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Why are you single ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?"

Can we answer if we’re not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fat.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

We could be here all day for why I'm single so ill just narrow it down to I'm a bitch & I like my own space & freedom lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

By choice at the min.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?

Can we answer if we’re not?"

Certainly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"By choice at the min.

Yeah, yeah.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Luck

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

I’m a bit broken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The girl I love doesnt like me much.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just haven't found a match that has stuck yet ha, not looking either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?"

Serial axe murderer

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"By choice at the min.

Yeah, yeah.

True that, bro

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By *obletonMan over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

" it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredibly annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

Yes

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I’m only Fab single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe because no bugger wants me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?

Can we answer if we’re not?

Certainly "

Ok, not single because I love being in a relationship, but we both love the thrill of meeting others for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

I won’t let you down, so please don’t give me up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?"

Happy and content. When if i meet someone who i like and not needy or a twat so be it

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By *hortarseWoman over a year ago

Norfolk

I always find the married ones

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

I won’t let you down, so please don’t give me up! "

Sod orv.....it looks painful....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always find the married ones

We’re married, but like sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

I won’t let you down, so please don’t give me up!

Sod orv.....it looks painful....

Not a George Michael fan then ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because I'm not desperate enough yet

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Too much of a free spirit at the moment

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The girl I love doesnt like me much....."

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

Fundamentally I do not have the ability to sustain interesting conversation with anyone beyond about 5 separate meetings (sometimes less), I am easily distracted and tend to forget why I am sat in a restaurant having a meal with someone, when I could be looking across the fields at home and asking myself important questions like, do rabbits and cows have an unwritten rule about whose grass is whose?

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman over a year ago

somewhere

Im happier. No drama. No one starfishing in my bed. Come and go when i please

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

I won’t let you down, so please don’t give me up!

Sod orv.....it looks painful....

Not a George Michael fan then ? "

I know I know.....play along fook sake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't believe you

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I choose to be single I like my own space to much to share it

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I realised after one fourteen year marriage and another ten year relationship that monogamy wasn't for me.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"I choose to be single I like my own space to much to share it

Plenty in the basement!!!!!!?!!?..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I realised after one fourteen year marriage and another ten year relationship that monogamy wasn't for me.

Open relationship winner winner chicken dinner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

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By *hortarseWoman over a year ago

Norfolk

"I always find the married ones

We’re married, but like sharing

The ones I meet don't share or the wife don't know. Single men don't want this

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By *unningFoxWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I’m a bit broken, come from broken place and don’t know really how to be in relationship. A bit too much for “normal” guys (outside swinger world) and I believe I might be cursed as all my exes always find girlfriends and wife materials after me but still try to have me on side

A bit of a workaholic in last few years but no regrets as I have worked hard to be where I’m today

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Away for Christmas

By choice...

Because I know nobody will put up with my weirdness!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life's been totally f**ked since birth but I am cool with it.

Rather be single than mess someone else's up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I choose to be.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t go out.

Single mum. I have two kids under 10, one of whom has ASD and is a live wire, so needs someone to watch him, attentively! No family to babysit as I just have my mum. They go to their dad two weekends on, one off.

We also live with my 67 year old mum who has mobility issues and I help her out where I can.

I’m broke.

I’m fat.

Super tall.

Peri menopausal.

I have depression that I manage (or don’t) through fresh air and walking rather than medication. I have low tolerance for emotional demands put upon me so I start to feel overwhelmed and trapped.

So not exactly a catch. And as is constantly mentioned in the forums by men, single mums are seen as a bind.

But life could be worse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't believe you

Who ?

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By *xperimentalistMan over a year ago

East Yorkshire

It's me

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By *unningFoxWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m a bit broken, come from broken place and don’t know really how to be in relationship. A bit too much for “normal” guys (outside swinger world) and I believe I might be cursed as all my exes always find girlfriends and wife materials after me but still try to have me on side

A bit of a workaholic in last few years but no regrets as I have worked hard to be where I’m today

Plus on top of everything I find really hard time to connect or trust people. I’m not bad looking but my size could scare potential other half’s away. I’m not selling myself here very well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single by choice. It was her choice but, you know.

I do actively avoid relationships, I'm a bit broken and don't think anyone should have to deal with me day to day.

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By *onygirlieWoman over a year ago

Leicestershire

I’ve not met the right guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We could be here all day for why I'm single so ill just narrow it down to I'm a bitch & I like my own space & freedom lol "

What she said ^

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

good question this, got me thinking; i've narrowed it down to 1 of 2 reasons

1. I am quite possibly the most undateable person in the world or

2. Nobody wants to touch my willy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single 14 years and nothing.......it's my choice, freeeedommmmmmm

I won’t let you down, so please don’t give me up!

Sod orv.....it looks painful....

Not a George Michael fan then ?

I know I know.....play along fook sake

Oh sorry, yeah to fucking right it does! Gotta have some faith in the sound. It's the one good thing that I've got.

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

It’s not me, it’s them!

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

https://youtu.be/FrLequ6dUdM

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By *carlet_heavenWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

OMG...lovely people, stop putting yourselves down!

I'm sure all of us know people that are less than perfect & in relationships...I know I do...I know a lot.

Here's a different perspective for you just to consider, you don't have to agree, just consider it.

You're human, you have issues, but are still a worthy human being & worthy of love/ companionship/happiness...or whatever you strive for.

its so easy to blame something within yourself as a cause...but it might not be you....

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I started off being single by choice, as when I ended my last relationship 14 years (he was a lovely guy, but no spark) I did start to look elsewhere, but the men wanted too much too soon, so I put my walls up and backed away thinking I just need a year of me only but that lasted about 13 years

Now I want a part time partner, but I think I am now too cynical after being on here for years and I just can't comprehend how the men of today just have no idea how to speak or treat women, so I roll my eyes, ignore messages and agree it probably is me that has the problem!

What will be will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OMG...lovely people, stop putting yourselves down!

I'm sure all of us know people that are less than perfect & in relationships...I know I do...I know a lot.

Here's a different perspective for you just to consider, you don't have to agree, just consider it.

You're human, you have issues, but are still a worthy human being & worthy of love/ companionship/happiness...or whatever you strive for.

its so easy to blame something within yourself as a cause...but it might not be you...."

Yeah, it’s Definitely me!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

On further reflection is it because I won't share my Haribo?

nah... I ALWAYS share my Haribo.

Its because I am a skinny, bald, twat with a hyper elevated sense of importance with a crushingly low level of worth...

this IS cathartic...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't be arsed with it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fear my good looks put ppl off

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"OMG...lovely people, stop putting yourselves down!

I'm sure all of us know people that are less than perfect & in relationships...I know I do...I know a lot.

Here's a different perspective for you just to consider, you don't have to agree, just consider it.

You're human, you have issues, but are still a worthy human being & worthy of love/ companionship/happiness...or whatever you strive for.

its so easy to blame something within yourself as a cause...but it might not be you....

Yeah, it’s Definitely me! "

Hmmm on reflection, it’s definitely me too!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

Ex committed side ways

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By *ister KinkyMan over a year ago

Sussex

Because I was crushed mentally by my ex and have some trust issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it’s the constant questions, that you have to answer.

‘What are you thinking about now?

‘Do you think Claire from work is prettier than me?’

‘Does my arse jiggle when I break into a jog?’

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

He died

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By *carlet_heavenWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"OMG...lovely people, stop putting yourselves down!

I'm sure all of us know people that are less than perfect & in relationships...I know I do...I know a lot.

Here's a different perspective for you just to consider, you don't have to agree, just consider it.

You're human, you have issues, but are still a worthy human being & worthy of love/ companionship/happiness...or whatever you strive for.

its so easy to blame something within yourself as a cause...but it might not be you....

Yeah, it’s Definitely me! "

In your case, I'd have to agree

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Im a naughty fucker !

Honestly dunno just had my fair share of bad luck and relationships....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a widower otherwise I wouldn’t be single. I’ve had relationships since but I’ve grown to like my own space - plus not too many people understand this. Try telling someone you’ve met off PoF or E Harmony that you’re a swinger and watch them break Usain Bolt’s world record

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

I haven't met anyone who wants me... (I have met a couple of peoe I would want more with) But that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with me!!!

Also not sure if it's possible to find what I would like... All the good bits of a realtionship.. Dates out.. Loads of mind blowing sex.. Being crazy about each other but without the necessity to be in each others pockets all the time.

Blue sky scenario or is it like the other thread... Would rather stay single and wait for the right person

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

My choice to be, my son is my priority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

Why are you single Doris ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

Well it's newish but right now I'm not meeting anyone from here to see what happens

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By *ndrew CareyMan over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

I'm single because it works for me. Tried relationships and they never worked.

So I'm happy with life as it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I’m confused

I want a man but only when it suits me.

I like my space etc but do miss snuggles and cuddles.

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By *onygirlieWoman over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I haven't met anyone who wants me... (I have met a couple of peoe I would want more with) But that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with me!!!

Blue sky scenario or is it like the other thread... Would rather stay single and wait for the right person

Shame you’re not a man that’s so for me!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

Well it's newish but right now I'm not meeting anyone from here to see what happens

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

Why are you single Doris ?"

Too many reasons to list. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was a terrible wife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Average looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was a terrible wife

Not from where I’m standing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was a terrible wife

Not from where I’m standing "

Tell that to my ex

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm incredibly selfish. I'm unwilling to compromise and I'll do what I want when I want. I have no regard for money and am completely irresponsible. I won't share the remote control. I have been watching repeats of Friends for the last ten years and will for the next decade and talk complete and utter codswallop. I fart, I snore...

I'm an absolute catch!

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By *unniebee1970Woman over a year ago

The Hive

My feet smell and I snore.

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By *apascouseMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Ugliness I’ve heard

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

"Too much of a free spirit at the moment

This

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By *lappyMan over a year ago

Manchester

because Im fugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because Im fugly"
snap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too good to be true, at least that's what I tell myself to make myself feel better about the harsh reality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because I’m confused

I want a man but only when it suits me.

I like my space etc but do miss snuggles and cuddles."

Same here, after 20yrs in a relationship (many of them happy I might add, just that we were kids when we got together and our journey has resulted in different paths) I love my own space. I love just bring weird on my own. I like the person that I am and find that I enjoy my own company (I'm a cool mofo) but there again, my coolness doesn't wrap its arms around me and tells me it's OK when times are hard

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By *JohnMan over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'm an off-the-chart introvert. I like being with people, but I need my own space to escape to. And that space has to be entirely mine. I'd go crazy if I had to live with someone.

I've been single most of my life. I'm very good at being on my own. Swinging friends bring everything else that I need.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one wants me, I’m unsociable, I can be a bitch, I don’t go out much, don’t trust anyone, just to name a few reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have some really bad habits... wouldn't want to share them with anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My own choice, I have a wandering eye, but there is a fella if he came to me tomorrow I would give it all up for him but sadly he don’t know I exist

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

I was married for 15 years..and the only label I want now is swinger! I don’t need anything think els from a man other than sex

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

By choice....

Work gets in the way during the week

I’m far too fussy when it comes to men

I’m pretty headstrong and stand my ground - not for the faint hearted

I actually quite like single girl lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a widow so not single by choice. Not much luck finding anyone so fab has been a godsend!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one wants me

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"No one wants me

Alan loves you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No one wants me

Alan loves you!

But...does he want me

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"No one wants me

Alan loves you!

But...does he want me

On Thursdays and Saturdays.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No one wants me

Alan loves you!

But...does he want me

On Thursdays and Saturdays.....

That will do just nicely

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"No one wants me

Alan loves you!

But...does he want me

On Thursdays and Saturdays.....

That will do just nicely

See your wanted boo boo...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My taste in men is shit

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"No one wants me

I’m sure you just haven’t met the right one cheeky ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Waiting to find the rite one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m high maintenance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Workaholic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a one fussy biatch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to be.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Waiting to find the rite one "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the anti love...No one wants to love me haha

On top of that I'm fat.

Ugly.

People see me and start running.

Cupid couldn't hit the far side of a barn.

I'm the most unluckiest person.

I've had no experience of relationships because no one wants to. Never had one! Not one! And I never find out why so I can't improve upon that...

Basically I'm destined to be single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

still healing after an abusive marriage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently by choice and loving that if I connect with someone then it can be taken further!! Plus I always get the 2 year itch.... Hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh god so many reasons!

I'm fat and prefer food to sex most of the time.

I drink too much and I'm over 40 so therefore invisible

I can't be arsed to go out much anymore and Pj's are my favourite clothes.

I'm irritated by most people - and I like to sleep alone.

I'm a catch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm widowed, but also very set in my ways, no one will now put up with me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No free time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By choice. No point trying to focusing on others if you have so much to learn about yourself. I wouldn't mind one, they would just have to be low maintenance, independent and accept that my focus at the end of the day is myself.

I just made myself sound like I have an ego the size of trumps forehead. I swear I'm not a cunt.

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Too busy being awesome

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

I'm just crap innit. But I'm good at being crap

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

For me - several reasons!

My kids kinda come first (and second and third) - when I’ve seen people in new relationships their kids get forgotten and all their love, time and attention seems to be centred around their new partner! My kids have a barely adequate dad so they need a bloody good mum!

Secondly - I sometimes think I fancy a relationship (of sorts) - so I go on a dating site thinking I’ll get less (but better quality) messages - only to get inundated as much as I do on here - so how the hell do you choose someone? I’m obviously crap at choosing because I just haven’t fancied the chaps I’ve had a date with so far - just no spark!!

Lastly - the longer I’m single - because I get pretty much everything I need from fab in terms of friendship, intimacy and great sex - the list of attributes a guy would have to have for me to give up being single gets longer every year!

I think if I end up in a relationship it’ll happen accidentally rather than by design!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?"

I'm single because I want to be and I love it

Besides, the common denominator in my failed relationships is me

I've enough going on in my life without the added stress of a partner lol x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Then :

1. I am not attracted to (most) gay men.

2. I can't get sexually intimate with women (tried, get married and failed).

3. It's illegal to crossdress in public in my country and risk getting fired, caught and will bring shame to my family and friends.

4. A bit OCD and thus very uncomfortable to live with someone else.

Now:

- am too old, too late, too ugly, too ocd, too unconvincing, too intimidating and too comfortable in being single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that I am single anymore...

Ooh good news?!

Well it's newish but right now I'm not meeting anyone from here to see what happens

Good luck.

Thank you ... It's going well so far

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No fucker wants me

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I'm not but if Mr N and I weren't together I think I would be single because I would be too up front about my requirements of a relationship on day one and nobody would return for a second date. Also I suspect I'm a very acquired taste and nobody would stick around to acquire it. I would also be put off very easily by loud breathing, odd table manners and a funny look in their eye.

All in all I'm quite a catch

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To quote someone who shall remain nameless, "you'd kill any man you lived with"

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"To quote someone who shall remain nameless, "you'd kill any man you lived with"

I mean clumsy fingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had an awful break up and don’t ever want to feel like that again.

Plus I feel empowered making my way through life solo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I want to be

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By *andyladMan over a year ago

Hereorthere

Purely outta choice

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS over a year ago

Larne

Like it

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By *lanemikeMan over a year ago

Bolton

I really do not like being single, certainly not by my choice. No one will have me !!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Not a clue. I’ve been single since 1987 and I’m the common denominator so it must be me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I split with my partner of 15 years to become single and fuck about. I have no desire or need to be in a relationship again. It's been seven years now and I prefer to be single, as I don't have to put my inbuilt domestic skills to use unless I want to.

Plus I have heard from men and women over the years of all the affairs and cheating and disease ridden rotters, that I don't think I want to be in a relationship, whilst the world is so wickedly tempting and tarnished.

There doesn't have to be something wrong with a person, just because they don't need a plus one to get through life, it's really rather fun going it alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I,m single because Charlie can run faster than me and I can't catch him xxx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

"Me, it’s either cause I’m a maverick, I can’t be tied down, I need to spread this love around, or I’m incredible annoying and no woman will put up with my bullshit!

So, why are you single, what’s the matter with you ?"

I choose to be and I actually don't think I'm gf material. I'm far to sexually demanding for a start and I don't share my home space well with partners

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Lost the love of my life to Cancer and no one will ever fill his shoes again ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lost the love of my life to Cancer and no one will ever fill his shoes again .... "

so sad beautiful sorry to hear xx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

"Because I’m confused

I want a man but only when it suits me.

I like my space etc but do miss snuggles and cuddles."

Now there's a classic story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's too much hassle

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

"I was a terrible wife

I used to have one of them. Still we can't be good at everthing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a great wife, sadly she passed away with secondary lung cancer, I cared for her till the end, I’ve been a widow since.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

"My taste in men is shit

Another story as old as time it's self.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm way too fugly.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lost the love of my life to Cancer and no one will ever fill his shoes again .... "

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"I had a great wife, sadly she passed away with secondary lung cancer, I cared for her till the end, I’ve been a widow since."

Same here ... not a wife but a partner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a great wife, sadly she passed away with secondary lung cancer, I cared for her till the end, I’ve been a widow since.

Same here ... not a wife but a partner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I won't be controlled ...by anybody. I'd rather be single then have to do stuff I don't want to.

My (recent) ex-wife tried. Failed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When losing someone almost kills you too, it puts you off doing it again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When losing someone almost kills you too, it puts you off doing it again"

Agreed

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"When losing someone almost kills you too, it puts you off doing it again"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes think it's because I'm just not enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When someone almost kills you, it puts you off doing it again"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I attract cunts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I can't be bothered to put the work in needed for a relationship.

It would take someone really amazing for me to want to make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am single because I like the freedom, as I can do what I want when I want it

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"I attract cunts

This

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

There doesn't have to me anything the matter to be single. I think that's a bad outlook.

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By *ood luking looserMan over a year ago

Town

I don't get the hints when someone flirts.

I'm too shy to approach.

I get sock fluff everywhere.

I forget to put toilet seat down.

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By *hisCharmingMan over a year ago

South Manchester

I’m a Smiths fan, therefore a miserable bastard

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Because I’m honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women are shy around me, or maybe I look villianous!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a bit broken.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because all my life consists of is work and I'm never in the same place for long.

I've gone to like the single life now. I have needs though, but hey ho il live.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There doesn't have to me anything the matter to be single. I think that's a bad outlook."

I know some women automatically think that men are weird because they're single

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I choose to be on my own, I enjoy others company but I also enjoy the quiet moments.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

Truth? Because I fell for someone and when I told her she laughed in my face .....

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"I’m a bit broken.

Me too"

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By *orthernlidMan over a year ago

liverpool

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By *orthernlidMan over a year ago

liverpool

Because not many women like bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married childhood sweetheart and she broke me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get bored after the initial fuck like rabbits stage and need to move on so just easier to stay single haha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I'm much happier being single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because I’m honest

I think this is mine, everyone asks for it but nobody really wants it.

This thread is amazing btw, if only dating sites had profiles like some of these responses...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been single for the last 26 years by choice, I'm not actually capable of emotional attachment

, very happily so. Sorry but no bad reasons here ... just is happily so!

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Lost the love of my life to Cancer and no one will ever fill his shoes again ....

so sad beautiful sorry to hear xx"

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