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"You seem angry. Would you like a milkyway and a glass of milk OP?" Not angry, just putting up a proposal I want to see what people think. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Na your alright we will stick to what works. On another note make sure the person who pissed on your parade washes their hands after please | |||
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"You seem angry. Would you like a milkyway and a glass of milk OP?" This!  Av xx | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" No, I think they should get a silver blue Peter badge. Every credit for doing something right and enjoying themselves and obviously enjoying other people. | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!" I asked why | |||
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"Yeah boss you could be right...Why 30?? " Didn't want to set the bar too low or high. | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean "Dunno, I asked why but haven’t received an answer  | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean "Original poster....the person who started the thread | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean "Either someones knocked him back, or he's got PMT. Maybe both  | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked why" Most of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Think this applies to anyone and everyone irrespective of their veri quota - it’s not going to happen anytime soon though | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean
Original poster....the person who started the thread "Too early in the morning for me too. Thought you wanted to know what OP meant, not what THE OP meant. I have no idea on the second bit | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment." --- 2cents have no value in the swinging economy | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Think this applies to anyone and everyone irrespective of their veri quota - it’s not going to happen anytime soon though " | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? No, I think they should get a silver blue Peter badge. Every credit for doing something right and enjoying themselves and obviously enjoying other people. " this | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight "I've 29 ,I'm borderline | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight "Sounds good. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" I’ve got tons of veris op! A lot of social but a fair few are from people I’ve shagged! I don’t think I have a hyper righteous attitude though! The only thing I disapprove of is multiple bareback partners - for pretty obvious reasons! Xx | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.--- 2cents have no value in the swinging economy" | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean
Original poster....the person who started the thread
Too early in the morning for me too. Thought you wanted to know what OP meant, not what THE OP meant.
I have no idea on the second bit "Still too early. Made me laugh | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I’ve got tons of veris op! A lot of social but a fair few are from people I’ve shagged! I don’t think I have a hyper righteous attitude though! The only thing I disapprove of is multiple bareback partners - for pretty obvious reasons! Xx" | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight
I've 29 ,I'm borderline "Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight
I've 29 ,I'm borderline
Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream "You go girl | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked why Most of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment." I don’t have 30 | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment." Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. Tea | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. Tea" So if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? | |||
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"we have 27 we been here 10+ years so that less that 3 a year damn i must stop being righteous!!!! lol " No prizes for numbers but prizes for good attitude handed out later. | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight
I've 29 ,I'm borderline
Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream "Ah now when you get to 300 you're ten times more hyper righteous than when you get to 30 | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight
I've 29 ,I'm borderline
Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream
Ah now when you get to 300 you're ten times more hyper righteous than when you get to 30 "Could that be true? | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Guilty as charged. I've the most righteous attitude imaginable | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Guilty as charged. I've the most righteous attitude imaginable "Describe that attitude, it may be commendable? | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" No cos all my verys are just social only verys | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? No cos all my verys are just social only verys "You have now stepped into the pool of the hyper righteous without knowing it! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? No cos all my verys are just social only verys You have now stepped into the pool of the hyper righteous without knowing it! " sounds about right. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" gaviscon it's the only way | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? " You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. " holyer than thou | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. " Meaning:Justified morally. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" They would never admit to having such an attitude. They are always right.  | |||
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"Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous "Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. | |||
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"Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. "Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment. | |||
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean "Good question. What is a hyper righteous attitude anyway? How does it manifest itself? | |||
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"Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment."attitude is everything in our opinion.... | |||
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"Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment.
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"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean
Good question. What is a hyper righteous attitude anyway? How does it manifest itself? "Manifests itself in over the top judgments. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Surely the ones who need to modify their attitude is those with less than 3?  | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Surely the ones who need to modify their attitude is those with less than 3? "Maybe I'll do another post about numbers and pride! | |||
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"I don't pound all the people I meet though Sometimes I just cum into their hair " | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally." Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly? Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there? Tea Tea | |||
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"Oh crumbs! Well, it depends on the veris! If they’re bad veris don’t worry! But if they’re good ones? Anyone with more than 30 decent veris on here has earned the respect of the rest of us! They are in the first league, only surpassed by those in the Premier league with over 100 or even 1000 veris! Those are your ulti-mates! The awesome fabbers that make the Ancient Roman Orgyites look pretty tame! They are the ones who have truly attained the Holy Grail of eternal lust! " Numbers mean nothing.. are they decent and friendly behind all that? Do you care how your treated? | |||
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"Gah ... veris are so often smoke and mirrors anyway. The ones that go unpublished or are bought out on special occasions only, the ones from numerous meets that were never written in the first place, the near useless ones where the author never actually met or spoke to the person concerned but apparently 'saw' them across a crowded room and are therefore happy to confirm they exist (probably in the hope they get a similarly banal veri in return). In other words, if you try to surmise attitudes typically displayed by those with this or that number of verifications - or the *type* of verifications for that matter - you could be totally barking up the wrong tree anyway! You're either a judgemental sort or not and your veris are unlikely to change that regardless of quality or quantity." The number quoted (30) show activity on Fab. The verifications themselves are of no use in having an idea of the attitude of the person receiving them, that's obvious.Their profile which carries those verification numbers does. | |||
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"Oh dear did someone jizz in your coffee this morning? Or is it the lack of jizz going anywhere for you the problem? Verifications are to show appreciation to whoever it was you met. Doesn’t have to be sexual all the time. However we do read through them and when we come across a profile (couples mostly) that have over 25 we are cautious in case they’re a quantity over quality type. S x " It's interesting that a few people presume a post comes off the back of lack of 'activity'. Many men are 'handled' that way on this site. You mentioned sexual/non sexual I never highlighted either of those in my original post. Now whose got sex on their brain? | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" When you have 30 veris will you move the bar to 50? | |||
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"Oh dear did someone jizz in your coffee this morning? Or is it the lack of jizz going anywhere for you the problem? Verifications are to show appreciation to whoever it was you met. Doesn’t have to be sexual all the time. However we do read through them and when we come across a profile (couples mostly) that have over 25 we are cautious in case they’re a quantity over quality type. S x It's interesting that a few people presume a post comes off the back of lack of 'activity'. Many men are 'handled' that way on this site. You mentioned sexual/non sexual I never highlighted either of those in my original post. Now whose got sex on their brain? "This is an exploration of attitudes! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Attitude about what? | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally. Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly? Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there? Tea Tea" I understand what you are getting at and I agree.people on there profiles say not fucking my way through site. Then they say they want nsa, well I reckon if you only stay with a couple of friends eventuly there will be strings. And one thing people are forgetting this is a swingers site. We all have different needs and quirks. Why Do some have to be so judgmental. Just do what we all like and get on like one big family. Does it rely matter if you sleep with whole or not, if you have you lucky fucker | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? When you have 30 veris will you move the bar to 50?" No lower it to ten! | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally. Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly? Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there? Tea Tea I understand what you are getting at and I agree.people on there profiles say not fucking my way through site. Then they say they want nsa, well I reckon if you only stay with a couple of friends eventuly there will be strings. And one thing people are forgetting this is a swingers site. We all have different needs and quirks. Why Do some have to be so judgmental. Just do what we all like and get on like one big family. Does it rely matter if you sleep with whole or not, if you have you lucky fucker" I like the way you put that, and I hope this post doesn't come across as fun censoring! | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous? There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP. Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go. Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot. Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance. TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally. Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly? Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there? Tea Tea" cmon make an assumption | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?" I think that was the point the OP was trying to make or leading to. I've been around this site for about 7 years now, in that time I've probably had well over a hundred verifications, possibly about 20 a year, 90% socials. If people want to get judgemental about my choices regarding my body and my time then that's their issue. Tea | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Iv never met anyone that has that kind of attitude and i dont have that kind of attitude either even though i have lots more than 30 veris on my couples profile ! | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?" Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! " I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. " Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference. "Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. "A powerful statement! | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. A powerful statement!"How? . Just my opinion | |||
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" I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. " I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers. Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up. Tea | |||
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" I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers. Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up. Tea" Exactly and as for explicit ones, Not for me thanks. Whenever I’ve met someone we leave a social veri. If you meet again I don’t see the point in another one to be honest. I’ve asked people not to do them. | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment." you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement.... its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't stop going off. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. A powerful statement!
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement.... its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't stop going off. " Reasonable judgments v over the top judgments 2 different things. We even judge various judgements. No problem with that. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. A powerful statement!
How? . Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement"."I was saying that. As long as I know they’re not fake before I meet them, which is easy to ascertain, then I don’t see the issue. Hence me not understanding why so many people filter out those with no veris. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. A powerful statement!
How? . Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement".
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"What I'm really getting at is the more experience a person has on Fab shouldn't it make them less jugdmental. Not in having an opinion or exercising choices, but in the over the top quick to judge style of doing things." I don’t judge people for what they choose to do and how they choose to use fab as it doesn’t affect me in the slightest. If I were thinking of meeting them then yes I will make my own judgements and this may include how many sexual veris they show on their profile and even who they’ve met before. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. "Well, as it happens, Nora, I currently have none! | |||
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"I've got less than thirty veris...does this mean I can be as hyper righteous as I like?" Guess so! With no veris I have a right to be more righteous than everyone else here! Right! | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none.
Well, as it happens, Nora, I currently have none! "Haha awww. Well as it happens I’m not meeting at the moment. I have what I need. Good luck though | |||
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"I've got less than thirty veris...does this mean I can be as hyper righteous as I like? Guess so! With no veris I have a right to be more righteous than everyone else here! Right! "you can be more righteous than me if you like | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" What about over 230? Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards? | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? What about over 230? Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards?" Not saying that ,just thinking of the hyper types who sound like they hate all mankind via their profiles! | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement.... its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't xstop going off. " It's all in the perception! Quote: "I'm having a good time" Quote: not "heavy or bad" Quote:" two cents of light-hearted judgment. | |||
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"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question! I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment. you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement.... its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't xstop going off. It's all in the perception! Quote: "I'm having a good time" Quote: not "heavy or bad" Quote:" two cents of light-hearted judgment." ". | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Oh dear who turned you down lol | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? What about over 230? Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards?" with 100 veris you can only be a little bit righteous..but more righteous than the 230 people | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Oh dear who turned you down lol" No one, best read the whole thread if your interested! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Oops just checked ours were on 29 Do we stop meeting or could we delete a few. By the way can you describe hyper righteous need to look out for symptoms after our 30th veri | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Oh dear who turned you down lolNo one, best read the whole thread if your interested!" Not really interested was just replying to your question | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Lol you have issues | |||
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"Better 30 safe ones than one that shows you like playing Russian roulette "Well said sir ! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" I've over 200 veris and am righteous. 97% of my veris are in relation to socials or events I've hosted so can be as righteous as I like | |||
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" I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers. Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up. Tea Exactly and as for explicit ones, Not for me thanks. Whenever I’ve met someone we leave a social veri. If you meet again I don’t see the point in another one to be honest. I’ve asked people not to do them. " Did we just agree again?! That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread
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" I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers. Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up. Tea Exactly and as for explicit ones, Not for me thanks. Whenever I’ve met someone we leave a social veri. If you meet again I don’t see the point in another one to be honest. I’ve asked people not to do them. Did we just agree again?! That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread
Tea"Haha I’m loving this you and I keep agreeing thing! Who’da thunk it!!! | |||
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" I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers. Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up. Tea Exactly and as for explicit ones, Not for me thanks. Whenever I’ve met someone we leave a social veri. If you meet again I don’t see the point in another one to be honest. I’ve asked people not to do them. Did we just agree again?! That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread
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Haha I’m loving this you and I keep agreeing thing! Who’da thunk it!!! "Isnt it in Revelation as a portent of the end of days; " vi: and yay when Tea Monkey and Nora doth agree, the skies shall darken. vii: rain shall pour in June and men shall weep. | |||
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. "Same. | |||
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"What I'm really getting at is the more experience a person has on Fab shouldn't it make them less jugdmental. Not in having an opinion or exercising choices, but in the over the top quick to judge style of doing things." More verifications = more people they've met, more experiences to back up their decisions and opinions. Good or bad. | |||
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"What I'm really getting at is the more experience a person has on Fab shouldn't it make them less jugdmental. Not in having an opinion or exercising choices, but in the over the top quick to judge style of doing things. More verifications = more people they've met, more experiences to back up their decisions and opinions. Good or bad." | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Calm down tired. Not everybody has attitude on FAB. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Oops just checked ours were on 29 Do we stop meeting or could we delete a few. By the way can you describe hyper righteous need to look out for symptoms after our 30th veri " hyper righteous; It means frenzied over the top jugdments. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Calm down tired. Not everybody has attitude on FAB." Some people have though and it's revealed in their attitude! | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" No. Next question | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? Lol you have issues "Do you read much? | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!" I'm at 140+ Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation. Thirsty work...... | |||
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"Dare not look how many we have, so dislike any basic form of “ism” Especially projection- ism." I've got an attitude of Dont Give A Fuck-ism | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60! I'm at 140+ Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation. Thirsty work...... "I’m on 295  | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread..." Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no." Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? What about over 230? Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards? with 100 veris you can only be a little bit righteous..but more righteous than the 230 people" 100 visible, the rest were from folks who have since moved on....its a shame we have to loose their veries when they go. | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no." Do they chuff......and who makes anyone better or wiser than anyone else......we are not all wired the same...my perspective on something will be completely different from yours dsnt mean either of us are wrong or right.... | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. Do they chuff......and who makes anyone better or wiser than anyone else......we are not all wired the same...my perspective on something will be completely different from yours dsnt mean either of us are wrong or right...." The exercising of wisdom, may help a person to be wise...and the same for the foolish in their realm, some things never change. | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way." I think it depends on their experiences. Bad experiences may make them more critical sooner. Good experiences may make them more trusting and hence possibly also less judgemental. Lots of hyper frenzy on this thread. | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Would I be viewed as hyper righteous with my 7 veris??? I have actually met more... But not everyone brothers to leave veris. Lazy fuckers  | |||
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"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep. I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good. The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number. I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way. I think it depends on their experiences. Bad experiences may make them more critical sooner. Good experiences may make them more trusting and hence possibly also less judgemental. Lots of hyper frenzy on this thread. " | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60! I'm at 140+ Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation. Thirsty work......
I’m on 295 "You got game girl!!!!! | |||
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"We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox...... This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?
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"We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox...... This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" My veris are my business. And I don't have to justify myself to anyone here. | |||
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"We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox...... This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60! I'm at 140+ Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation. Thirsty work......
I’m on 295
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"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications? Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else? So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too! I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.
Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none. A powerful statement!
How? . Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement"."I chat to people and if we get on I meet them socially veris mean nothing but everyone will see something in them eg too many and omg, from certain people omg, from TVs or CDs omg, from someone you've met like and still meet or did omg | |||
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have? I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60! I'm at 140+ Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation. Thirsty work......
I’m on 295
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Sadly it’s from the socials! "Do you fancy making 296 a shag?
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"We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox...... This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?
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"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?" Depends what the veris are. Some maybe social. Club. Dnt all have to be fuck meets or are they. You need to go lay down and take deep breaths OP | |||
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"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight
I've 29 ,I'm borderline
Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream "Ooooooh you trollop. Anybody think you were on a swinging site hehehe | |||
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