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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hard on here being a single guy nearly every message I send either gets deleted or no replys I'm not ever rude or insulting in any way anyone got some advice much appreciated thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many threads on this subject.
Work on yr profile. It literally tells people nothing.
It's just a numbers game I'm afraid. Too many Men.
You need to stand out |
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Your profile is your shop window, you need to sell yourself.
You've got no public pix apart from your avatar, and the profile text is generic too.
I reply to message that catch my eye, stand out, and maybe have a bit of humour about them.
You're up against hundreds of other guys so you need to stand out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this subject.
Work on yr profile. It literally tells people nothing.
It's just a numbers game I'm afraid. Too many Men.
You need to stand out"
Fyi you shouldn't give people profile advice if they haven't specifically asked for it... you could get a time out for being unintentionally helpful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By rude or insulting I mean regarding the messages I'm sending that's all thanks"
I know. But if that’s the only good quality about your message, then it isn’t enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Birds on here are stuck up boss, upload a face pic loads birds up for abit with me recently
Stuck up? Care to qualify that statement? "
I think he means they knock him back - so he thinks that makes them stuck up!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not hard at all. We are inundated with cheesy poorly written messages, that clearly show someone didn’t read our profile.
However people who show they have get a reply, even if it’s no thanks.
We don’t ask for war and peace. Just how you’d approach someone in a pub/on the street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Birds on here are stuck up boss, upload a face pic loads birds up for abit with me recently
Stuck up? Care to qualify that statement?
I think he means they knock him back - so he thinks that makes them stuck up!! "
Agreed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as"
Ooooooo..... popcorn at the ready and keeping an eye on the emergency exit here... I think this may turn violent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?"
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude  "
Its not...its allowed..
See the FAQs
No reply means no interest and move along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude "
Do you know how messages women get in one day? Have you read fab Q and A’s? It’s not obligatory to reply. Just take a no reply as a no thankyou.
PS. I ain’t stuck up bro |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Its not...its allowed..
See the FAQs
No reply means no interest and move along"
You have every right too I didn't say it wasn't allowed hahaha I said it's rude and stuck up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard on here being a single guy nearly every message I send either gets deleted or no replys I'm not ever rude or insulting in any way anyone got some advice much appreciated thanks"
well try a social event as here its only for chatting and not meeting as most men found out..  |
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in "
Nobody has to do anything they dont want to you know, and to think they do says more about you than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard on here being a single guy nearly every message I send either gets deleted or no replys I'm not ever rude or insulting in any way anyone got some advice much appreciated thanks well try a social event as here its only for chatting and not meeting as most men found out.. "
You're so far wrong it's ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in "
Ok let’s turn it around. What if I just genuinely don’t want to reply to someone? Are you saying I must or I’m stuck up?
What if someone in the street approached me who I didn’t want to talk to, must I to avoid being stuck up?
Must I reply to spam emails I don’t want to to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the phone to ppi people to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the door to salespeople to avoid being stuck up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Do you know how messages women get in one day? Have you read fab Q and A’s? It’s not obligatory to reply. Just take a no reply as a no thankyou.
PS. I ain’t stuck up bro "
I can imagine you get quite a few but I still think it's rude that you don't reply to them..... But as you say it's your right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in
Ok let’s turn it around. What if I just genuinely don’t want to reply to someone? Are you saying I must or I’m stuck up?
What if someone in the street approached me who I didn’t want to talk to, must I to avoid being stuck up?
Must I reply to spam emails I don’t want to to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the phone to ppi people to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the door to salespeople to avoid being stuck up?"
Yes you are you just proved my point thanks for that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Its not...its allowed..
See the FAQs
No reply means no interest and move along
You have every right too I didn't say it wasn't allowed hahaha I said it's rude and stuck up "
Why should I reply to the guy that didn't read my profile, and clearly doesn't match what I'm looking for? I didn't ask for him to message. Isn't he the ignorant one for discarding what I'm looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in
Ok let’s turn it around. What if I just genuinely don’t want to reply to someone? Are you saying I must or I’m stuck up?
What if someone in the street approached me who I didn’t want to talk to, must I to avoid being stuck up?
Must I reply to spam emails I don’t want to to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the phone to ppi people to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the door to salespeople to avoid being stuck up?
Yes you are you just proved my point thanks for that
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I fail to see your logic, just because person a feels the need for interaction from person b doesn’t make person b stuck up and rude for not interacting. It makes person a feel entitled to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this subject.
Work on yr profile. It literally tells people nothing.
It's just a numbers game I'm afraid. Too many Men.
You need to stand out
Fyi you shouldn't give people profile advice if they haven't specifically asked for it... you could get a time out for being unintentionally helpful "
Lmao....noted!!!!
Women are Stuck up?
You know how to win friends and influence people. Clearly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this subject.
Work on yr profile. It literally tells people nothing.
It's just a numbers game I'm afraid. Too many Men.
You need to stand out
Fyi you shouldn't give people profile advice if they haven't specifically asked for it... you could get a time out for being unintentionally helpful
Lmao....noted!!!!
Women are Stuck up?
You know how to win friends and influence people. Clearly"
It’s against forum rules to discuss someone’s profile unless they’ve specifically asked for advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this subject.
Work on yr profile. It literally tells people nothing.
It's just a numbers game I'm afraid. Too many Men.
You need to stand out
Fyi you shouldn't give people profile advice if they haven't specifically asked for it... you could get a time out for being unintentionally helpful
Lmao....noted!!!!
Women are Stuck up?
You know how to win friends and influence people. Clearly
It’s against forum rules to discuss someone’s profile unless they’ve specifically asked for advice "
That's why I said "noted"
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I know we're not supposed to give profile advice unless invited to, but, yours is only 2 and a half lines long, the first line only tells us what is visible further down.
Tell us more about yourself, not just looking for fun with genuine ladies, what you can provide, and inject a little humour in there as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know we're not supposed to give profile advice unless invited to, but, yours is only 2 and a half lines long, the first line only tells us what is visible further down.
Tell us more about yourself, not just looking for fun with genuine ladies, what you can provide, and inject a little humour in there as well "
That's both of us in the shit now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know we're not supposed to give profile advice unless invited to, but, yours is only 2 and a half lines long, the first line only tells us what is visible further down.
Tell us more about yourself, not just looking for fun with genuine ladies, what you can provide, and inject a little humour in there as well
That's both of us in the shit now."
Tut tut tut tut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in
Ok let’s turn it around. What if I just genuinely don’t want to reply to someone? Are you saying I must or I’m stuck up?
What if someone in the street approached me who I didn’t want to talk to, must I to avoid being stuck up?
Must I reply to spam emails I don’t want to to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the phone to ppi people to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the door to salespeople to avoid being stuck up?
Yes you are you just proved my point thanks for that
I fail to see your logic, just because person a feels the need for interaction from person b doesn’t make person b stuck up and rude for not interacting. It makes person a feel entitled to be honest."
If you say so I think it's rude.... They call it opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Its not...its allowed..
See the FAQs
No reply means no interest and move along
You have every right too I didn't say it wasn't allowed hahaha I said it's rude and stuck up
Why should I reply to the guy that didn't read my profile, and clearly doesn't match what I'm looking for? I didn't ask for him to message. Isn't he the ignorant one for discarding what I'm looking for?"
Yes you should and yes they are lazy and ignorant I agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will get slated for this but I really dont give a f**k.
Men are the minority on here think I read a ratio of 80/1 somewhere.
But plenty of women in the real world, instead of spending hrs trying to get a meet, why not go out into the real world.
I personally cant be arsed sending pointless messages.
Learn to be a player.
But then I do have a FWB, that I did meet of here in the first week. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman who don't reply to a message are stuck up simple as
Why?
Because ignoring someone is stuck up in my opinion you might not agree with it but that's where debate comes in
Ok let’s turn it around. What if I just genuinely don’t want to reply to someone? Are you saying I must or I’m stuck up?
What if someone in the street approached me who I didn’t want to talk to, must I to avoid being stuck up?
Must I reply to spam emails I don’t want to to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the phone to ppi people to avoid being stuck up?
Must I answer the door to salespeople to avoid being stuck up?
Yes you are you just proved my point thanks for that
I fail to see your logic, just because person a feels the need for interaction from person b doesn’t make person b stuck up and rude for not interacting. It makes person a feel entitled to be honest.
If you say so I think it's rude.... They call it opinion"
That’s a fair point, but people feel that because they’ve done something, someone should do back for them. That’s entitlement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know we're not supposed to give profile advice unless invited to, but, yours is only 2 and a half lines long, the first line only tells us what is visible further down.
Tell us more about yourself, not just looking for fun with genuine ladies, what you can provide, and inject a little humour in there as well
That's both of us in the shit now."
3 actually but I only reported the blokes and let the woman off |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Do you know how messages women get in one day? Have you read fab Q and A’s? It’s not obligatory to reply. Just take a no reply as a no thankyou.
PS. I ain’t stuck up bro
I can imagine you get quite a few but I still think it's rude that you don't reply to them..... But as you say it's your right "
I'll ignore you if you are rude or come across as a twat.
The fact you describe yourself as ridiculously good looking is an instant delete. Think the pots calling the kettle black sunshine... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a woman don't want to meet me that ain't stuck up in the slightest, it's when they don't have the courtesy to reply it stuck up and rude
Do you know how messages women get in one day? Have you read fab Q and A’s? It’s not obligatory to reply. Just take a no reply as a no thankyou.
PS. I ain’t stuck up bro
I can imagine you get quite a few but I still think it's rude that you don't reply to them..... But as you say it's your right
I'll ignore you if you are rude or come across as a twat.
The fact you describe yourself as ridiculously good looking is an instant delete. Think the pots calling the kettle black sunshine... "
Wow I'm glad you told me that, some random couple have deleted me... How am I going to sleep tonight hahaha |
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".... Like many single men, Meowzebub, lived in a almost perpetual state of confusion, baffled by his peers, ostracised by those that had achieved collective greatness and avoided by carefree libertines alike, he wandered the forums searching for posts that resonated with his own experiences. The silent cries of the UNLOS were confirmation of the cock-aching narrative that had developed overtime, the "whys" and the "sighs" coupled with the "rolling eyes" all cemented a feeling of hopeless expectation....
On this day, however, the devils cat began to wonder a wonder.... and in the wondering of that wonder his mind began to wander and he thought to himself..... if ben has three apples and Jonathan two.. why does Sally have peaches....."
and that ladies and gentleman, is perhaps the answer to the cries of those that have been lost in exuberant expectation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"".... Like many single men, Meowzebub, lived in a almost perpetual state of confusion, baffled by his peers, ostracised by those that had achieved collective greatness and avoided by carefree libertines alike, he wandered the forums searching for posts that resonated with his own experiences. The silent cries of the UNLOS were confirmation of the cock-aching narrative that had developed overtime, the "whys" and the "sighs" coupled with the "rolling eyes" all cemented a feeling of hopeless expectation....
On this day, however, the devils cat began to wonder a wonder.... and in the wondering of that wonder his mind began to wander and he thought to himself..... if ben has three apples and Jonathan two.. why does Sally have peaches....."
and that ladies and gentleman, is perhaps the answer to the cries of those that have been lost in exuberant expectation"
Is the answer something to do with fruit salad? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hard on here being a single guy nearly every message I send either gets deleted or no replys I'm not ever rude or insulting in any way anyone got some advice much appreciated thanks well try a social event as here its only for chatting and not meeting as most men found out..
You're so far wrong it's ridiculous. "
HA HA i always wrong never right but there a say you all ways right till proven wrong in life |
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By *ux19Man
over a year ago
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"I know we're not supposed to give profile advice unless invited to, but, yours is only 2 and a half lines long, the first line only tells us what is visible further down.
Tell us more about yourself, not just looking for fun with genuine ladies, what you can provide, and inject a little humour in there as well
That's both of us in the shit now.
3 actually but I only reported the blokes and let the woman off "
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I don't think he is wrong about people being stuck up, I notice that many stick to interacting with a select few."
Well all we do have limits to our social interactions. Take Facebook for instance, how many people from peoples "friends" do they actually interact with on even a semi-regular basis? It's a small fraction of the total I assure you as we just aren't equipped to deal with so many interactions. |
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