Ladies help please....
A lady I work with I find I really fancy.... though spoken for out of bounds.
Got me thinking...
In some warped universe we did start seeing each other or I meet someone else...
Should I be honest and let her know about Fabbing ?
I mean everybody has a past right?
Would it be something you,d need to know? Would it be a deal breaker? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never met anyone outside of fab so its not something i have ever had to deal with..
I suppose it depends on their outlook and on how serious you both are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on the person and the relationship.
For me personally I can't see me being with someone who's not sexually liberated and I'd expect them to know that they could tell me anything.
On the other hand there are people who would judge or be upset and it may affect things moving forward so I'm not sure why you would offer up that info to them, I'm not saying lie about it but it is in the past and if you're committed to them and a monogamous relationship then it's irrelevant. |
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It depends how serious the relationship is. If she finds out later, would it ruin everything? If you told her now would she just accept it and either move on or express interest?
If it's not a serious relationship then I'd say keep quiet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I don't think there's a single definitive answer to the question OP - It's something that would have to be answered on a case by case basis according to circumstances and personal judgement - however most new couples have "that conversation" fairly early on about prior sexual history - guess that would be the time to make that judgement call. |
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Thanks for the responses guys...
Would fabbing be deemed worse than...
Watching explicit porn addict...
Serial one night stander...
A liar..
A drug user.....
A guy who pays for sex....
A home/ family wrecker...
A cheat....
Undeclared offspring.....
Etc etc etc
Etc ,etc,etc....
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"Thanks for the responses guys...
Would fabbing be deemed worse than...
Watching explicit porn addict...
Serial one night stander...
A liar..
A drug user.....
A guy who pays for sex....
A home/ family wrecker...
A cheat....
Undeclared offspring.....
Etc etc etc
Etc ,etc,etc....
"
To who? Everyone has different criteria for what's acceptable and what's not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly OP? I'm kind of secretly seeing someone at work, he knows about fab. But he's the only person I work with who knows. If I enter into a sexual relationship with someone outside of fab, they get told about fab quite early but that I'm not meeting. |
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