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How many women struggle to cum on a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening. "
I do.. eventually i tell my meet to get on with it or we'd be here all day
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How much of it is down to you struggling and how much because of the lack of skills in certain partners? "
Personally?
Mental block. I know why. It's a work in process. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening. "
So much depends on psychological factors and a host of subconscious nuances that I suppose can determine your ability to just relax and let go completely.
I'm sure you still have a good time op. Sex is pleasurable even without climaxing. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ermm, I have on a couple of meets. But if the chemistry is all there and I can truly relax with that person, I normally can't stop myself from orgasming a lot.
If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ermm, I have on a couple of meets. But if the chemistry is all there and I can truly relax with that person, I normally can't stop myself from orgasming a lot.
If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me."
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I hate the pressure. I personally don't struggle, but for me an orgasm is about the person having it and not about or for anyone else. Let's just all try to enjoy each other without worrying about ticking off boxes set by porn. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.
Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met? "
 I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.
Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met?
I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should. "
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.
Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met?
I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should. "
Oh my gawd, it’s like Ghostbusters - don’t let the streams cross!! |
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I don't always cum...I'd like to ( I tend to help myself if it's not working) I need my head and body stimulating. A bit of passion.. sensuality. I have evolved and tend to choose my meets differently now. I like real intimacy. I didn't realise I'd been missing that til recently |
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If I wasn't orgasming on a meet I wouldn't be bothering.
I know what gets me off, I know how to get me off.
I had plenty of Meh sex in my 2Os. The upside of that is I'm confident in asking for what I want or showing someone what I need.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?
Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended) |
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"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?
Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended) "
Absolutely. |
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"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?
Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended)
Absolutely. "
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"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?
Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended) "
Precisely ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't always need or want to cum from sex, its sort of a pleasant but fleeting moment, I get more from the actual feelings of sex itself and all its attendant delights. |
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