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It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
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"Overnight ones are the best..i have been to London a couple of times and manchester ..
Its always a bit more of an occasion than just a meet "
Yes if its with someone you really get on with I don't think you can beat a night away... Or two or three and like you say its an oocasion  |
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"The ones that leave butterflys... it can be as simple as a drink and a kiss... sometimes the simple last min meets leave more of a impact.  "
Oooh I totally agree.. Doesn't all have to be big things. |
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We really enjoy getting away from our home city and staying in a hotel for sexy fun. An evening out all together and fun back at the hotel.
We went away for a weekend with some sexy friends from here and on the second day we were all chilling out on the bed watching a movie before we needed to get ready to go out. The best sex is often when everyone is relaxed and comfortable with each other. ... awesome experience x |
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
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I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place |
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place "
I totally agree... If the person wasn't right then then it wouldn't matter where you are! |
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"We really enjoy getting away from our home city and staying in a hotel for sexy fun. An evening out all together and fun back at the hotel.
We went away for a weekend with some sexy friends from here and on the second day we were all chilling out on the bed watching a movie before we needed to get ready to go out. The best sex is often when everyone is relaxed and comfortable with each other. ... awesome experience x"
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place
I totally agree... If the person wasn't right then then it wouldn't matter where you are! "
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
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Been too long since had an amazing meet. Love the idea of a night away but last one I tried was a complete disaster |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
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Definitely the latter. If for a full weekend, even better |
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"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??
Been too long since had an amazing meet. Love the idea of a night away but last one I tried was a complete disaster "
I've onky had weekends away with two people from fab. Neither are on here anymore.. But I was lucky that we just clicked and had been chatting for ages and the chemistry was red hot... Not sure when or if it will happen again because it doesn't happen often. But I totally understand why you would be wary after a bad experience  |
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I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible. |
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"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible. "
It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing |
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For me its the simple ones.
Good company and a drink with plenty of giggles and what ever then happens, happens. I dont like pressure, prefer to see what happens. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.
I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning. |
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"For me its the simple ones.
Good company and a drink with plenty of giggles and what ever then happens, happens. I dont like pressure, prefer to see what happens. "
You can't beat just talking, laughing and just seeing where the night takes you... I hate pressure too |
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"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.
It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing "
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"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.
I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning."
I love these too  and you know its been good when you have the John Wayne walk |
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"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.
It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing "
He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. |
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"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.
It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing
He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "
Ah a girl can dream delighted for you and enjoy every bloody minute |
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"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.
It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing
He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "
Awww that is sooo good when that happens and is how it should be or what's the point! I've had mixed endings to the two guys I had weekends away with. But I wouldn't change anything as I had such fun, the London one popped up on my Facebook memory today and even though I was a bit sad it also just made me smile. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "
Oh how lovely! I really get this. I've found someone similar - he encouraged me to apply for a diploma so I'm on my way to professional wankerdom and the way he looks at me like I'm the most desirable thing he's seen is just... I could meet him in an alleyway in Luton and be happy.  |
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"Most of mine have been sleep overs, great to not have to rush
One of them I combined being a tourist with a great guide too "
Always good when you have a great tour guide.. I had the same when I used to go to Cardiff... I know all the pubs now |
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over a year ago
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets "
Why illuminating ??
Women are clearly more open |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?"
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women |
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women "
Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too. "
All roads lead to Rome on this site |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women "
It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me |
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too.
All roads lead to Rome on this site "
It's Fab so of course it does |
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "
^^^^^^this |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too.
All roads lead to Rome on this site
It's Fab so of course it does "
Glad we agree |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "
Yeah yeah |
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over a year ago
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "
Agreed |
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over a year ago
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"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.
I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning."
These kind of meets were almost exclusively the kind that I shared, I never liked the rush and impersonal nature of "I've got to leave at 9", if I met someone it was because I liked them and wanted to spend time with them as a person, not just someone to fuck.
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"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.
I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning.
These kind of meets were almost exclusively the kind that I shared, I never liked the rush and impersonal nature of "I've got to leave at 9", if I met someone it was because I liked them and wanted to spend time with them as a person, not just someone to fuck.
Tea"
I think that's what a lot of us would like... I k ow it's a swingers site etc etc etc but sex doesn't have to be so mechanical.. And that's why ultimately long term fab won't suit me because the best sex I've ever had was when I a was absolutely crazy about someone. I keep my "fab head" on these days but I look forward to the day I can toss it aside and just enjoy knowing there are no limitations and let things just take their course. |
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"My best type of meet is one that actually meets.
Yep! With you there! One that doesn’t just lead you on because they like the attention! X"
I’ve spoken to a few like that |
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"Best ones are when you walk in the door and the bath is run and cup of tea in her hand waiting, then the words dinner will be ready soon.....priceless
That’s a relationship isn’t it "
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"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.
Along with others, I haven’t had any meets
But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?
If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women
It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me
Yeah yeah "
... But that really is it. Yeah, some people have advantages over others, and they're always going to do well. But standing out here can mean as little as having a decent profile, respecting wishes, treating women as people (heavens above), and being personal.
... And honestly, I don't see why that's hard. (although God help me if more did it) |
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I’ll give my serious answer now...
If it were a single female, the ideal scenario would be to meet in a good bar. Quiet enough to chat, but loud enough so other people can’t hear the topic of conversation. Have enough drink to be bordering on tipsy and fun, then back to a hotel room (it’s always naughtier in a hotel, and you don’t have to do the laundry). Fun all night, sleep a bit and continue the next morning in til checkout. Then maybe go for a coffee and say goodbye.
With couples, it’d be similar or meet at theirs. So long as there’s a good social beforehand and a good connection with both of them. Probably not stay over if it were a hotel as that’d be a bit weird unless I’d got a second room.
With two females... this is still a thing of fantasy despite MANY years of trying to make it happen |
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My favourites have always been over night meets/ couple of nights away.
Had this 2 weeks ago and it was pure bliss, waking up reaching for each other for sex, going for a stroll by the river hand in hand looking for somewhere for breakfast, back to the hotel, sex, falling asleep on his chest, out for dinner, back for more sex. Wish I could rewind 
But I've also had this with someone new who I had been chatting to for years and it was the worse meet ever so I would never do more than one night with someone I don't know really well ever again. |
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"I’ll give my serious answer now...
If it were a single female, the ideal scenario would be to meet in a good bar. Quiet enough to chat, but loud enough so other people can’t hear the topic of conversation. Have enough drink to be bordering on tipsy and fun, then back to a hotel room (it’s always naughtier in a hotel, and you don’t have to do the laundry). Fun all night, sleep a bit and continue the next morning in til checkout. Then maybe go for a coffee and say goodbye.
With couples, it’d be similar or meet at theirs. So long as there’s a good social beforehand and a good connection with both of them. Probably not stay over if it were a hotel as that’d be a bit weird unless I’d got a second room.
With two females... this is still a thing of fantasy despite MANY years of trying to make it happen "
Sounds perfect!
Is there dinner and breakfast involved too? Great sex burns lots of calories!  |
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For a change I collected her in the camper van...as we drew near to my house I stopped on the beach ..at that time of night it was deserted and only one or two cars went past... leaving the curtains open we sank onto the bed at the back and made love with the lights of distant ships ..the lighthouse and the few beach houses around us ...the sea breeze and the distant waves the only accompanying sounds |
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He had booked an apartment but it turned out to be a 5 bedroom Tudor house that looked out over the best part of town. It was so relaxed. We played for about 5 hours and then he walked me to my car and we kissed in the rain.
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I haven’t had many to make any real comparison, but my favourites have been where we have had lots of time to get to know each other and laugh with each other. It has been in a relaxing, comfortable hotel room that enables us enjoy our pleasure at our leisure. One where I have beamed for days after as I bathed in the afterglow of meeting someone I felt I had really good chemistry with. |
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Best type of meet for me is one where we get on enjoy each others company have a laugh and if it comes to something at a later date great but not the be all and end all if it doesn't, still had a great time |
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"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere
I’m sure you haven’t at all "
I’m just feeling sorry for myself
I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site |
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"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere
I’m sure you haven’t at all
I’m just feeling sorry for myself
I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site "
Mmmmm that could be a tough ask |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. |
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One of my favourite meets was from someone else who walked their dog a lot and we just walked and chatted for lots of meets but the sexual chemistry was building week in week out until eventually we gave in, amazing but we had to stop in the end, such a shame xx |
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over a year ago
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"I have had many eureka nights as I call them x
Is that eureka they turned up ? "
No nights that I will never forget and nights where I think it can't get better than this or the nights I have lost all feelings in my legs and fall down the stairs at chams x |
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"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere
I’m sure you haven’t at all
I’m just feeling sorry for myself
I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site
Mmmmm that could be a tough ask "
Why ?
I don’t see why it should be |
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over a year ago
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"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!
I just need to find this with someone who wants more "
I think I do too |
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"Best type of meet for me is one where we get on enjoy each others company have a laugh and if it comes to something at a later date great but not the be all and end all if it doesn't, still had a great time "
Sounds great!!! |
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"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!
I just need to find this with someone who wants more
I think I do too "
It will happen my lovely. Sometime when we least expect it and in the mean time we shall just have fun xx |
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"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!
I just need to find this with someone who wants more
I think I do too
It will happen my lovely. Sometime when we least expect it and in the mean time we shall just have fun xx"
Perfect
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. "
that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well |
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well "
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. |
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. "
Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that |
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that "
Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. |
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that
Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. "
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that
Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. that sounds lovely then, would you have liked to continue seeing that guy then? "
Yes ... I ended up falling for him.. We got on so well. We would just laugh and talk, get tipsy and have mind blowing sex. He was single too but didn't want anything more. So in the end I had to call it a day. Now I keep my "fab" head strictly on. I only occasionally meet now and if I thought I was starting to get the "feels" again I would stop seeing them straight away. (lesson learned) |
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"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.
I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.
So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well
One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that
Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. that sounds lovely then, would you have liked to continue seeing that guy then?
Yes ... I ended up falling for him.. We got on so well. We would just laugh and talk, get tipsy and have mind blowing sex. He was single too but didn't want anything more. So in the end I had to call it a day. Now I keep my "fab" head strictly on. I only occasionally meet now and if I thought I was starting to get the "feels" again I would stop seeing them straight away. (lesson learned) "
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One I thought we were just having a social and was quite happy with that. She had planned all along to stay the night, not that I complained but It was a nice unexpected surprise.
Another was a social at her place. We spent 2 hours kissing and fumbling around on her sofa. Still one of the best meets I've had. |
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