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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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Had a really good social last week and when I looked back on the subjects we chatted about, I don’t think I could remember all the subjects, it made me wonder how open people are when meeting.
So what are you like on socials?  |
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over a year ago
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I'm a little slow to start with but once I hit my stride I can talk the hind leg off a donkey..
I had 2 separate socials last week which could not have been more different.. although both had a similar outcome  |
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I tend to let the conversation meander to wherever it wants to go..
The initial conversation will be a top level of fab life followed by maybe some personal stuff..
Sex may not even get mentioned, sometimes it just doesn't feel the right situation..
It is usually just random topics like you would discuss with anyone you meet for the first time as you both try to ascertain some commonality between yourselves. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm a talker so I talk a lot about a lot of things and try ascertain if there's any chemistry or spark. I'm naturally quite an excitable, positive sort and I think on a social I'm much the same. I do enjoy people who you can have a bit of mental masturbation with/be a bit of a sarky bitch to. I like oomph. |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a little slow to start with but once I hit my stride I can talk the hind leg off a donkey..
I had 2 separate socials last week which could not have been more different.. although both had a similar outcome "
Lucky Lady |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I tend to let the conversation meander to wherever it wants to go..
The initial conversation will be a top level of fab life followed by maybe some personal stuff..
Sex may not even get mentioned, sometimes it just doesn't feel the right situation..
It is usually just random topics like you would discuss with anyone you meet for the first time as you both try to ascertain some commonality between yourselves. "
Yes, it’s all about finding that commonality x |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm ok at group socials. It's like speed dating. I manage about 3 minutes then they get bored so I move onto the next victim. "
I seriously doubt they’d get bored after 3 mins with you xx |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Chatty, I over compensate for nerves by chatting a lot of shit. If I click with them, I'll soon calm down and have a giggle.
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Yes, I chat if I’m nervous, it’s the clicking that’s the awesome bit..  |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yet to have any Fab socials but I love first dates.
I like them to be fun and different ....
I've got a pretty good imagination so I like my dates / meets to be remembered for a long time after"
Ooh intriguing |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a talker so I talk a lot about a lot of things and try ascertain if there's any chemistry or spark. I'm naturally quite an excitable, positive sort and I think on a social I'm much the same. I do enjoy people who you can have a bit of mental masturbation with/be a bit of a sarky bitch to. I like oomph. "
Ha ha awesome.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm ok at group socials. It's like speed dating. I manage about 3 minutes then they get bored so I move onto the next victim.
I seriously doubt they’d get bored after 3 mins with you xx"
Aww x |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Very chilled comical no manners blunt as a skink seductive and finish with a helicopter on the tabletop"
That would be worth watching as urban diction reckons this has a 100% failure rate, 3 reported stories of success in Japan though |
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The title of this post sums it up perfectly “Randomness” and made me smile 
No set agenda when meeting, just let the conversation flow, see where it naturally takes you..... sometimes the most bizarre topic you wouldn’t expect to talk about with someone new, just shows how comfortable you both are around each other |
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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
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"The title of this post sums it up perfectly “Randomness” and made me smile
No set agenda when meeting, just let the conversation flow, see where it naturally takes you..... sometimes the most bizarre topic you wouldn’t expect to talk about with someone new, just shows how comfortable you both are around each other "
Yes, this sums it up brilliantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite a chatty person anyway but when I'm nervous I get a bit exciteable and tend to ramble. Most people seem to interpret it as flirting so it's not so bad |
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