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over a year ago
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OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia "
When you message people they tend to look at your profile first so it would help if you wrote one... oh and dick pics for avatars won't help  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
thank you for the advise |
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it."
Most women don’t get the hundreds of messages that men seem to think they get. Yes some do, but many, many don’t. They use their filters affectively.
Even if I’m on the hot pics and I do get hundreds of messages, I’ll be sure to read the messages when I have the time. If this means hiding my profile for 20 mins or so to do so, that’s fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck "
It’s not really about luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia
When you message people they tend to look at your profile first so it would help if you wrote one... oh and dick pics for avatars won't help "
thanks for the advice |
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over a year ago
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Is your thread title an indication of the type of message you send? If it is, then it's very short, irrelevant and gives no info about who or what you are. Be descriptive, stand out from the crowd, grab someone's attention so much that they can't ignore you (but not in a creepy stalker way!) |
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"Is your thread title an indication of the type of message you send? If it is, then it's very short, irrelevant and gives no info about who or what you are. Be descriptive, stand out from the crowd, grab someone's attention so much that they can't ignore you (but not in a creepy stalker way!)"
thank you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck
It’s not really about luck "
thanks for the advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.
Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?
Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.
People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it."
I think I lack confidence to be honest and don't know how to strike a conversation |
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Have you read FAQ, the section about messages? No reply in Fab terms means the person you sent the message to is not interested in chatting/meeting. Just move on. |
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