that helped me find people I'm attracted to. There's pages and pages of obnoxious, disrespectful men. It puts me right off.
Not only men there are enough shallow disrespectful women on this site too .
Read some woman mention she’d never meet ginger , Bald , bearded
Then theirs colour
No men over 6 ft. ( yet some women were only 5”1or 5”2)
It’s a minefield our there
Definitely not shallow here, either of us. Has to be a connection, humour is more important to us than looks.
Av xx
Oh come on, really? That's a blatant lie and you know it.
Sorry?
Appearance is more important than anything else. Denying it is Denying basic science. We select those with the best genetics and the most obvious expression of that is ones appearance.
It's tiring seeing so many women virtue signal about how they "value personality over looks"
If a really really nice, funny, 600lb man messaged you, you wouldn't give him the time of day.
It's fine that appearances are of paramount importance.
All I'm saying is i wish people were more honest. "
But I was being honest.
I've fucked a 23 stone guy who was amazing and I've also fucked a size 8 woman who blew my mind.
If you are insecure maybe look at why? I'd not fuck someone who was a self centred twat even if they looked like Dwayne Johnson. That's my preference, just cos it's not yours doesn't make me a liar.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow pretty shallow lol
Do you fuck anyone who messages you?
No?
That's pretty shallow... "
No I don’t but I don’t base attraction on size either why would I ?
I base attraction on how I interact with someone .
You do have quite a shallow and immature outlook .
Hope fab goes well for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic. "
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic. "
People would just lie or their view of body type may not be what you perceive it to be, it wouldn't be a great filter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair "
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual. "
Oh I’m not insulted at all  it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting "
To bigger women
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic. "
Despite applying weight related filters, which I wouldn't be against. It wouldnt work however that's just like putting filters up for attached... people lie.
Your status is insulting however
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"Not really for me. You'd be relying on people being honest about their size as well, something that's quite subjective, so I don't think it would work. Does it take all that long just to look at the pictures? "
They already get around the age thing by fibbing about their age! First couple we met it said on Fab they were 44/45 when we met they were 55/57 and looked older! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting "
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think OP is doing a great job at filtering himself here. The deafening sound of block buttons haha "
I'm not seeing anyone in here that I'd fuck anyway to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know? "
And i continued my post, explaining I clicked the ‘post message’ button prematurely.
It will be insulting to the ‘bigger ladies’ you want to filter out.
Which is fine wanting to filter them out, everyone has a type and if that’s not what you’re attracted too, then fair enough. I’m not attracted to bigger men (I probably wouldn’t filter them out though).
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"I suspect Fab is not what you expect and you might not get as much out of it as you hope to.
You're 100% correct
Get yourself to clubs bud."
I... Are you sure that's wise?
There'll be fat chicks with our clothes off. |
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know?
And i continued my post, explaining I clicked the ‘post message’ button prematurely.
It will be insulting to the ‘bigger ladies’ you want to filter out.
Which is fine wanting to filter them out, everyone has a type and if that’s not what you’re attracted too, then fair enough. I’m not attracted to bigger men (I probably wouldn’t filter them out though).
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Yes. There are types of people I don't find attractive and likely never will. I don't bemoan their existence. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know?
And i continued my post, explaining I clicked the ‘post message’ button prematurely.
It will be insulting to the ‘bigger ladies’ you want to filter out.
Which is fine wanting to filter them out, everyone has a type and if that’s not what you’re attracted too, then fair enough. I’m not attracted to bigger men (I probably wouldn’t filter them out though).
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Are you not a bigger lady? You're sure responding as though you're insulted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know?
And i continued my post, explaining I clicked the ‘post message’ button prematurely.
It will be insulting to the ‘bigger ladies’ you want to filter out.
Which is fine wanting to filter them out, everyone has a type and if that’s not what you’re attracted too, then fair enough. I’m not attracted to bigger men (I probably wouldn’t filter them out though).
Yes. There are types of people I don't find attractive and likely never will. I don't bemoan their existence. "
Do you wanna point out where I said I "bemoan their existence"
I'm pretty sure you can't, so why are yoy making it sound like that's what i said? |
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"I suspect Fab is not what you expect and you might not get as much out of it as you hope to.
You're 100% correct
Get yourself to clubs bud.
I... Are you sure that's wise?
There'll be fat chicks with our clothes off. "
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"This was just a simple post asking if others thought a weight filter would be a good idea.
I see many here are insulted and resort to petty insults, which is ironic.
Your OP was a bit insulting to be fair
You choose to be insulted by it. It wasn't a personal slight, nor was it directed at one individual.
Oh I’m not insulted at all it was the trying to find someone moderately attractive point that you made. It’s a bit insulting
You just said my post was insulting.... If it wasn't insulting to you, who was it insulting to and how do you know?
And i continued my post, explaining I clicked the ‘post message’ button prematurely.
It will be insulting to the ‘bigger ladies’ you want to filter out.
Which is fine wanting to filter them out, everyone has a type and if that’s not what you’re attracted too, then fair enough. I’m not attracted to bigger men (I probably wouldn’t filter them out though).
Are you not a bigger lady? You're sure responding as though you're insulted. "
I don’t think I am - but you may |
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This male is clearly disillusioned and instead of choosing to change his manner to a more positive mindset he is venting his frustrations by basically putting others down .. Not the actions of someone on their profile who claims to be intelligent.
I suggest that people don't give him want he wants by replying back arguing the toss.... Don't feed a virus people |
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"I suspect Fab is not what you expect and you might not get as much out of it as you hope to.
You're 100% correct
Get yourself to clubs bud.
I... Are you sure that's wise?
There'll be fat chicks with our clothes off.
Wooohooo "
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over a year ago
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"You have to go through multiple pages before you find somebody moderately attractive.
Oh. How sad for you. "
Did I complain about it?
No, again, you're taking what i said out of context because you're mad that someone has the audacity to mention a filter based on weight.
This is the real world, bot everyone finds you attractive. |
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful? "
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !   |
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over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho ! "
Saucydevils... I love your curves!!
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Well that escalated quickly...
To answer the OP, personally I don’t care how many or few filters are applied to physicality as I wouldn’t use them. This is because I can’t rely on people being honest or even knowing how to define their physicality based on the options fab have.
As for the back and forth, I’d have to agree that the OP could and has clearly been taken as offensive. You can’t help offending someone but you can respect people who have clearly taken offence and maybe better articulate your reasoning behind requesting filters in physicality.
....If anything it’s been mildly entertaining so thanks for the popcorn folks! |
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"You have to go through multiple pages before you find somebody moderately attractive.
Oh. How sad for you.
Did I complain about it?
No, again, you're taking what i said out of context because you're mad that someone has the audacity to mention a filter based on weight.
This is the real world, bot everyone finds you attractive. "
Actually, this is Fab, I get way more attention than I can handle. Which yeah, translates into real amazing sex. And did when I was a size 18 last year. |
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over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho ! "
It does to me, unfortunately you can't tell someone else what to find attractive. |
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over a year ago
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"You have to go through multiple pages before you find somebody moderately attractive.
Oh. How sad for you.
Did I complain about it?
No, again, you're taking what i said out of context because you're mad that someone has the audacity to mention a filter based on weight.
This is the real world, bot everyone finds you attractive. "
They didn't say you complained about it. Asking for a filter based on weight is fine but going on to say you have to go through multiple pages before you find someone moderately attractive was unnecessary in my opinion and I'm clearly not alone. This coupled with your very unattractive status update has made the whole thread turn a bit nasty I'm sorry to say. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"You have to go through multiple pages before you find somebody moderately attractive.
Oh. How sad for you.
Did I complain about it?
No, again, you're taking what i said out of context because you're mad that someone has the audacity to mention a filter based on weight.
This is the real world, bot everyone finds you attractive.
They didn't say you complained about it. Asking for a filter based on weight is fine but going on to say you have to go through multiple pages before you find someone moderately attractive was unnecessary in my opinion and I'm clearly not alone. This coupled with your very unattractive status update has made the whole thread turn a bit nasty I'm sorry to say."
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !
It does to me, unfortunately you can't tell someone else what to find attractive. "
Nor can you, and yet you did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well that escalated quickly...
To answer the OP, personally I don’t care how many or few filters are applied to physicality as I wouldn’t use them. This is because I can’t rely on people being honest or even knowing how to define their physicality based on the options fab have.
As for the back and forth, I’d have to agree that the OP could and has clearly been taken as offensive. You can’t help offending someone but you can respect people who have clearly taken offence and maybe better articulate your reasoning behind requesting filters in physicality.
....If anything it’s been mildly entertaining so thanks for the popcorn folks!"
Better articulate my reasoning behind discussing a filter based on weight?
Did you even read the post? |
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over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !
It does to me, unfortunately you can't tell someone else what to find attractive.
Nor can you, and yet you did. "
Again, what are you talking about?
Where did i demand someone find me attractive? |
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"How about?
Wouldn't it be great if we could filter more closely based on our preferences? Like a height or a weight filter?
Job done. "
Jesus christ that's what my post said? Do you even think before you post? |
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !
Saucydevils... I love your curves!!
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AV thanks.. I must say you guys have a hot profile ! |
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"I think OP is doing a great job at filtering himself here. The deafening sound of block buttons haha
I'm not seeing anyone in here that I'd fuck anyway to be honest. "
Even me...? I’m a catch! |
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"How about?
Wouldn't it be great if we could filter more closely based on our preferences? Like a height or a weight filter?
Job done.
Jesus christ that's what my post said? Do you even think before you post? "
Why are you being so insulting to people who are giving you constructive replies? |
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"How about?
Wouldn't it be great if we could filter more closely based on our preferences? Like a height or a weight filter?
Job done.
Jesus christ that's what my post said? Do you even think before you post? "
The lady is trying to say you didn't need to go on and say you have to sift thru loads of pages to find someone even moderately attractive but you did, it's done now. |
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !
It does to me, unfortunately you can't tell someone else what to find attractive. "
Well I believe that attraction and sexyness comes in many forms (not on size/weight).. but again that's me.
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over a year ago
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
One thing that you should consider and maybe take on board is "attractive and sexy" hasnt got anything to do with size or weight .. it's deffo an attitude!!
Obviously not every Man can handle serious curves tho !
It does to me, unfortunately you can't tell someone else what to find attractive.
Well I believe that attraction and sexyness comes in many forms (not on size/weight).. but again that's me.
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So do lots of people and thats fine. Never said it was wrong. |
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Better articulate my reasoning behind discussing a filter based on weight?
Did you even read the post? "
Yes, clearly, and the thread. My feedback to you is based on that.
You’ve clearly got a preference for a specific body type, which is your prerogative, but as I’ve said you could have articulated it in a less offensive manner.
For example:
I’d really like a filter based on physical appearance so that it saves time wasted on scrolling through body types that aren’t for me
But you chose an alternative and the thread clearly demonstrates that it wasn’t the best approach.
If anything you’ve potentially put people who are your body type preference off because your attitude to forum members and those of “bigger” body types has been pretty damning. |
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Hello O.P.
I agree with everything you've said so far but not with the way you say it.
I've read every post on here and you are articulate and intelligent so my guess is that you know exactly what you are saying and are well aware people would get snappy.
One point I can't agree with is that your status update implies that a person that you don't find attractive cannot punch above their weight .... now as illogical / unreal and horn driven as it is ...... They can and do .
Is there a filter for body type ? So you can just pick people who consider themselves slim ? |
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"Hello O.P.
I agree with everything you've said so far but not with the way you say it.
I've read every post on here and you are articulate and intelligent so my guess is that you know exactly what you are saying and are well aware people would get snappy.
One point I can't agree with is that your status update implies that a person that you don't find attractive cannot punch above their weight .... now as illogical / unreal and horn driven as it is ...... They can and do .
Is there a filter for body type ? So you can just pick people who consider themselves slim ? "
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"How about?
Wouldn't it be great if we could filter more closely based on our preferences? Like a height or a weight filter?
Job done.
Jesus christ that's what my post said? Do you even think before you post? "
That’s too funny. |
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"I think OP is doing a great job at filtering himself here. The deafening sound of block buttons haha
I'm not seeing anyone in here that I'd fuck anyway to be honest. "
Awwww please fuck me!! Pretty please!!
*crying that young lad doesn’t find me attractive
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As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing |
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"As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing "
Wow!! He’s missing out, you’re gorge girl |
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"As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing "
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"As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing "
Smoking babe |
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"As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing
Wow!! He’s missing out, you’re gorge girl "
As are you! |
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"As a bigger girl, I've given you the courtesy of blocking you, now you won't have to scroll past my page when you're browsing, and be offended by images of my body. You're welcome. Happy Fabbing
Smoking babe "
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"The one thing i think this place (and also dating apps) are missing is a filter for size/weight.
I can't filter out the bigger ladies when I'm browsing and it means i have to go through multiple pages before i find someone moderately attravtive.
Who else thinks this would be useful?
Ooh you charmer you
Wow. Please filter me out with that attitude... "
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