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over a year ago
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For myself I know I'm in the end here for a number of reasons, expanding my sexual knowledge and skillset is one, and if theres a genuine connection then that's a bloody lovely bonus! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any of you ever had a social that just lead to friendship or is sex the ultimate aim here "
of course I've made friends from meets some sexual some not
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there has got to be some rapport for me on here, and i never rush to meet, ake it nice and slow, with lashings of dirty talk.. course its about sex, but it also allows you to have a friendship, all be it an unusual one.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there has got to be some rapport for me on here, and i never rush to meet, ake it nice and slow, with lashings of dirty talk.. course its about sex, but it also allows you to have a friendship, all be it an unusual one.. "
That make perfect sense x |
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over a year ago
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea. "
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me some kind of friendship is a must. If we don't have that its unlikely sex will.
The ones I have meet I would happily just meet up for a cuppa or anything as I would with any other friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea. "
I’m similar. Either it’s been sex that’s eventually petered out or there’s just not been enough of a connection to go further. I’m here to have sex with friendly people, not make friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only.... 
 that made me laugh out loud x
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And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea.
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex "
There's no right answer here. Sometimes when their eyes light up when they see me. Sometimes after reflecting after going home. Usually in between. |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
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Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it? |
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea.
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex
There's no right answer here. Sometimes when their eyes light up when they see me. Sometimes after reflecting after going home. Usually in between. "
Yes that makes perfect sense x |
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"For me some kind of friendship is a must. If we don't have that its unlikely sex will.
The ones I have meet I would happily just meet up for a cuppa or anything as I would with any other friend. "
For private meets, very much this. I want to like the person as a person. |
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over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it? "
No it's even worse than that
Married |
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea.
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex
There's no right answer here. Sometimes when their eyes light up when they see me. Sometimes after reflecting after going home. Usually in between. "
Shine a torch in my ears and my eyes will light up |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married "
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc.... "
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October  |
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea.
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex
There's no right answer here. Sometimes when their eyes light up when they see me. Sometimes after reflecting after going home. Usually in between.
Shine a torch in my ears and my eyes will light up "
I had one social fairly recently where it was in that very first moment. I had to keep it under wraps haha. |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October "
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok.... |
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over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok.... "
Anything done by hand is fine  |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine "
Touche'  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche' "
Anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least) |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least)"
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy "
Define naughty |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty "
I'm waiting to define it......other thread... |
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over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread... "
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers "
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers  |
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"I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least)
Wanna meet?"
Only if you're sober
You scare me when you've been on the free ale  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Have any of you ever had a social that just lead to friendship or is sex the ultimate aim here "
I enjoy going out for a meal or just drinks with a few of the friends I have made here. It’s nice to be able to chat freely with people about fab stuff as well as the usual sort of conversations you have with friends. I do enjoy the social side of things |
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over a year ago
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers "
Fingers the size of a motorbike aren’t small |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least)
Wanna meet?
Only if you're sober
You scare me when you've been on the free ale "
You’re fickle! You told me you liked me tipsy before!!
Plus I don’t think I’ll ever experience a bar-shutdown like that again!
So you would then? Meet me like? |
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers
Fingers the size of a motorbike aren’t small "
I'm not explaining the concept of camera angles or distances.......just bend over you can judge how big or small for yourself...... |
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"I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least)
Wanna meet?
Only if you're sober
You scare me when you've been on the free ale
You’re fickle! You told me you liked me tipsy before!!
Plus I don’t think I’ll ever experience a bar-shutdown like that again!
So you would then? Meet me like?"
Of course I would ya daft sod |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I always attend a social with the intent that it will be just that
It's a drink and a chat, a walk and chinwag, musings over cake
For many, the word 'social' equates to 'I want to meet to be sure about you before we shag'
It doesn't have to be that
It can be 'I like you, I think we'll get along, let's meet and see'
Sometimes, it stays at the friendship stage, sometimes it moves on from that
Either way, I view it as a win, win
I've never met anyone from here socially that I haven't thought was a total diamond and lovely to boot
I have, however, met people for sex without the social that have unnerved me somewhat
They are important (to me at least)
Wanna meet?
Only if you're sober
You scare me when you've been on the free ale
You’re fickle! You told me you liked me tipsy before!!
Plus I don’t think I’ll ever experience a bar-shutdown like that again!
So you would then? Meet me like?
Of course I would ya daft sod "
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers
Fingers the size of a motorbike aren’t small
I'm not explaining the concept of camera angles or distances.......just bend over you can judge how big or small for yourself...... "
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers
Fingers the size of a motorbike aren’t small
I'm not explaining the concept of camera angles or distances.......just bend over you can judge how big or small for yourself......
So we’ll have to meet now"
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"Omg no! Means more expense at birthdays etc......sex only....
that made me laugh out loud x
And until I read your profile was going to say fancy a meet but alas
Alas what? Not your birthday soon is it?
No it's even worse than that
Married
Arhhh, yes.......friends? Without the friendy bit though.....no cards etc....
Ok no cards lol but just in case 7th October
Arhhhhhhhhhhh god dam it! It will be hand made then ok....
Anything done by hand is fine
Touche'
Anytime
Naughty boy
Define naughty
I'm waiting to define it......other thread...
Hehe I like your style even though you have HUGE fingers
Oi!!!!!!! Cheeky sod.....I do not....it's camera shot....I'm all embarrassed now of my HUGE fingers
Fingers the size of a motorbike aren’t small
I'm not explaining the concept of camera angles or distances.......just bend over you can judge how big or small for yourself......
So we’ll have to meet now
Oooooo look at the time..... "
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"So far my socials have led to sex or things have petered out. Although I'm not opposed to the idea.
How soon into a social meet do you know you would like to have sex "
39 mins 42 secs |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Virtually all my 1:1 have led to sex on that occasion or shortly after. I know very early in if I fancy the person and would like to take things further. With few exceptions i've been able to tell early on if they feel the same  |
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"Virtually all my 1:1 have led to sex on that occasion or shortly after. I know very early in if I fancy the person and would like to take things further. With few exceptions i've been able to tell early on if they feel the same "
I only know if they're way too obvious, which doesn't help me much. |
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